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WendyRao
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Can You tell me what is the meaning of YABBING,
Can Not check out this word in dictionary , OOOOOO
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Moyola (f)
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Yabbing is when sumone is dizin/cursin u
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WendyRao
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Still can not understand,  If possible type it complete in english,Thats good,  Thank You!
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gabrywyl (f)
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Hi gabrywyl
Seems you know pidgin English(I mean the broken english Nigerians speak)
Besides,learned from your boyfriend,how do u learn it.Na?
Nope Wendy I don't really know yet as am still learning. I only know the basic ones like Bawo ni, Mo wa pa, wetin, una, Halla, Na wa, Na so life be, Pokom, No pro ma bobo/chika, eti won bota, open your sangolo,jawonsi, o jasi ni, well sa free world, nothing do you ma girl/bobo, wetin dey sele, o ga oo and etc etc etc. . . . A little of Pidgin and Yoruba language. You'll be surprise cause I learn it from Nairaland. HEHEH! My teachers are somewhere all around here but lately they seldom come in like Oyato, kingsikaz, dreeldee, dre101and some other guys here. Really appreciate them for teaching the basics. My boyfriend refuses to speak in Yoruba or Pidgin with me because he wants to speak in Malay language. The only thing he taught me is how to cook Nigerian food.How about you? Know any foreign languages?I dey speak small small ooooMoyola, u can say that again, please don't yab her o, she is chinese and has a lot of boyfriends on nairaland  Heheh! Who have alot of Naira boyfriend? Wendy and Gabry, I'm female ooooooooooooooooo  , and wendy I'm i was yabbing u  And sorry for my mistake on calling you a He. Did not did that on purpose.Can You tell me what is the meaning of YABBING,
Can Not check out this word in dictionary , OOOOOO
Wendy Yabbin / Yap / Yappin / Yapping means someone talks bad about you or someone teasing you. You cannot find it in the dictionary just because its not a real english word I guess?
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ademiller (f)
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gabyrwyl, its wendy thats got a lot of boyfriends o 
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gabrywyl (f)
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gabyrwyl, its wendy thats got a lot of boyfriends o  Heheh!  Who? How come I don't know?  Wendy, who's your Naira boyfriend's?
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WendyRao
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seems the topic change to talk about whether I have many nairaland boyfriend ,Right?
Why can't you directly come to ask me, Okay,Am telling you now,Believe me Since begaining till now,Only HAVE ONE, If you want to know him, No Prob, Warmly welcome to our side,we will treat you well as you are visitor,
So I think you should stop asking/questioning that kind of funny question again, ok?
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WendyRao
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Heheh!  Who? How come I don't know?  Wendy, who's your Naira boyfriend's? ----gabrywyl,My Boyfriend is not a member of this forums,haha, When Time reaches,I will let you know,
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gabrywyl (f)
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Wendy, I think ademiller is just teasing you. 
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KarmaMod (f)
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because the girls are jus so annoying , and we can't fight back in words.seems God has blessed them in the use of the tongue Are you not ashamed of yourself? So as to pander to foreign women you are running your mouth about how compared to other women Naija girls are so "annoying" that they deserved to be beaten? Are you mentally sound at all? Maybe in your family such dysfunction was cool but those of us who were raised in normal surroundings didnt go through such nor were we raised with such a pitiful mentality.
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4gotnheros (m)
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Mheen, I love Asian women. They are submissive and soft just like their African counterpart
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gabrywyl (f)
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Mheen, I love Asian women. They are submissive and soft just like their African counterpart
Ok, its not very often I hear that a Black guy likes an Asian women. You're the 2nd one in Nairaland. 
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martho (m)
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Mheen, I love Asian women. They are submissive and soft just like their African counterpart
right, they are simple and submissive, they are no1 choice for the germans.
