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jek_kad
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Trust me. . . . .You don't want to go that lane with me.
I didn't call you no name, Someone asked if ''any man who does not have sex in his relationship is an eunuch?''
I simply replied saying yes and whats your own problem with that?? did i even direct the response to you??
You replied saying i am OLOSHI. . . . . . .Prolly u thought i wouldnt know what it means.
Try not to vent your anger on this dude if you've had a bad day. . . . . .Its as simple as that!
u wish,as if ive not read your replies in yoruba before, i replied wt that word oloshi because i know that u know exactly what it means which anger,abeg waka far make i see road,bad day ko,bad week ni |
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eldee (m)
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Trust me. . . . .You don't want to go that lane with me.
I didn't call you no name, Someone asked if ''any man who does not have sex in his relationship is an eunuch?''
I simply replied saying yes and whats your own problem with that?? did i even direct the response to you??
You replied saying i am OLOSHI. . . . . . .Prolly u thought i wouldnt know what it means.
Try not to vent your anger on this dude if you've had a bad day. . . . . .Its as simple as that!
Scratch the shizzle jare . . . You need to remember that it's a public forum You can't totally control what people say Just leave it to maturity  |
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jek_kad
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Scratch the shizzle jare . . . You need to remember that it's a public forum You can't totally control what people say Just leave it to maturity by their words we shall know them,see who's talking about maturity |
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The Sly
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Scratch the shizzle jare . . . You need to remember that it's a public forum You can't totally control what people say Just leave it to maturity IIght man. . . . . . . . . . . . .  Bye to this thread. . . . .Just like the saying goes. . . . . .Never argue with a fool, because Onlookers may not know the difference. |
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jek_kad
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IIght man. . . . . . . . . . . . . Bye to this thread. . . . .Just like the saying goes. . . . . .Never argue with a fool, because Onlookers may not know the difference. that makes u a bigger and more defined fool,don't u think so? buhbyee  |
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eldee (m)
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IIght man. . . . . . . . . . . . . Bye to this thread. . . . .Just like the saying goes. . . . . .Never argue with a fool, because Onlookers may not know the difference. Hmmn . . . good choice there . . . It's not easy to differentiate the farmer and the pig when they both roll in the mud together Choose who you drag words with . . . |
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afosam2002 (m)
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Oh well we have taking a lot of time talking a bout if a guy could date a girl without sex, likewise is there any girl out here that can date for real love without the guy spending anything (money) or Credit, anything just only his love and the girl will love himback 100%?  |
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A-40 (m)
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@Orimili You are entitled to your opinion and me to mine i can't spend money on a chic take her out spoil her and not demand for sex damnit i can't have a relationship with any girl of any kind without sex if she aint giving it to me how do i know she is not giving it someone else is that too difficult for your little brain to process  |
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LARRYMcCOY (m)
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@Poster yes it's possible by looking for a 13-15yrs old boy not guy am sure he will be a Virgin, so you can do foreplay since he dosen't even know where to touch or nail you, How many time have you been bang?  am sure you can't even count because you are tired to been mess everytime that's why you are looking for some to take for granted. |
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CH3COO (m)
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I guess you just learnt the phrase 'dumb ass' from the pub today and decided to use it?
