White Girls Dating Nigerian Men

Wish you well cucchi,

Hey, you said you are going to Nigeria, haaaa, thats a place of uncertainties. No tourism exists in that country, none what so ever.

You will never be the same, you will see that there is a world outside UK and that world is weird.

Very humid
Very hot
No steady water supply
No steady power supply
Poor transport system
NOISE like you've never heard or experienced
Horn hooting from cars
Insecurity

I wonder how people smile under such conditions, trust me, those smiles are real/sincere/genuine. The smiles don't come from the customer service people because there is no such thing like customer service in nigeria, they think they are doing you a favour instead. The smiles come from your friends and family and from people you meet on the street.

food4tot

my man says that. he has alot of close friends who are really friendly and sweet always wanting to talk or go out. here in UK u don't get that they'd walk right past u. we don't speak to our neighbours. i'd live anywhere as long as i had ma man and we were happy 

if she is seeking acceptance would you turn her away. I wouldn't

There is nothing wrong with seeking acceptance and there is nothing wrong in liking only "african sistas". There is no need for name calling.

shall i say im nigerian i stand! im blk and im an african! i think in 21century its funny whenever a striaght blk or whatever to say race or whatever got nothing to do with colour is a joke! if u d say rather as long as we are happy in whatever relationship u are in i think its profoundingly better ! as for me forget racism now because im not anyway it shuldnt matter now who care all i know in proud to be a nigerian and a black man! and i hope you are proud of what u are my friend

pretending to ignore the reflection from the shadow i doubt it if its healty for my country nigeria ! u could holla if u want to but just remember im a proud nigerian man period !

wow looks like an inocent thread to see what people think of interracial realationships has turned into people hating. i've took your opinion Dathought

On the acceptence matter i couldnt care less if a man with your opinions didnt accept me. as i said before as long as the people that matter accept me not just for my colour but to be a good wife and mother to his child for there son/brother/cousin etc then thats all that matters. i've heard so many times white wifes stop there man from seeing family they don't cook clean etc it makes me laugh personally.  I think its the way u are brought up by your parents and thankfully i was brought up wit good morals and taught to respect everyone and myself.

All good i'm happy wit my man if anyone doesnt like it there aint nothing i can do about it.

God Bless

So sweet.

 

thats a bit mean seeker!

@Rhoda, really? Are you saying I'm not human?

well basically,

why all this talk of white and black, there are so many interracial marriages in the world. i am not white and not black and not asian. im a mix of many things. then what? lol
so thinking u only want black or only want white, it restricts your choices. just go out mix with everyone and go for the heart not the colour.

take care coochi love yaaaa nice thread, now that u know there are always differing views, just be happy with who god gave you. he can give anyone any colour. sometimes if u restrict yourself to black or white, and not for the person herself or himself, and if u got a lousy partner, then u will realise is not colour but many other things u have tofind out about a person. byeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!

It's all bout love innit?? So why bother bout what Some silly people Say?? besides love aint bout Colur, it's all bout what's in the heart!!

Hi Guys, this is my first post to this forum,
Got only one thing to say, its difficult finding real love
if you find it, hold on tight.
Race, doesn't matter **
Good luck Cucci.

I wish you could really delete "da thought", unfortunately, he's carrying it around in his head.

Hey yo Dathought STFU! I'm tired of lames like you thinking because beefing with Whites because "a white broad embarassed you" for being stupid makes you intelligent or revolutionary.All you retards do is whinge, moan and complain like a b*tch.GTFOH!!!

I ain't even going to go into some real shyt witcha because you obviously still upset but you gotta keep your fcuking hatred to yourself homie.Nobody here aked you to go acting stupid or sumpin'.You all on here dealing with your emotions like some jump-off hoodrat over some shyt we all experience but ain't nobody here moaning like you.

And if you being emotionally hurt because of some shyt a white person done to you, well that's part of life so quit b*tching, toughen up be a man.You should be asking yourself what civil way are there to change the state of the world and not put someone else down by taking your frustrations out on them just because they're white. That's stupid!

I couldn't give a fcuk if you green or yellow.As far as I am concerned everybody is an INDIVIDUAL! You maigh want to note that down and think about it before you come out next time b*tching over your emotions.

rof-lmao

@Reba
Hey girl! How are you??? It seems we're never on at the same time! Well congrats on your nuptials! Will it be July or August? Best of luck w/ your man too! (I'm guessing he's the white one?) Which where do you live in SA? Much love! 

@Cucchi
The wise ones have already spoken. Don't let go of love! You sound like your head is on straight & you have a moral center. You know what matters & what doesn't. You're well-armed my dear. Good luck.