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manntee (m)
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Nope Wendy I don't really know yet as am still learning. I only know the basic ones like Bawo ni, Mo wa pa, wetin, una, Halla, Na wa, Na so life be, Pokom, No pro ma bobo/chika, eti won bota, open your sangolo,jawonsi, o jasi ni, well sa free world, nothing do you ma girl/bobo, wetin dey sele, o ga oo and etc etc etc. . . . A little of Pidgin and Yoruba language. You'll be surprise cause I learn it from Nairaland. HEHEH! My teachers are somewhere all around here but lately they seldom come in like Oyato, kingsikaz, dreeldee, dre101and some other guys here. Really appreciate them for teaching the basics. My boyfriend refuses to speak in Yoruba or Pidgin with me because he wants to speak in Malay language. The only thing he taught me is how to cook Nigerian food.How about you? Know any foreign languages?I dey speak small small oooogirl, for someone who knows just a little, that is a lot. wendy, i am sure from your relationship with your boyfirend that you would have realised by now that we nigerians tease each other a lot. most of what you read (past tense) are presently reading and you will probably read in the future are light hearted jokes, try and get to see the funny side of it and don't take them as confrontations. so ti ye e? (thats do you understand in yoruba) Heheh! Who have alot of Naira boyfriend? And sorry for my mistake on calling you a He. Did not did that on purpose.Wendy Yabbin / Yap / Yappin / Yapping means someone talks bad about you or someone teasing you. You cannot find it in the dictionary just because its not a real english word I guess?
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Chi*Babe (f)
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Wendy, i am African-American and born and raised in California. Born to American parents (From Oklahoma and Texas) and i was brought up around Nigerians, have mostly nigerian friends and married a Nigerian man. He is Igbo but i was raised with nigerian Yoruba people, so i speak yoruba sometimes and know most pigeon, although i don't speak it often. If u hear my voice its like a west valley white girl. (Most people here think I'm Nigerian because of my name, but that name was given to me by my aunties, its actually Chinere. But most call me Chi-Chi) *From reading, it seems like most on here do not have stories to tell at all, sorry o 
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gabrywyl (f)
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right, they are simple and submissive, they are no1 choice for the germans.
German's? Really? How come I don't know that?  Posted by: manntee girl, for someone who knows just a little, that is a lot. Wow! Really ? Thanks for the compliment  Posted by: manntee wendy, i am sure from your relationship with your boyfirend that you would have realised by now that we nigerians tease each other a lot. most of what you read (past tense) are presently reading and you will probably read in the future are light hearted jokes, try and get to see the funny side of it and don't take them as confrontations. Yes Wendy, exactly. They love playing and teasing around. I'm sure your boyfriend and his friends do too?  Posted by: manntee so ti ye e? (thats do you understand in yoruba) Thanks. A new sentence to learn today.  *From reading, it seems like most on here do not have stories to tell at all, sorry o  Hey Chi Chi, my nieces name is Chi Chi as well I think what Wendy really wants from us is the general information regarding Nigerian guys especially the ones relating to her boyfriends behaviour/personality/character (the similarities) but she is not sure what topic to put up.Am I right Wendy?  Chi Chi, how come you have a Chinese Name instead 
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WendyRao
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----Hi Manntee, You are right, As I have already read from my boyfriends,and knows that they like joking,
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WendyRao
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German's? Really? How come I don't know that? Wow! Really ? Thanks for the compliment Yes Wendy, exactly. They love playing and teasing around. I'm sure your boyfriend and his friends do too? Thanks. A new sentence to learn today. Hey Chi Chi, my nieces name is Chi Chi as well I think what Wendy really wants from us is the general information regarding Nigerian guys especially the ones relating to her boyfriends behaviour/personality/character (the similarities) but she is not sure what topic to put up.Am I right Wendy?  Yes,gabrywyl,You are great,Thats exactly I wonder, Here seems like whatever happened on a couple,Possible samething will repeat on another couples, (Couple=Nigerian&Chinese) The difference,just feel like,Some couples they have serious fight till send to hospital emergency Room,while some couple they can stay well, Take good care of each other, Thats all depends when problem comes,how you guys handle it, Chi Chi, how come you have a Chinese Name instead 
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WendyRao
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Wendy, i am African-American and born and raised in California. Born to American parents (From Oklahoma and Texas) and i was brought up around Nigerians, have mostly nigerian friends and married a Nigerian man. He is Igbo but i was raised with nigerian Yoruba people, so i speak yoruba sometimes and know most pigeon, although i don't speak it often. If u hear my voice its like a west valley white girl. (Most people here think I'm Nigerian because of my name, but that name was given to me by my aunties, its actually Chinere. But most call me Chi-Chi) *From reading, it seems like most on here do not have stories to tell at all, sorry o  ---Can You put your own story here I/O , 
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gabrywyl (f)
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WendyRao quote:- Some couples they have serious fight till send to hospital emergency Room,while some couple they can stay well, Take good care of each other, Thats all depends when problem comes,how you guys handle it, Wow! Really? Not untill that bad which will land both in the emergency room LOL.  My one, well, we have never argued or fight but we have our disagreements. But like I mentioned earlier, if my boyfriend does not like something, he would keep quiet and leave the room and will come back after a few minutes when he calm down and I will usually ask him what is he upset about and he will tell me and then we will try to work things out to ensure that in the future, I don't do what he does not like me doing and vise versa. We have decided njot to raise our voice at each other because according to him, in the future if we have kids, we don't want our children to hear us screaming in our home as it will scare them. if you know what I mean.  How about you Wendy? Any fights with your boyfriend?