F9 English. ''[b][/b]IMPOTENT guys mess too'' If you don't understand "ENGLISH" you can jump up and confesss. I will send down a colony of toddlers to tutor you. I repeat, "impotent guys mess too". |
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Orimili (m)
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@Orimili You are entitled to your opinion and me to mine i can't spend money on a chic take her out spoil her and not demand for sex damnit i can't have a relationship with any girl of any kind without sex if she aint giving it to me how do i know she is not giving it someone else is that too difficult for your little brain to process What's more difficult to process is your absurd attempt at grammar. But I assume that you are trying to say that I do not understand what your position on dating girls are. I do, in fact, understand you, and that is why I made the original comment. I said that by stating the above, that you are basically paying for sex. I suggested that if all you wanted is sex, then you would probably be better off saving all the time and energy of 'spoiling a chic,' and getting a prostitute. You will get laid, and will probably end up saving money in the process. It would be a win-win situation for you. |
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A-40 (m)
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@Orimili
Your brain must consist of cold pap and cobwebs if you don't understand my point its like buying a car fuelling it,cleaning it washing it and servicing it and then you don't drive it.Why would you go through all that trouble of pampering a girl and not demanding for sex at one time or the other during the relationship, this has nothing to do with prostitution Mr so use your head
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Orimili (m)
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@Orimili
Your brain must consist of cold pap and cobwebs if you don't understand my point its like buying a car fuelling it,cleaning it washing it and servicing it and then you don't drive it.Why would you go through all that trouble of pampering a girl and not demanding for sex at one time or the other during the relationship, this has nothing to do with prostitution Mr so use your head
You seem to be more concerned with name-calling (over the internet, of all places), rather than making a sensible counter-argument. That's fine, some people need to validate themselves online, sort of an internet toughguy thing. The car analogy is overused and nonsensical, and you're still repeating the same thing you in your first comment. I'm not going to turn this into a fight, nor do I have the time to explain what I am saying a third time. Go 'wine and dine' your girls with the sole intent of fornicating with them., but this thread is not about your personal conquests. It's about the original poster wanting to know if it was possible to be celibate and in a relationship. You have nothing positive to bring to the thread, so state your peace and move on. This little fight that you want to pick is over, I'm not contributing to it or your ego any further. Good day, sir. @poster: Yes, there are guys out there, but it would be better for you to improve your self-control, If you date someone celibate in order to achieve that, there is a good chance it will not work, as your urges will still be present, causing impaired judgment and can lead to you both making bad decisions. You must attain that self control on your own terms. |
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A-40 (m)
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@Orimili This is a public forum and we all have the rights to express our views i expressed mine and you had a problem with it and i gave you a piece of my mind so what on earth are you complaining about why would i want to pick a fight with you? are you that important?  |
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oyarose (f)
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them plenty wey go date u without sex,but not on nairaland.take ma advice
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topup
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I'm looking for one of those guys.
I told my ex no sex before marriage, but deep in the back on my mind I thought if he happened to be the one for me, there was high chance I could get carried away, we did forplay too.
But if guys have their eyes on sex from the get go, then seriously is that not obvious right there that they don't love you.
Most girls will not have sex with someone who just wants them for the sex, they want a future with the guy, love and respect, and if you're guy is thinking, am not paying for dates if I ain't going to get any, he obviously isn't thinking about your love, because your love is free.
That is another reason why I would encourage girls to chip in with dates and things. Some guys roll like that and they can start to pressure.
Funny thing is all a guy has to do is to prove that he is trustworthy, loyal, sensitive, respectful to a woman, and that sex with her isn't the main thing on his mind and he will probably get it from a lot of girls who'D rather keep their virginity to marriage.
The funny thing is to get sex from a girl, you actually have to not be thinking about getting it, if a woman falls in love with you, she will feel that is then next natural step.
Guys don't get this, because who knows the girl may not fall in love with you, so maybe they use tricks or a pretense to get sex.
Come on now be honest with us, if you leave a girl you claimed to love because she didn't have sex with you, you have to admit a GREAT percentage of the reason why you were with her in the first place was for merely that SEX. - Don't lie now, we can all be honest on this forum!
