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angola_g (m)
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Dear Naira Landers, My girlfriends and boyfriends say's I am a very selfish person, Stingy and self centered. But I don't really know why they choose to label me like that. I am the kind of introvert I don't really like associating much with crowds. Any where there is crowd I don't just feel comfortable e.g. clubs, party and so on But I have a typical method of having my own fun. The worst part, some thing happened of recent and my elder Brother said it to my hearing that I am selfish and wicked. Naira Lander’s would you spend your cash unnecessary when you have not budgeted or give out cash when no one ask for it.
I need to know how I could improve socially dealing with people around me. Any clue to this please drop me some hints.
Thanks
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Dual Core
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heavy interaction with peeps online inhibits your physical interaction with people.
so if u log off nairaland this minute, log off any messenger client u might be running, pick up the phone, call a few friends and tell them u'll be coming over i think u'll be one step closer to solving your problem. cheers.
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mellow (m)
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heavy interaction with peeps online inhibits your physical interaction with people.
so if u log off nairaland this minute, log off any messenger client u might be running, pick up the phone, call a few friends and tell them u'll be coming over i think u'll be one step closer to solving your problem. cheers.
For once I agree with you even though I am not keen on you hooking
up with cream de la spawnie. |
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kokoye (m)
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Also, apart from hanging out, do you help out friends/ family with cash or kind , or why would they also include the word wicked?
are you in a relationship?
I have a cousin who is over 40yrs old and does not have a girlfriend (even friends) simply because he is all these things you have been called - he always feels everyone is out to get something from him.
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Dual Core
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For once I agree with you even though I am not keen on you hooking
up with cream de la spawnie.
but u coming to our beach party/wedding, right? c'mon dude ease up, we both want this and are cool with it. u should like it  cream shouldnt see this o. sey u dey against her stuff. hmmm |
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ima1 (f)
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the thing is people always want to take from you and when you say no, the label you as stingy and selfish. i got that crap from my family telling me i was selfish and stingy and i asked them to tell me when they asked me for something and i did not give it to them, i am the kind of person that puts myself last, if i have it i would give it to you, when they could not come up with a reason then i told them never to call me selfish n stingy, because i am not going to kill myself for nobody.
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iice (f)
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Oh puhleeze! The people sef that like saying are tend to be selfish and greedy.
Some of them are what my ex calls cockroach friends - telling you, you 'get nice car, i fit borrow am? - and 2 weeks later, they still cruising in your car and forget that it belongs to someone else.
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Godalone (m)
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I am not moved by what people say,i do only what i can do for my people and not to be bankrupted because of anybody.Anyone that says you are stingy is also a stingy person.
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ibkaye (f)
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Ignore them jare
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Gamine (f)
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What other clue are you looking for.
someone said,
if one person says you look like a Horse
ignore the person.
IF Everyone says you look like a Horse
GO AND BUY A SADDLE!
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StephenP (m)
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What other clue are you looking for.
someone said,
if one person says you look like a Horse
ignore the person.
IF Everyone says you look like a Horse
GO AND BUY A SADDLE!
True. If everyone says the same thing about you then it most likely true. |
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michelin89 (f)
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@ topic
Nor mind them. Until you have given them all you have, you are always bad.
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