She Refuse Me On Bed.

are you two married? no, sex is not compulsory within a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship so if she doesn't want it let her be, na by force? 

so don't raise the issue again simple.
u should be happy u have a good girl as a girl friend
dude sex is not what relationships are about

@ibikaye nicely said

guy try using the snake bite style. i hope u know what i mean.

she is prolly not ready for that part of the relationship 

you na sound of music  style  "  "
_{getting to  knowwwwwwwwww you
getting to know alllllllllllll aboutttt youuuuuuuuu!}   

Sex is not part of relationship. if u think without sex it's can't work u let her be.

I think if it matters to him a lot he should at least have a serious conversation with his girlfriend about his concerns and desires, not just jump her in a hurry, who knows, knowing that he cares so much to talk it through with her might change her mind, or she could open up about her reasons and they could work it out, take it slow or end things before it gets seriously messy. But I guess you probably don't love her yet, because if you are unsure then you probably don't, I'm not saying that you won't get there, but right now, you probably are still thinking about the sex more than her feelings. She owes you an explanationg though I think, just to help you understand at least. No issue should be left to taboo to discuss in a healthy relationship.


If you are with her for the sex more than the love then really maybe you two need to discuss this, because she doesn't want to have sex so maybe in terms of what you're looking for in an ideal girlfriend for you, she doesn't tick all the boxes. I will warn you though, there comes an age when a guy will need more than just sex, and if you lose someone you truly got along with and cared for because of sex, when you try to return to her she might have been taken (as in going out with) another guy.

Whenever yhu re wit a girl,
mst yhu alwaz see sex as d utmost priority?
whateva happened to PRAYING TOGEDA?

Well she shouldnt have to tell you not to talk about it again, you all are in a relationship so you all do need to be open with one another, but guessing by her comment of never to discuss it again, maybe she has discussed this issue with you time and time again and you are not hearing her. Also, you didnt seem too sure that you loved her, you said you guessed, thats not good enough, don't let sex cloud your good judgment. You do need to sit down with her and have a talk with her, but never force her into doing something she is not comfortable with.

Don't mind them abeg dump that yeye girl and find you another girl that will f^ck you brains off. No be London you dey, if the waste comes to the waste find you a white English girl, I hear to put out very easy.

Sorry could you elaborate about the following the friends part. Do you mean, guys are peer pressured into having sex in order to appear like 'one of the big boys'?