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CH3COO (m)
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you catalyzed the demise of your relationship. you were not ready to mess the guy but you proceeded with foreplay. Were you hoping to just rev up the engine and then turn it off? Get him hard and then bail?  For the rest of your statement, doesn't really matter much if sex comes first or last if the girl is a ho. If the guy is only interested in sex and he pursues a ho, there's no reason to play games with her. get in get out. |
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topup
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you catalyzed the demise of your relationship. you were not ready to mess the guy but you proceeded with foreplay. Were you hoping to just rev up the engine and then turn it off? Get him hard and then bail? For the rest of your statement, doesn't really matter much if sex comes first or last if the girl is a ho. If the guy is only interested in sex and he pursues a ho, there's no reason to play games with her. get in get out. Yeah, I get it, it was all my fault wasn't it??!!  HMPF! He told me that he believed when you find someone you truly love, that's when he'D have sex and to be honest I think we were pretty much saying the same thing, because I believe if you truly loved someone you'D get married to them, or want to. I asked him if he was okay with my belief and he agreed. What I conclude from your quote is that the line should have been drawn at kissing basically. I don't think it is too much to say other things are allowed but just not penetration, I trust guys can control themselves, the problem was not what we were doing, but that his honest view of sex was very laid back (he had had more casual sex than serious relationships). I think it's not as 'evil' as you're making it sound, 'get him hard and then bail' it involved two people, it's just I wanted the love more than he did. Because I had never had sex before I had nothing to compare anything too, I didn't know what I was missing and so it was probably easier for me to refrain. I think that was the real problem, because if he also was able to control himself then we would have been ok. But believe me he was very used to bringing girls back to his place (before he met me, though he told me that he had changed now and wanted something real something MORE than just physical and he was very eager to look for true love beyond the physical). I wanted someone who wouldn't be into me just for sex and I told him this. I am still going to stand by foreplay because I don't want to be ignorant to my partner's sexual wants and desires, I don't want to arrive on the wedding night and start thinking 'wow, is that what it looks like', I draw the line at sex, I am entitled to, and if a guy doesn't agree with that line then he shouldn't enter the relationship. People do though, because in the back of their minds they hope a) it can work out somehow or b) they can move the line. |
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Orimili (m)
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@Orimili This is a public forum and we all have the rights to express our views i expressed mine and you had a problem with it and i gave you a piece of my mind so what on earth are you complaining about why would i want to pick a fight with you? are you that important? i gave you a piece of my mind There, "piece of my mind." Picking a fight. Name-calling. On the Internet. </Mind Blown> I don't need to find acceptance on the internet, unlike some people. I think you need to calm down and get over yourself, it's only a forum. Go back to telling others how important you are, and now back to the topic on hand. . . |
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CH3COO (m)
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Yeah, I get it, it was all my fault wasn't it??!! HMPF! He told me that he believed when you find someone you truly love, that's when he'D have sex and to be honest I think we were pretty much saying the same thing, because I believe if you truly loved someone you'D get married to them, or want to. I asked him if he was okay with my belief and he agreed. What I conclude from your quote is that the line should have been drawn at kissing basically. I don't think it is too much to say other things are allowed but just not penetration, I trust guys can control themselves, the problem was not what we were doing, but that his honest view of sex was very laid back (he had had more casual sex than serious relationships). I think it's not as 'evil' as you're making it sound, 'get him hard and then bail' it involved two people, it's just I wanted the love more than he did. Because I had never had sex before I had nothing to compare anything too, I didn't know what I was missing and so it was probably easier for me to refrain. I think that was the real problem, because if he also was able to control himself then we would have been ok. But believe me he was very used to bringing girls back to his place (before he met me, though he told me that he had changed now and wanted something real something MORE than just physical and he was very eager to look for true love beyond the physical). I wanted someone who wouldn't be into me just for sex and I told him this. I am still going to stand by foreplay because I don't want to be ignorant to my partner's sexual wants and desires, I don't want to arrive on the wedding night and start thinking 'wow, is that what it looks like', I draw the line at sex, I am entitled to, and if a guy doesn't agree with that line then he shouldn't enter the relationship. People do though, because in the back of their minds they hope a) it can work out somehow or b) they can move the line. Sweetie I wish I could ease your pain but you're so far away. Just drink lots of ice water and pray that your hurt goes away with time. |
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zippo723
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@ hot chic; you're the bomb!!! Great word there.
