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amyg (f)
Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« on: July 17, 2008, 06:47 PM »

How best do u end relationships?I mean all my past relationships were never really called off.most times separated by distance or i would feel its just not working so i get on with my life until they come back and i tell them them they r 25mins 2 late.Same thing with my immediate ex,anything wrong with that?i just feel its stupid telling someone its over,better let him catch d signs himself
Gamine (f)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #1 on: July 17, 2008, 06:49 PM »

 Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x
segzi cres (m)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #2 on: July 17, 2008, 06:54 PM »

a good way is sayin "honey, tunde has been makin me feel better in bed dan u, what do you think"  that'll be a tight way.
Hannibal
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #3 on: July 17, 2008, 06:56 PM »

Quote from: amyg on July 17, 2008, 06:47 PM
How best do u end relationships?I mean all my past relationships were never really called off.most times separated by distance or i would feel its just not working so i get on with my life until they come back and i tell them them they r 25mins 2 late.Same thing with my immediate ex,anything wrong with that?i just feel its stupid telling someone its over,better let him catch d signs himself

Ya method is simply the best. . . . Cool Cool Cool Cool
I don't have the time explaining why i should leave any chic. . . . .
Stop communicating and he/she should get the message.
don buchi (m)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #4 on: July 17, 2008, 06:59 PM »

i just feel its stupid telling someone its over,better let him catch d signs himself,  so that it is easier to come back. She who runs from a fight lives to fight another day. I see Grin Grin Grin Grin
rubi (f)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #5 on: July 17, 2008, 07:04 PM »

Quote from: amyg on July 17, 2008, 06:47 PM
How best do u end relationships?I mean all my past relationships were never really called off.most times separated by distance or i would feel its just not working so i get on with my life until they come back and i tell them them they r 25mins 2 late.Same thing with my immediate ex,anything wrong with that?i just feel its stupid telling someone its over,better let him catch d signs himself

That is childish way of calling of any relationship. Have you watched break up movie between genevive and ramsey noah ie two can can play the game. I know alot of people who have hanged relationships by the time they come back to take what they hanged some other person have taken it. My advice/contribution is issues better discussed and remove pride is half solved until two people sit down and have a talk all you are doing is guess guess and most times guesses are wrong
okenwa (m)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #6 on: July 17, 2008, 07:39 PM »

it's not destined that the relationship would last longer.  .  . soo hanging around won't make it last eternally.  .  . silently you can quit either by distance, work, school, sickness or any excuss.
topup
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #7 on: July 17, 2008, 08:35 PM »

Nah, I can't respect anyone who doesn't have the guts to tell me straight that they don't want to be with me anymore. You see if everytime a guy distanced themselves from a girl and the girl leaves him then there would be more breakups. You need to talk about what is going on, it's not fair on the other person, you guys are speaking from the point of view of the person who is walking away, how about if your boyfriend or girlfriend just stopped answering your calls, first of all you may think they're hurt or dead or missing, then you get the hint, and when something like that has been handled so badly, you probably wouldn't want to give them the time of day. That happened to my friend and the guy is begging to get her back, because he thought he could come back and collect what he needed if he wanted to, and by that time she had closed what they had and packed it off to alaska.
ogeluv
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #8 on: July 18, 2008, 11:16 AM »

am a very emotional person that ont want anything to bother me.instaed of deceiving myself or my partner the best thing is to have a heart to heart discussion.it depends on how far the damage has been.if we can't make up then we breakup by telling ourselves that we need time for ourselves than been deceived
babyx (f)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #9 on: July 18, 2008, 11:57 AM »

@ Poster
Its best to talk about the "HANG UPS" in a relationship, any relationship, be it the intimate ones or the platonic ones. Things left on said and not properly dealt with rear up in the future. You need to talk to your intended EX B/F about the issues you are having with him, if you don't open up, you wont have an idea of what his opinion is concerning those matters.
So its in talking you can safely arrive at IRRECONSILABLE DIFFERENCES and say goodbye with no hard feelings. Bottomline keep communication lines open in your affairs, this will help you understand the opposite SEX better and relate with them based on their individualities. Dont shut down or shut up, u might be storing up explosives. Wink
amyg (f)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #10 on: July 19, 2008, 02:50 PM »

10x babyx,u'v got a point there.from 2day onwards,i promise 2 b a good girl and always 2 call it quits in a d appropriate manner.to the silent posters,hope u get silent replies 2 your posts 2 until we close this web for you guys.(Gamine)
ibobabe (f)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #11 on: July 19, 2008, 05:29 PM »

its not that easy or simple,u could just sit down and talk or call up if it's long distance,and just tell the person that it's not working for you,and you're pretty sure it's not working for him either(with reasons),so it's best to break up.
never forget to wish the person all the best in life,
that way,it ends amicably and neatly, no name calling,
you never know when or where u'll meet the person again.
CH3COO (m)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #12 on: July 19, 2008, 05:34 PM »

baby it's not you it's me.  i can't do us anymore.
Ruby_Pearl (f)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #13 on: July 19, 2008, 05:36 PM »

lmao!

@post
It's not me actually, it's you. You're boring, but someone else will find you interesting Embarrassed
CH3COO (m)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #14 on: July 19, 2008, 05:38 PM »

it's a "we" thing.  if you are complaining of boredom you're boring too.
ogrebuga (m)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #15 on: July 19, 2008, 05:39 PM »

Quote from: CH3COO on July 19, 2008, 05:34 PM
baby it's not you it's me. i can't do us anymore.

Na to kill girl wey follow me talk this one

@topic,

I hate you. Move on.  Tongue
Ruby_Pearl (f)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #16 on: July 19, 2008, 05:40 PM »

Yes, I guess. Cry

People rub off on me a lot.

