White Girls Dating Nigerian Men

Ok, no offense taken. I just wished our skin colour wouldn't matter that much but rather our actions.

Stereotypes about Nigerian men continue. Did these Nigerian men seek for information about you through a third party before making up their minds? Why can't you subject yourself to the same standard of observing his behaviour. I think there is a wrong notion that runs in this thread that Nigerian men are the same, and act alike,  Why can't Nigerian men be considered as men  or are they really less  than real men. I have never seen a poster by Nigerian men wanting to know how to deal with women nor does it mean that they don’t have issues? Off course they do, it’s just that men have fallible expectation of women and women have infallible expectation of men. Nigeria has about 70 million men and they are always bulked together whenever it comes to a relationship. What happened to person to person basis of comparison? Are you trying to tell me that anonymous persons in this  forum know these Nigerian men more than you do?  If you don’t like and trust him, leave him for another "better'' man. Enough of Naija men.

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There is nothing wrong with being white and having a Nigerian boyfriend! I am in the same situation and it's all going wonderful. Just don't listen to what others say and follow your heart. 

i think i have a problem,

i have no taste for nigerian or black ladies any more, i had this girl that i was dating she was a white girl, but we are no more together because her dad had to move to to australia.


any white ladies here want to talk

I have recently started to date a very sweet Nigerian Yoruban man, I am very curious and have many questions.  Is it customary for a Nigerian born man to have an americanized name and a native name?  Since I am a caucasion woman, with biracial children from a previous marriage, I wonder if the acceptance from his family of myself and my children will be similar to what I would/could expect from an American black family, or if the culture is different and is it more acceptable in Osun State (I believe that is the spelling)?   If I wanted to send a gift to his mother, what would be an acceptable gift?  I do not wish to offend the sweet woman that raised this loving man, so any help in that regard would be greatly appreciated.   I was raised in a very stong Christian home, and color was never a topic persay, so to me, the love I am starting to feel for this man, is just that, for a this loving man who just happens to be from Nigeria and is a Yoruban man.  I wish to know more about his culture and traditions, and would like to know of any great websites to be able to gather this information.  Thanks and God Bless! 

Please disregard earlier questions, as since I posted this early this morning, I have been informed by a fellow Nairaland man that was so kind to help me with answering some of the above questions, also told me some things, which led me to tell him some things that were bothering me about my relationship with this Nigerian man that I spoke of above, and things I knew I should have come to the conclusion he was scamming me, and I didn't but it was very kindly said to me by the a nice young man that money I sent because he claimed to have had malaria, was indeed, the beginnine or down payment of a scam.  I am the fool.  As they say, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me, Thanks to all that did read this and were going to reply.

Hello Friends, My name is Seun, 23 years, male, I stay in Ibadan, Nigeria, 1 hour drive from Lagos. I'm interested in meeting a white girl for a relationship or if u prefer to be a friend. You can get accross to me if u have a friend or you want to know me better my phone number is: +234-8073564273  My email address is: seunomotayoadeleye@yahoo.com. I'll appreciate it if you get accross to me. Thanks Seun.

na wa oooooooooooooo!!!!!!



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You are so right Uyai.

Its is very sad indeed.  No trust in Nigerians.

Like I said this sis this is a free world,there are a lot of successful bi-racial relationship,I have cousins that are bi-racial,some
in their forties and came out of a successful bi-racial marriage,so stop generalizing,you need to look out for more that are
successful and I'm sure you'll find them,it's not a crime to date someone other than your race,I do believe it's the same God
that created Black and White alike,this is not about kissing anybody's behind,it's all about choice. 

I see nothing wrong with interacial dating,if both of you love each other then carry on and don't listen to what people says