@Topic, guys like that do exist. After all, we still have women who got deflowered on their wedding nightby their husbands, and also had normal courtship with their husbands before getting married. And will continue to have them.
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obuchineme
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Honestly guys are making relationships sex based,and i don't think there's any guy who will date you without asking for sex.
As for me i have resolved to keep guys(sex) at bay until i tie the knot.because i don't see myself as a sextoy as these guys see ladies these days,so i don't just get close to you to the extent of having sex.Love making or whatever u call it men see it as an avenue to satisfy their sexual cravings and when they need a change they go for another lady.Men are just callous
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okuomose3 (m)
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I was in relationship with a girl of that type too one time and she will not let me have sex with her and she was not a virgin but she claim to have repented from her old ways and she want to become a Holy girl. I said no problem and we where still loving and I was at the sametime looking foe another girl that will be giving me what I wanted. Luckily for I found the one that became my wife today and she came to my house once and the second time we did have sex and nothing like it ever!!
I mean I have never have sex with no other woman in life like her and the way she really have sex with me that day was like having sex with an Angel. We keep it that way until she move in with me and before we know it, we where set for marriage.
We are now husband and wife with three kids and still enjoying our sex big time.
That first girl that will not allowed me to have sex with her is still single and still searching for her Mr. right and she might even be regretting now big time.
Why am I saying this? Sometimes we men just want a woman that will open up for us - in bed and every where. We don't always like those pretending type of women. Sex is good and you know the taste because you have tasted it before, why pretending to be a holy that you are not?
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BangBang! (m)
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I was in relationship with a girl of that type too one time and she will not let me have sex with her and she was not a virgin but she claim to have repented from her old ways and she want to become a Holy girl. I said no problem and we where still loving and I was at the sametime looking foe another girl that will be giving me what I wanted. Luckily for I found the one that became my wife today and she came to my house once and the second time we did have sex and nothing like it ever!!
I mean I have never have sex with no other woman in life like her and the way she really have sex with me that day was like having sex with an Angel. We keep it that way until she move in with me and before we know it, we where set for marriage.
We are now husband and wife with three kids and still enjoying our sex big time.
That first girl that will not allowed me to have sex with her is still single and still searching for her Mr. right and she might even be regretting now big time.
Why am I saying this? Sometimes we men just want a woman that will open up for us - in bed and every where. We don't always like those pretending type of women. Sex is good and you know the taste because you have tasted it before, why pretending to be a holy that you are not?
have u fucked an angel before?! |
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okuomose3 (m)
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My wife is my ANGEL Which ever way an Angel would have do it, that is the way she is doing it for me. |
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BangBang! (m)
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My wife is my ANGEL Which ever way an Angel would have do it, that is the way she is doing it for me. fair enough then! |
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francessby (f)
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there are alot of guy that can date you without having sex with you depending on the condition you gave him or the one he gave you, you know why i sais this some relationship is guided by some conditions made by the partner.
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abikelat
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Even thou na father for Church
I guess you should just keep off guys if u really want to stop fornication
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lidbb2 (m)
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@ poster
some men fit date you without s*xing you, THE MUMU AND MUGU MEN.
all this date me without s*x na long term strategy wey women dey use to turn the men into muppet.
you sef talk am say u no be virgin.
u wan make the man dey carry u go dinner and movies together,dey stroll for park and bar-beach,dey collect presents and cards and even dey kiss kiss and touch touch ,but no s*x?
that one no good, u wan dey receive but u no wan give in return until marraige, when that one go be?3 years??
u selfish.
if u can't stand the heat,stay out of the kitchen.
if u wan date someone,una get to make love, na part of courtship be that.
if u no wan f*ck,no bother to get boyfriend.
u fit wait some months before una do am,if u like but once u trust am,una must do am.
no come preach about fornication here.afterall u no be virgin and no be say them rape u.
na so e be.
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