See, I was gentle and nice before, until I met you.

@post
I loved you, but I love myself more

Lady J
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #17 on: July 19, 2008, 05:42 PM »

wats d big deal in telling smone u aint interested no more  @topic
CH3COO (m)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #18 on: July 19, 2008, 05:47 PM »

Quote from: Ruby_Pearl on July 19, 2008, 05:40 PM
Yes, I guess. Cry

People rub off on me a lot.

See, I was gentle and nice before, until I met you.

@post
I loved you, but I love myself more


Don't blame me for your mishaps.   Baby when I met you, you were a damsel.  You changed.  You fart for fun at bbqs, you don't shave your armpits anymore, you have bear bear, I can't take it anymore.
ogrebuga (m)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #19 on: July 19, 2008, 05:52 PM »

@ toyin and organic compound,
Make una carry una domestic wahala comot for hia
Ruby_Pearl (f)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #20 on: July 19, 2008, 06:08 PM »

@ogre
sharrrap.

@ch3coo
Embarrassed
ogrebuga (m)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #21 on: July 19, 2008, 06:21 PM »

  Cheesy


@topic,

You're not good enough for me. Move on.  Tongue
CH3COO (m)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #22 on: July 19, 2008, 06:23 PM »

Quote from: Ruby_Pearl on July 19, 2008, 06:08 PM
@ogre
sharrrap.

@ch3coo
Embarrassed
just kidding  Tongue

we just grew apart I don't need you anymore.
syren
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #23 on: July 19, 2008, 06:34 PM »

Quote from: amyg on July 17, 2008, 06:47 PM
How best do u end relationships?I mean all my past relationships were never really called off.most times separated by distance or i would feel its just not working so i get on with my life until they come back and i tell them them they r 25mins 2 late.Same thing with my immediate ex,anything wrong with that?i just feel its stupid telling someone its over,better let him catch d signs himself

same here  Grin But it depends how long the relationship has been going on tho, if it's a long time they deserve an explanation.  Cool

Pataki
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #24 on: July 19, 2008, 06:52 PM »

@ Topic,

What I do best, I leave the communication gap wide open. I stop communicating. With time she will get weary of the relationship and move on with her life.

It has always worked best for me. Wink
Hannibal
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #25 on: July 19, 2008, 08:08 PM »

Quote from: Pataki on July 19, 2008, 06:52 PM
@ Topic,

What I do best, I leave the communication gap wide open. I stop communicating. With time she will get weary of the relationship and move on with her life.

It has always worked best for me. Wink

Like all players do. . . . .  Grin Grin Grin Grin

However, some chics are donkey stubborn . . . . You crink em good and they won't leave u be.
No matter what u do, they feign they don't see the EXIT sign.
To make matters worse, they use tears as emotional blackmail. . . . .  Tongue Tongue Tongue
rubi (f)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #26 on: July 19, 2008, 08:12 PM »

Quote from: Hannibal on July 19, 2008, 08:08 PM
Like all players do. . . . . Grin Grin Grin Grin

However, some chics are donkey stubborn . . . . You crink em good and they won't leave u be.
No matter what u do, they feign they don't see the EXIT sign.
To make matters worse, they use tears as emotional blackmail. . . . . Tongue Tongue Tongue

Not all chics of nowadays most of them are confident in themselves
Hannibal
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #27 on: July 19, 2008, 08:15 PM »

Quote from: rubi on July 19, 2008, 08:12 PM
Not all chics of nowadays most of them are confident in themselves

I didn't say ALL. . . . . .i said some. Wink
StephenP (m)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #28 on: July 19, 2008, 08:21 PM »

I'll set up a rendezvous with her and let her know that this thing isn't working at all and I think we should call it quits and end it. I don't have time for shit to be hanging.

Quote from: Pataki on July 19, 2008, 06:52 PM
@ Topic,

What I do best, I leave the communication gap wide open. I stop communicating. With time she will get weary of the relationship and move on with her life.

It has always worked best for me. Wink

If she hears nothing from you, she could think it's all good. Remember, "no news is good news"
rubi (f)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #29 on: July 19, 2008, 08:27 PM »

Quote from: StephenP on July 19, 2008, 08:21 PM
I'll set up a rendezvous with her and let her know that this thing isn't working at all and I think we should call it quits and end it. I don't have time for shit to be hanging.

If she hears nothing from you, she could think it's all good. Remember, "no news is good news"

nice input from a real man
Pataki
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #30 on: July 19, 2008, 08:39 PM »

Quote from: Hannibal on July 19, 2008, 08:08 PM
Like all players do. . . . .  Grin Grin Grin Grin

However, some chics are donkey stubborn . . . . You crink em good and they won't leave u be.
No matter what u do, they feign they don't see the EXIT sign.
To make matters worse, they use tears as emotional blackmail. . . . .  Tongue Tongue Tongue
Very true man!

Women are the best in emotional captivation for a mans heart. It is best to widen the gap, and give no room for emotional sentiments from a woman, that way you do be safe. Grin

Quote from: StephenP on July 19, 2008, 08:21 PM
If she hears nothing from you, she could think it's all good. Remember, "no news is good news"
No no no!

No news means something is cooking underground. Wink
StephenP (m)
Re: Hanging Relationships,how Best To Call It Quits?
« #31 on: July 19, 2008, 08:43 PM »

Quote from: Pataki on July 19, 2008, 08:39 PM
No news means something is cooking underground. Wink

I beg to differ. I'D rather tell her "look there's someone else I'm seeing" and get it off my chest rather than let her assume because she may not see anything wrong in my inability to talk to her.
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