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rokiatu (f)
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it can never happen to me ,never ,but if it does ,i swerra gawddd that man is going to the deepest part of hell to meet d devil his creator,WTF
ur poor boyfriend must be really careful  |
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jek_kad
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your poor boyfriend must be really careful i don't do boyfriends,i do husbands |
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lady bam (f)
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@ poster
i don't even know why you are giving this issue a second thought. if you ever accept him, be sure that this is just the beginning of worst things to come. I'm being realistic.
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J MONEY
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take it easy on d poor guy,aba.  |
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rokiatu (f)
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i don't do boyfriends,i do husbands
meaning? |
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jek_kad
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meaning?
meaning i am married |
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CARUSO (m)
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meaning i am married
happy married life! |
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jek_kad
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happy married life! e gbe e nu e dake jooo  see ya head how body? |
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rokiatu (f)
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@ poster
i don't even know why you are giving this issue a second thought.
because in life some things need to be given a secound thought exspecially when it come to matter of the heart. I just said it today in love quotes if u have the courage to love you must have the courage to suffer. the meaning, simple when you are in love ever day is not like a holiday. |
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dudu19 (m)
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@carusso that na compliment or sarcastic gimmic  |
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rokiatu (f)
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meaning i am married
great |
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sayhi2ay (m)
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hey, don't just quit, RUN !!!
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LadyT (f)
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DUDU and Rokiatu give it a rest your have no point!
Stop asking others to accept what you can't!
I hate stupid advice only she can decide. But to trying and sugarcoat shit is senseless the guy fucked up BIG TIME
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jek_kad
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hey, don't just quit, RUN !!!
if its possible to fly,let her fly too |
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CARUSO (m)
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e gbe e nu e dake jooo see ya head how body? all this married women! i am fine oo, how r u2? |
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CARUSO (m)
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@carusso that na compliment or sarcastic gimmic itz a complement dude jekad na my pally! |
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rokiatu (f)
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DUDU and Rokiatu give it a rest your have no point!
Stop asking others to accept what you can't!
I hate stupid advice only she can decide. But to trying and sugarcoat shit is senseless the guy fucked up BIG TIME
firstly what give u the right to think that I have no point? the poster asked for advice and I honestly give her what I think. secondly am giving my advice to the poster I do not give a shit of what others think, afterall she is the one who will decide what is best for her. am just giving my point of view. |
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Sisikill
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So while I was busy running helter skelter getting ready for our big day, he was busy. . . ehmm. . . getting someone else ready for another big day??!
Yeah, it's ending. No if and or but about it.
@ Poster
Thank your lucky stars it didn't happen after you got married. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on.
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jek_kad
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So while I was busy running helter skelter getting ready for our big day, he was busy. . . ehmm. . . getting someone else ready for another big day??!
Yeah, it's ending. No if and or but about it.
@ Poster
Thank your lucky stars it didn't happen after you got married. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on.
abi oooo infact i don't think d poster even needs our advise,d right thing to do is staring at her in d face,let her fcuk off d relationship |
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amyg (f)
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I do not hope it happen to me but if I find myself in such condition, I would really analyze things before
coming to conclusion.
seconded.
to the married 1s,hw sure r u ur hussy is nt doing one sweet 16 under ur nose.
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jek_kad
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I do not hope it happen to me but if I find myself in such condition, I would really analyze things before
coming to conclusion.
seconded.
to the married 1s,hw sure r u your hussy is nt doing one sweet 16 under your nose.
my dear if he likes let him do under 14 sef,its no business of mine,atleast I'm already in d game and its for better for worst,i just have to live wt it but it is a diff case if we were engaged to b married and this bullshit happens,that marriage has to be stopped |
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ima1 (f)
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i say pay him back in his own coins, go on with the wedding but do not say i do, when the pastor asks then let everyone know he cheated. as for me if my hubby gets some girl preggo, there is no way i am staying in that relationship
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LASIEFAIRE (m)
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Apart from Death, another thing guaranteed to happen in your life time is that consciously or unconsciously, you will terribly hurt somebody and someone will do the same thing to you. That said, your man did a terrible thing ( no body is trying to quantify the severity of his action,)but -maybe in different ways- we all fall down.
It is left for you to consider all option, analyze critically.
Do you know your man?
with the exception of this current development, is he a great guy?
Can you forgive him?
is he genuinely repentant?
There are numerous cases out there where infidelity as made relationships stronger and more honest, your case may not be different. At thesame time, it may be it is left to you to think carefully and come up with a decision that best suits you.
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marycute (f)
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I will advise you quit the relationship, you're barely in it and he has already welcomed you with a shocking revelation by betraying the major thing you need in your marriage to remain TRUST
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KarmaMod (f)
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Everyone will tell you to "save your relationship" afterall he "chose you over the other lady" . . . my dear fellas lets turn the tables. 2 weeks to your wedding your bride is pregnant for a stranger . . . will you still "save your relationship"?
I don't like cheats, its not something that can be easily overcome. Once a cheat forever a cheat . . . lady, you will forever continue living in worry not knowing who he is with and who else has a child for him out there that you don't know.
Best thing is to quit the relationship, once trust is lost in a relationship there is pretty much nothing left. Thank You. Common sense at last Boys like Last King an all those pther kids would be the first to tell a Guy to throw her out, if it was the "wife to be" who fell in this so called "temptation" |
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KarmaMod (f)
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i say pay him back in his own coins, go on with the wedding but do not say i do, when the pastor asks then let everyone know he cheated. a
I like this |
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lady bam (f)
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@ poster
No second chance.
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lady bam (f)
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@ poster
What are you going to do about the child that the other woman is carrying.
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Last King (m)
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Thank You. Common sense at last
Boys like Last King an all those pther kids would be the first to tell a Guy to throw her out, if it was the "wife to be" who fell in this so called "temptation"
I speak from experience. Read my first contribution to this topic. I have a friend that had similar experience, she left in a hurry. Now she's 37, a masters degree holder, no husband. Am not saying this lady's case will be like that, but if she can confirm that the lady is actually pregnant before deciding, that will help. At least another woman should not play a fast one on her and break her relationship. What make you think the lady is not lying about the pregnancy just to end the marriage, hoping to get the man in the process. Ladies sleep with men every day, married men, engaged men, most avoid getting pregnant. why is this one happy about the pregnancy. My advice, do all you can to save you marriage if you think you can forgive what happened. Get your fiance to get the facts about the pregnancy and get an abortion. But whatever you do should be based on what you think is best for you. forget about the people invited for the wedding and think about what you want for yourself. |
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rubi (f)
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I speak from experience. Read my first contribution to this topic. I have a friend that had similar experience, she left in a hurry. Now she's 37, a masters degree holder, no husband.
Am not saying this lady's case will be like that, but if she can confirm that the lady is actually pregnant before deciding, that will help.
At least another woman should not play a fast one on her and break her relationship.
What make you think the lady is not lying about the pregnancy just to end the marriage, hoping to get the man in the process. Ladies sleep with men every day, married men, engaged men, most avoid getting pregnant. why is this one happy about the pregnancy.
My advice, do all you can to save you marriage if you think you can forgive what happened. Get your fiance to get the facts about the pregnancy and get an abortion.
But whatever you do should be based on what you think is best for you. forget about the people invited for the wedding and think about what you want for yourself.
which marriage is she saving? they are not married yet and the man she trusted impregnanted someone else and couldn't even tell her and confess that is disgusting |
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jek_kad
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is this thread still on?d poster should kick that stupids mans butt and walk away,its not difficult ,is it? |
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