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Rabeshi
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Does Age really matter in a relationship,
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babasegun (m)
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Since age does not equal maturity and intelligence, I don't think it matters to an extent, just make sure she is in your peer group. age is nothing but a number.
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opokonwa (m)
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@poster Give us a real case study. What is the age difference between you and the girl (or guy)?  |
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lady bam (f)
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@ poster
No, it does'nt
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francessby (f)
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To some people it do matters but for me i can't marry a guy i am older than but i can marry someone we are in the same age bracket.
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coolier (f)
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No. But respect does matter.
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$$Rhino
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Not really, however, please stay away from under age kids, it is not good and do unto others what you want to be done to.
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Joan2 (f)
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Overtime I've been in the midst of people arguing about this topic
They all give reasons for taking whatever stance they take.
Some of the reasons are
A woman that is older than the husband would not respect the husband, especially when she is not so dependent on the husband (i.e she works or has something doing)
Others argue that no matter how much older she is than the man, if she really loves him she would respect him irrespective of whether she depends on him or not
Some guys would say they want ladie quite younger than them say 8 to 10 years gap.
They claim women grow older faster than the men and as such they would want there wives to look quite younger than them as the years passes by.
Some guys also say that it is better for the man to die first than for the woman
If the man is older there is tendency he will die first and as such the woman would be the better one to take care of the children. (Less likelihood of remarrying for women)
Some feel less age gap (between 1-5) years, it puts them in the same kind of setting, and its easier for them to understand themselves.
I really do not see anything wrong with the age thing in relationship because I really do think age is a thing of the mind. There are some 30 year old guys that some 22 year old girl would not think of dating because to them they are immature.
So it really does depend on the people involved.
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lucabrasi (m)
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it does matter but not a focal point,ill say the guy shouldnt be more than 12 years older than the woman or else theres a chance she might be pushing his wheel chair having said that i think you r as old as you feel and a woman can marry a younger man as well if she s willing to compromise and doesnt have a hang up about most things
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ibkaye
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hell yes, why don't i go and marry my granddad's best friend if we so happen to 'fall in love' shioorrr
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nana (f)
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hell yes, why don't i go and marry my granddad's best friend if we so happen to 'fall in love' shioorrr
lmao! Nice one!  |
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demolog (m)
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no it does not.more reason_-*reachout to sexyboy  |
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Gamine (f)
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Age really matters
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Pataki
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For me age certainly matters.
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jek_kad
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For me age certainly matters.
u have spoken well |
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sista-jay (f)
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He must not be older than my father and not usin a zimmer frame.
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beauteous (f)
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To an extent,YES it does!
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tankwa
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-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- COOLIER No. But respect does matter. GO AND MARRY SOMEONE AS OLD AS YOUR FATHER SUGAR DADDY LADY |
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onyinye2 (f)
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age matters alot.
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ibkaye
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COOLIER
GO AND MARRY SOMEONE AS OLD AS YOUR FATHER
SUGAR DADDY LADY
loool |
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jek_kad
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COOLIER
GO AND MARRY SOMEONE AS OLD AS YOUR FATHER
SUGAR DADDY LADY
lmao  anywayz coolier just stated her own opinion i guess,we r all free to  |
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Wil_R (m)
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Age doesn't matter, what really matters is Love, if the Girl Loves the Guy, she would respect him, If the Guy really Loves the girl, he would treat her right.
[center][/center]So what truely matter is LOVE
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jaync
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no
« #23 on: July 11, 2008, 02:24 PM » |
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:Dit doesn't matter at all, as for those who says it matters (especially gurls) how many of them date a guy that they are older than.For me an older lady is my ideal partner because they know how to properly take care of u in all aspects. |
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jek_kad
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Re: no
« #24 on: July 11, 2008, 02:26 PM » |
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:Dit doesn't matter at all, as for those who says it matters (especially girls) how many of them date a guy that they are older than.For me an older lady is my ideal partner because they know how to properly take care of u in all aspects. we r all free to state our opinions  |
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Moyola (f)
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NO U CAN FALL IN love with UR GRAND FADAZ/MODAZ M8Age is no big deal @ all  |
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ibkaye
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Aiight, am in love with this guy, aint he a hottie, age surely 'doesn't matter'  |
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Moyola (f)
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Aiight, am in love with this guy, aint he a hottie, age surely 'doesn't matter' awwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!! isn't that romantic. . .  plz telme u jokin. . . datz an arugbo u in love with
he'll wound u o  |
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ibkaye
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awwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!! isn't that romantic. . . plz telme u jokin. . . datz an arugbo u in love with
he'll wound u o am not joking o, you see age 'doesnt matter', even though he looks like he is old enough to give birth to even my grandma, it's the love and respect that counts |
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beauteous (f)
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Re: no
« #29 on: July 11, 2008, 02:42 PM » |
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:Dit doesn't matter at all, as for those who says it matters (especially girls) how many of them date a guy that they are older than.For me an older lady is my ideal partner because they know how to properly take care of u in all aspects. Whai won't it matter? xamine a case study of a 32yr old man wantin to get married to yhur 17yr old daughter. . . . wuld yhu allow it? Dnt forget to b sincere |
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702
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age kind of matters 2 me but not a sole criteria!
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jek_kad
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Re: no
« #31 on: July 11, 2008, 02:44 PM » |
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Whai won't it matter? xamine a case study of a 32yr old man wantin to get married to yhur 17yr old daughter. . . . wuld yhu allow it? Dnt forget to b sincere ofcourse he will agree,even if its an 82 yr old man that is asking for his daughters hand in marriage,afterall its d respect that matters |
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