Found Out 2 Months To My White Wedding That A Lady Is Pregnate For My Husband

The man do not love you enough. Drop him ASAP if he cannot tell before you found out that means he is playing games

Ok, Y in the world would any woman decide to stay in such situation!?? What are u staying for?? I mean, if u guys already have kids then it is a different story, u can stay 4 d sake of the kids, but if it's just d two of u, after our marriage! Inside our wedlock??  Oh c'mon! How worse could it get?? He has already reached the limit!

The only situation I can imagine d lady staying with him, is when it comes to those cases of a man marrying an illiterate woman 4rom d village that he can controll like rag and that completely depends on him. ------------ But in our modern society, no woman would take such! A woman has her dignity u know?? Nowadays women are educated, such things don't just pass free like that. No independent woman, that has her job, is educated Etc, would stay in such I tell u. because she doesn't depend on him 4 nada! Except the marriage thingy, which he just completely blew. soo wht else?? please!

@ Dudu19, wht about u? --- If in your marriage your wife gets pregnant 4 another man. u would still remain in d marriage??

@ poster

your case is different, if it is some months to your wedding, u have to think it through -- if it was inside your wedlock then it's a different story. -- But still. . . .  u have a tough decision to make. For someone u love to let u down this low, it's a tough one.

what do u mean?

THANK YOU DAVID.  I was losing hope in the guys hissssss

forgiveness is essential in a reliationship. I think she should give hime a last chance.

@poster

if u need my leg i don't mind i will lend it to u,but only if it will help u run out of d relationship

Yes she should forgive and forget him.

Dudu I'm beginning to suspect you.  Your defence of this guy is too much.  Birds of the same feather flock together.

Thankyou jare

It is not mistake it is done willingly if not why didn't he confess

rokiatu please  

Unless you want to tell us you can accept such an insult please stop this fake born again forgiveness shit.

@Nella I tell u there is no way I would find out unless she opens her mouth and tell me, which means she is just about
dump me for the man responsible for her pregnancy or she keeps the secret to herself and would end up thinking
the pregnancy is mine. This is why some fathers this day find out they are not really the biological dad of their child after many years of child upbringing.

The man did not just kiss the lady o, noooo, he slept with her, even whilst they jigijigibambam'D the night away, the sense to atleast use a condom was not present, he made his bed, now he must snore in it, forgive him of course, no problems there, just don't stay with him, let him go and marry the lady he impregnated

i know it is a big stupid mistake, but she need to look to it good instead of just closing the relationship at once.

do u call that a mistake huh ? a mistake ,when he inserted his stupid rod into a womans pot hole even when hes engaged to be married? he kept doing it and doing it and doing it and doing it,until a child was formed,and you're saying its a mistake,what da fcuking heck r u talking about

@ poster

The guy should rot in hell.

WHATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

don't even give him a second thought.

If you wake up one morning and tell him that your pregnant for someone else, will he accept you??

hell NO!!!!!

don't risk your happiness for someone who is not worth the trouble. If he really did love you, he would'nt have slept with the woman in the first place. PERIOD.

He is a looser and should be treated like one.

I think u have a temper problem I wonder what would have happened if this was u?