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nehhymayya (m)
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u said ur not ready,and that says it all except ofcourse u know when ur going 2b ready and she's willing to wait, Age aint anything but a number, my opinion
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sistawoman (f)
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Just explain to her why you are not ready. If she loves you like you say she does then she will wait. But you have to tell her when you will be ready it just can't be some open ended thing a girl will leave you if you leave it open ended with no goal line in sight.
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rokiatu (f)
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you love her but u are not really, if she love
u then she will wait.
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banging (m)
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thanks  |
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lady u
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poster how old are u?  |
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lady u
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ok,then that means u aint ready for marriage,tell her that
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Busta (f)
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u don't love her. . . .if u do, age shouldn't be an issue.
besides u shld have tot about that before engaging in a relationship with her.
apparently . . . her biological clock is ticking.
if u can't do it . . . let her go and find someone her age who is ready.
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CARUSO (m)
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run for ur dear life!! |
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Ruby_Pearl (f)
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Well, I don't know.
But if I had a guy that loves me as much as you love your woman, I would not hesitate to marry him.
But nowadays, marriage is not only about love.
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KarmaMod (f)
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u don't love her. . . .if u do, age shouldn't be an issue.
besides u shld have tot about that before engaging in a relationship with her.
apparently . . . her biological clock is ticking.
if u can't do it . . . let her go and find someone her age who is ready. Exactly . don't know why people are saying she should "wait". Wait for what? He's bothered bythe 4 yr difference. That's NEVER going to chnage. she's always going to be older. so just let her go |
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lady u
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Well, I don't know.
But if I had a guy that loves me as much as you love your woman, I would not hesitate to marry him.
But nowadays, marriage is not only about love.
abi ooo, the bank account also have to be checked for appropriate and satisfying figures  |
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dreeldee
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abi ooo, the bank account also have to be checked for appropriate and satisfying figures cupidity  |
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lady u
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cupidity if u like vex till next year,i will say it again and again and again that------------bank account matters a whole lot |
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dreeldee
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desist from greed
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lady u
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desist from greed
its not greed,its called comfort |
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dreeldee
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the question is "can I marry her? and your answer is emphasizing on his pocket, what other name do you call that? materialism
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lady u
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the question is "can I marry her? and your answer is emphasizing on his pocket, what other name do you call that? materialism
it all sums up to d word marriage,before marriage d pocket should be checked first of all and not only love afterall ruby_pearl said love is not d only thing that should be considered before marriage,and i added a few words to it,so wats your problem?I'm i not free to state my opinion |
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hot chic (f)
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@poster,
its not advisable to rush into marriage when you are not ready.You have to be ready and wlling to take your relationship to that level.
Concerning the age bit,i have seen a case where the wife is about 3yrs older than the husband and they have a very lovely home,they are proud to tell people about it now because it has worked for them.Though they claimed they kept it to themselves before now.
If you two are cool with it,then go for it,but don't let the whole world knw that she's older than you oooooo
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gabe_logan (m)
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@ poster
i don't think its adviseable to marry a girl thats older than u (4yrs is too much) for 2 reasons
1. she'll age before you and loose her appeal when she ages.
2. she'll never respect u as such because she knows that she's older than u.
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