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WendyRao
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Also I posted before, I hate family Violence, Any men fight women,I must Look down that men worse than a Shit.
If He put finger on me,I would leave me,Finish him Because,Just thinking If his nature with violence, has first time to fight you also will next next time till thousands of time, So why don't leave him, Even he is the only one man in this world ,I will leave it,better to be alone,
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WendyRao
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Wow! Really? Not untill that bad which will land both in the emergency room LOL.  My one, well, we have never argued or fight but we have our disagreements. But like I mentioned earlier, if my boyfriend does not like something, he would keep quiet and leave the room and will come back after a few minutes when he calm down and I will usually ask him what is he upset about and he will tell me and then we will try to work things out to ensure that in the future, I don't do what he does not like me doing and vise versa. We have decided njot to raise our voice at each other because according to him, in the future if we have kids, we don't want our children to hear us screaming in our home as it will scare them. if you know what I mean.  How about you Wendy? Any fights with your boyfriend? Whenever we have different opinions,he must leave me alone do later back talk to me again like nothing happened,So you can inmagine whether we will have fight or not,  Anyhow Praying for a family harmony in the near future, 
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gabrywyl (f)
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Hi Wendy, Yeap. you are so right. If men are to be meaners. we should just leave them knowing that we cannot be stronger than them in the physical sense (I've once believe that I can be stronger than a guy but nope. . . . never have once beaten a single one of them. . . . [sigh  ]) and what more to my boyfriend whom have a slight muscular body. . .  But I've come accross many guys whom are a softie when it comes to their girlfriends. They would always give way and also they wont dare to put up a fight with her so I think for those guys, no matter how strong they are physically, but emotionally, they can be weak after all.  Oh yes, in a way, you should be greatful that your boyfriend leave you for a few minutes when he's angry instead of him wanting to start a fight. I think that would be a smart move.
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gabrywyl (f)
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By the way Wendy, do you have a picture of you by any chance?
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Chi*Babe (f)
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OK Wendy, (U asked for my story, )#2
I'm one of those that ended up in the emergency room after a late night fight! After i started to find out so many bad things that my ex was doing, i confronted him. he didnt know that i had already saw text messages on his phone from a woman who was asking him to come back to her house. I woke him up to talk, then i asked him why a girl was texting him to come over. he couldnt come up with a lie fast enough, so he was like "where did u see that ?" i went to pick up his phone and he FLIPPED OUT!he ran to the kitchen, grabbed a butcher knife and started swinging it around screaming "put my phone down!!" i reached out n told him to put it away, right at that moment he sliced across my left pointer finger as he was swinging. i went OUT OF MY MIND. he threw the knife, so i clawed the hell out of his face and chest, and slapped him sooo hard. he wouldnt move after that, just let me hit him. blood was on the walls, on our bed. He was stunned when he realized he actually cut me VERY DEEP so he went into "sweet innocent" mode and said he has to take me to the hospital. he didnt want me to have him arrested. he was like " you see what our relationship has come to"?
Hell yes i saw! We ended up in the hospital for hours. he begged me to forgive him and says that he never meant to hurt me. the bleeding wouldnt stop. i had to get 7 stiches in my little finger! I didnt want him anymore, so those words meant nothing! but this is what can happen when things get TOO crazy in a relationship. all in a short period of time i saw his true colors, and we were FINISHED.
Now u all can see why i call him balding baboon? It turned out he was so much more UGLY ON THE INSIDE. How did i know what other crazy things he was capable of? Wendy hopefully your not taken advantage of, since most guys here seem to think being "submissive" is a good quality in a woman. It doesnt mean u cannot stand up for yourself and be smart about how a man is treating u!
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forbidden5 (m)
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Wendy,
I believe that with a relationship that is well defined, there are no rules. If I had a girl friend, she could call me at will. It is better for a man to be silent in the face of a conflict with his girl.
If I am sorry, I would tell my girl that I am sorry. The problem with women is that they are self centred. When you begin to take them on that pedestal, it will get into their head and they become naggy.
It takes two to tangle, If you don not want him to call you at midnight, then you are not truly his.
If I had a chance, I would marry an asian as well.
