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chicluv (f)
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There's this guy i have been seeing, I have been giving him the head job, and now he wants sex. But I am not ready for that. What do i do?
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sista-jay (f)
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Gosh. . . . . . . . .this is a HARD question!
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Memi (f)
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You have two options 1) you stop seeing him or 2) tell him you're not having sex with him. Oral sex does not replace sex a man cannot just have that he will want more, Its the law of nature
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kayemjay (m)
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@ poster
what did you expect after WILLINGLY giving him uncountable BJs?
If you want to keep him,better open ya yansh and stop complaining about what you started
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chicluv (f)
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@ poster
what did you expect after WILLINGLY giving him uncountable BJs?
If you want to keep him,better open ya yansh and stop complaining about what you started
thanx for the advice, but i don't intend keeping him, just want to keep him on his toes. d guy too proud. |
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chicluv (f)
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The main question still remains unanswered.
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lady bam (f)
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i don't intend keeping him, just want to keep him on his toes. d guy too proud.
ohhhhhhhhhhhhh. i see  @ post both go together but oral sex just cannot go alone. the real sex is much better. you can just have sex with a guy and he is ok with that, but giving him oral sex along!!!!  . . . . . boy!!!!!! its almost like building a house without a foundation. it sounds almost imposible. so, he just wont stop asking for the main thing |
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quickygirl (f)
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guys, if you want to know before then i guess if the guy is good at the matter head job is like paradise, but i still think the two should complement each other to take one to the ninth heaven
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SeanT21 (f)
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guys, if you want to know callor text me on 08087283712 , but before then i guess if the guy is good at the matter head job is like paradise, but i still think the two should complement each other to take one to the ninth heaven
why u actin like this? How old are You? @Topic If U already give him some head, Whats wrong with having sex with him. |
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sistawoman (f)
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@Topic
If You already give him some head, Whats wrong with having sex with him.
Please answer i want to know as well. |
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El (m)
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What are u, a frigging prick-teaser? u give a man head, without sex? what kind of man is he, anyway? both of y'all need to have y'all heads examined.
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Moyola (f)
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normally, after head job cumz d real thing,
buh itz not a must 2 do d real thing after givin head!!
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Brash! (m)
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Real sex matters!
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El (m)
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normally, after head job cumz d real thing,
buh itz not a must 2 do d real thing after givin head!!
yeah, if he comes, that is, what about a situation where he doesn't come from the blow job? |
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Moyola (f)
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yeah, if he comes, that is, what about a situation where he doesn't come from the blow job?
u getin it rung!! I meant. . . after givin head job, comes d real sex!! aint sayin d guy haz 2 come!! |
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El (m)
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"buh itz not a must 2 do d real thing after givin head!!", my eyes must be playing tricks on me.
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iice (f)
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Give him a hand job
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Moyola (f)
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"buh itz not a must 2 do d real thing after givin head!!", my eyes must be playing tricks on me.
duhhh!! itz not a must 2 hv real sex . . . after blow job!! that itz not a must 2 insert your di_ck in2 her puxxy! Ami miszin sumtin?! |
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El (m)
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duhhh!!
itz not a must 2 hv real sex . . . after blow job!!
that itz not a must 2 insert your di_ck in2 her puxxy!
Ami miszin sumtin?!
duhhh! yourself! its only if she can suck him till he comes, that he'll not need to hv real sex!that's what ur missing. Imagine u getting head, and then halfway to ur frigging orgasm, he gets up, and that's it! no orgasm from head, no privates? That's what the mess ur missing love.  |
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holyeye (m)
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combination of both at periodic more of oscillating intervals
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Missy B (f)
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LOL
Crazy gurl
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El (m)
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@ moyola, i get what u mean, ok? i give up, ok? Jeez!
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chicluv (f)
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first of all, to ans ur question, he cums everytime i give him the head, so dt means its a job perfectly done.
now my fear is dt after d sex, it will be game over, which i dnt want to happen.
stil want him for keeps.
and please what can i do to always make him want me more?
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vivaladiva (f)
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ur willin to givea man a bj indefinately but u wont let him u put his dcik in ur pussy
man thats taking the fuckin biscuit, tis either ur mad or ave got coke all over my nose
just one question, does he go down on u too
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topup
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first of all, to ans your question, he cums everytime i give him the head, so dt means its a job perfectly done.
now my fear is dt after d sex, it will be game over, which i dnt want to happen.
stil want him for keeps.
and please what can i do to always make him want me more?
No matter what you say, about you being in control, it is obvious the guy is in control, because you know he's going to leave after the sex. So you know you're being used? Is this guy that amazing that you will give him hjs but don't want him to leave. What is he giving you, is he giving you love, emotional support, protection? What is he giving you that isn't sex related?? I believe you started this relationship knowing the conditions was for both of you two to have sex and then part ways. Why try and make it something more, go and find a guy who doesn't need to treat you like a storage depo for his sperm. Seriously, I think you are fooling yourself for thinking that if you pleasure him he may learn to love you and want to stay with you, or that you are immune from heartbreak because 'you are in control'. You are most certainly not in control. Why don't you find a guy who is willing to wait 'with you' - not just 'for' you, until you are good and ready or even married. These girls who say they don't want love, they just want to have sex, they are usually lying to themselves because who wants to feel like a sex toy? Why not start your search now for something meaningful with a committed man who will want to love you first before making love to you? Because undoubtedly, you will start that search sometime or the other, except everybody else who started early would have a head start and may even already have their fiances or husbands. |
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chicluv (f)
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@topup
ur comments r highly helpful. m even stiff tired of d bobo. too boring. feeler.
i got highly attracted to him, n i guess its even because he asked me on a date dt made me lose my mind
thot he might be full of fun. but how wrong i was.
he stil asks me out on dates. but aint seeing him again
made up my mind last weekend
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abikelat
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