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bartigo (m)
Before You Say I Do:
« on: July 11, 2008, 11:44 AM »

what are some of the things to look out for before you say i do as a lady or as a guy before marriage
jek_kad
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #1 on: July 11, 2008, 11:45 AM »

could u be more explanatory Smiley
bartigo (m)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #2 on: July 11, 2008, 11:47 AM »

simply put, before saying i do what must you look out for in a guy or lady?
jek_kad
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #3 on: July 11, 2008, 11:48 AM »

compatibility
bartigo (m)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #4 on: July 11, 2008, 11:53 AM »

just that?
haven't noticed that you can almost be compatible with anyone you want
jek_kad
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #5 on: July 11, 2008, 12:02 PM »

Quote from: bartigo on July 11, 2008, 11:53 AM
just that?
haven't noticed that you can almost be compatible with anyone you want

false,compatibility goes hand in hand wt understanding and trust,its a single word for them
Ujujoan (f)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #6 on: July 14, 2008, 05:45 PM »

The most important thing to look out for is sincerity. Like someone said, you can be compatible with anybody you want to be compatible with; afterall compatibility is all about endurance and understanding.

Sincerity is a rare trait. I’ll stick with a guy who tells me the truth
sistawoman (f)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #7 on: July 14, 2008, 05:46 PM »

Credit check and background check.    Dam if i want someone with bad credit and a criminal record.
lady u
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #8 on: July 14, 2008, 05:49 PM »

Quote from: Ujujoan on July 14, 2008, 05:45 PM
The most important thing to look out for is sincerity. Like someone said, you can be compatible with anybody you want to be compatible with; afterall compatibility is all about endurance and understanding.

Sincerity is a rare trait. I’ll stick with a guy who tells me the truth


nope u can't be compatible wt anybody ,no matter how much u try to pretend,the lies and pretences will be obvious,before a person is sincere to u,u both have to be compatible hence that gives him d chance to show his sincerity,but if u both r not compatible where and hw will he show u that hes sincere

compatibility goes a long way ,and hence brings out d sincerity in someone
AEjiro (m)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #9 on: July 14, 2008, 05:55 PM »

Everytin about d person

and mostly hw the person treat other not yourself co u ll get d same treatment if d love he/she profess has wean
Ruby_Pearl (f)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #10 on: July 14, 2008, 06:39 PM »

Seriously, I don't know yet.

But when I find out, I'll come back and post it
Busta (f)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #11 on: July 14, 2008, 07:53 PM »

- size of his wallet
- kind of house he owns
- kind of cars / how many cars he has
- if he's a mama's boy - - - - no no no no area
- blood group / Gynotype
CARUSO (m)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #12 on: July 14, 2008, 08:26 PM »

Quote from: bartigo on July 11, 2008, 11:44 AM
what are some of the things to look out for before you say i do as a lady or as a guy before marriage

big breast

big yansh

huge appetite for sex

 Grin
lucabrasi (m)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #13 on: July 14, 2008, 08:51 PM »

family background!
StephenP (m)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #14 on: July 14, 2008, 09:01 PM »

Quote from: CARUSO on July 14, 2008, 08:26 PM
big breast

big yansh

huge appetite for sex

 Grin

LOL

@ topic, personality
Ruby_Pearl (f)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #15 on: July 14, 2008, 09:06 PM »

StephenP, where have you been?
You're needed in the "Role Play" na.

@post
Am thinking that Personality, Family Background, & Responsibility plays a huge role. 
StephenP (m)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #16 on: July 14, 2008, 09:09 PM »

Quote from: Ruby_Pearl on July 14, 2008, 09:06 PM
StephenP, where have you been?
You're needed in the "Role Play" na.

ROFLMAO!!!
Ruby_Pearl (f)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #17 on: July 14, 2008, 09:15 PM »

Stephen, modify that.
StephenP (m)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #18 on: July 14, 2008, 09:18 PM »

Damn, you really got it bad. By the way, I don't know Rebellious has gone to.
Ruby_Pearl (f)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #19 on: July 14, 2008, 09:27 PM »

Get online. don't want to go offtopic Tongue
gabe_logan (m)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #20 on: July 14, 2008, 11:50 PM »

Quote from: lucabrasi on July 14, 2008, 08:51 PM
family background!

Quote from: lucabrasi on July 14, 2008, 08:51 PM
family background!

expantiate
davidylan (m)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #21 on: July 14, 2008, 11:52 PM »

personality, family - a woman raised in a stable, loving family is easier to live with.
babyblue
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #22 on: July 14, 2008, 11:56 PM »

what about spiriruality, you don't want to marry sm1 who has a totally different belief system u know
CARUSO (m)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #23 on: July 15, 2008, 08:57 AM »

Quote from: Ruby_Pearl on July 14, 2008, 06:39 PM
Seriously, I don't know yet.

But when I find out, I'll come back and post it


nothing riles me more than a stupid username on nairaland! Grin
Amanijuls
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #24 on: July 15, 2008, 05:03 PM »

Saying I DO! is a very sensitive issue so, alot of things  have to be put in place first.
Compactibility,Religion,family,tribe and a whole lot more are really important to run a peaceful home.
bennygee (m)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #25 on: July 15, 2008, 06:14 PM »

her bank account (she got to be financially stable)
family background, (if there've been cases of epilepsy,madness or low fertility)
if her father is dead (i no get money to bury any poor old man)
how many siblings she has (can't stand pestering in- laws)
rokiatu (f)
Re: Before You Say I Do:
« #26 on: July 15, 2008, 06:18 PM »

Quote from: bennygee on July 15, 2008, 06:14 PM
her bank account (she got to be financially stable)
family background, (if there've been cases of epilepsy,madness or low fertility)
if her father is dead (i no get money to bury any poor old man)how many siblings she has (can't stand pestering in- laws)
hmmmmm
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