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gabrywyl (f)
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OK Wendy, (You asked for my story, )#2
I'm one of those that ended up in the emergency room after a late night fight! After i started to find out so many bad things that my ex was doing, i confronted him. he didnt know that i had already saw text messages on his phone from a woman who was asking him to come back to her house. I woke him up to talk, then i asked him why a girl was texting him to come over. he couldnt come up with a lie fast enough, so he was like "where did u see that ?" i went to pick up his phone and he FLIPPED OUT!he ran to the kitchen, grabbed a butcher knife and started swinging it around screaming "put my phone down!!" i reached out n told him to put it away, right at that moment he sliced across my left pointer finger as he was swinging. i went OUT OF MY MIND. he threw the knife, so i clawed the hell out of his face and chest, and slapped him sooo hard. he wouldnt move after that, just let me hit him. blood was on the walls, on our bed. He was stunned when he realized he actually cut me VERY DEEP so he went into "sweet innocent" mode and said he has to take me to the hospital. he didnt want me to have him arrested. he was like " you see what our relationship has come to"?
Hell yes i saw! We ended up in the hospital for hours. he begged me to forgive him and says that he never meant to hurt me. the bleeding wouldnt stop. i had to get 7 stiches in my little finger! I didnt want him anymore, so those words meant nothing! but this is what can happen when things get TOO crazy in a relationship. all in a short period of time i saw his true colors, and we were FINISHED.
Now u all can see why i call him balding baboon? It turned out he was so much more UGLY ON THE INSIDE. How did i know what other crazy things he was capable of? Wendy hopefully your not taken advantage of, since most guys here seem to think being "submissive" is a good quality in a woman. It doesnt mean u cannot stand up for yourself and be smart about how a man is treating u!
Oh Gosh. . . . That is so sad. . .  Glad you left him for good. Serve him right!  If I had a chance, I would marry an asian as well.
 Really? Why's that?
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WendyRao
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OK Wendy, (You asked for my story, )#2
I'm one of those that ended up in the emergency room after a late night fight! After i started to find out so many bad things that my ex was doing, i confronted him. he didnt know that i had already saw text messages on his phone from a woman who was asking him to come back to her house. I woke him up to talk, then i asked him why a girl was texting him to come over. he couldnt come up with a lie fast enough, so he was like "where did u see that ?" i went to pick up his phone and he FLIPPED OUT!he ran to the kitchen, grabbed a butcher knife and started swinging it around screaming "put my phone down!!" i reached out n told him to put it away, right at that moment he sliced across my left pointer finger as he was swinging. i went OUT OF MY MIND. he threw the knife, so i clawed the hell out of his face and chest, and slapped him sooo hard. he wouldnt move after that, just let me hit him. blood was on the walls, on our bed. He was stunned when he realized he actually cut me VERY DEEP so he went into "sweet innocent" mode and said he has to take me to the hospital. he didnt want me to have him arrested. he was like " you see what our relationship has come to"?
Hell yes i saw! We ended up in the hospital for hours. he begged me to forgive him and says that he never meant to hurt me. the bleeding wouldnt stop. i had to get 7 stiches in my little finger! I didnt want him anymore, so those words meant nothing! but this is what can happen when things get TOO crazy in a relationship. all in a short period of time i saw his true colors, and we were FINISHED.
Now u all can see why i call him balding baboon? It turned out he was so much more UGLY ON THE INSIDE. How did i know what other crazy things he was capable of? Wendy hopefully your not taken advantage of, since most guys here seem to think being "submissive" is a good quality in a woman. It doesnt mean u cannot stand up for yourself and be smart about how a man is treating u!
Chi*BaBe, Thanks for your Story, Sounds Awful, Am sorry, Frankly telling you,Sometimes actually I was meant to quarreling with him, Because I wonna to know his true color, I want to know what he will do If I annoye Him, But I failed, Seems like he Knows I was testing him , so whenever we have disagreement,about to quarreling he must left me alone,
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WendyRao
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AnthonyKil, WHAT Happened?
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AnthonyKil (m)
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AnthonyKil, WHAT Happened?
I need to talk to Gabby (gabrywyl). . . . have you seen her in here lately? 
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AshtonJake (m)
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You need to ask for my permission first if you want to speak with her. And also you have to make payments to me if you want to speak with her. It cost 550 dollars for every minute of conversation havent include government tax and service charge. So do you wann apay via Cash, credit card or Cheque? Payment made via Cheque and credit card will have an additional interest charge of 30%. Its a pleasure doing business with you. Thank and have a nice day.
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