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smartsoft (m)
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guys i guess i'm confused on what to do, my gurl heard some nasty things from other ppl and i don't like such things she castigate me on what i haven't done. she heard same things before we broke up and we came back again, she never knew it was her friend saying some rubbish about me and which was not true and now same thing happend again she woun't belive me just told me on phone it's over and stuff like that for the past 3days now she woun't allow me in to there house.
The last time i went there, she won't allow me telling me she got some kinda visitor inside and inside of me i knew it was a male friend, but she told me she not leaving me cos of another man, but what she heard from friends
You see i don't like 3rd party in any relationship, it really sucks and getting information from outside really woun't help matters, Pls i need her what and what do i do now, Pls
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hot-angel (f)
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She doesn't love you anymore. I don't think any girl in her right mind, who loves her man would let her friends tell her crap about her man.
Even if she allows them tell her crap about her man, she won't believe her girlfriends over her man. Afterall you've explained to her that you didn't do the stuffs they said u did. If she loves you for real, she'll stick with you.
Now here's a newsflash, she's just using that B.S as an excuse. Since it happened before, she figured why not use it again.
Now that's just what i think!
WHy not just talk to her sincerely about stuffs. I mean sincerely. U should know where to meet her, as in maybe immediately after her classes or something. Sit her down. She can't break up with you over a phone. That's disrespectful (omg, it actually is, nahh personal stuffs, dis part in bracket has nuttn to do with this thread. sorry).
Anyways, talk to her. Make sure u guys understand each other well. After THE TALK, if she still wanna break up, then, u should know she's just tired of you. Sorry it hurts.
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2fine4u (f)
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aaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwww!!! and u such a cutie in your pic. well guess what? if she won't hav u back again, come home to mama!!!! imma treat u right!!lol
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smartsoft (m)
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 it really pains me cos i don't think i can stilll see same gurl like this outta there she just good, she told me too give her time to think or something. i just don't want to loose her, but today i'm gonna see her again could you tell me what to do or steps thanks for replying ASAP i'm greatfull
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j-girl
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i think you should try to move on. It doesn't seem like she wants you anymore
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Hotstepper (f)
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@2fine4u, who is a cutie if i may ask? well, one man's food is another man's posion
to da topic, let her do wuteva she wanna go if u have sincerely told her da truth, all diz BS ain't worth stressing 4
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smartsoft (m)
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Thanks guys, i finally left her because my pleading was kind of in vain.
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eslynera (f)
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Poor smartttttty,  At last u gave up?? bu bub buu but why??  Anyways, one secret, the gurl might come back herself, onedway, she'll cumm knockin on you're door, and when u realise it's her, just tell her, *walk away cat.*  J/J anyways, the reason that she might not be forgivin u is coz maybe she wants to hurt u the same way, she wants u to suffer too, but don't show her u care again, if u do, she'll treat u worse, so just go ahead with you, and , you'rself when she realises no more pumpering, maybe she'll miss u  but don't really think of that happenin, pretend like if u don't even know she existss,  |
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funloving (m)
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If you are not wrong NEVER , EVER PLEAD WITH A GIRL. IF SHE TURNS HER BACK ON YOUÂ MOVE ON or else you will lose relevance a charisma before her  |
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Rhodalyn (f)
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but One has to fight for what he wants |
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smartsoft (m)
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@Rhd quite true, but she should take you for granted just because you are pleading every blessed day, ppl who knew us together pleaded un mybehalf but she's stick to her words.
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beyonce1 (f)
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If you are not wrong NEVER , EVER PLEAD WITH A GIRL. IF SHE TURNS HER BACK ON YOU MOVE ON or else you will lose relevance a charisma before her WORD !, now this is no:-1 mistake, u guys make, if u haven't ofended a girl and u keep begging her---- she sees u as a sucker, bore. and too soft  do not trade your masculinity for a girl to drag it on the floor, if u really care 4 her, be strong enough 2 give her the space, IT'S A RUBBER BAND STAGE --, If she cares enough and values your PRESENCE in her life she will find a way of staging a come back. i know it's painstaking to wait, but if u DO need her back , keep yourself occupied with other activities while waiting, u might meet another girl or just save your love till she 's wise to know u r da one . |
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smartsoft (m)
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WORD !, now this is no:-1 mistake, u guys make, if u haven't ofended a girl and u keep begging her---- she sees u as a sucker, bore. and too soft do not trade your masculinity for a girl to drag it on the floor, if u really care 4 her, be strong enough 2 give her the space, IT'S A RUBBER BAND STAGE --, If she cares enough and values your PRESENCE in her life she will find a way of staging a come back. i know it's painstaking to wait, but if u DO need her back , keep yourself occupied with other activities while waiting, u might meet another girl or just save your love till she 's wise to know you're da one . Bravo |
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Busta (f)
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Let it go Guy, as long as u know your conscience is clear and she would most def. come back beggin.
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ksmiles
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lol, we gurls are funny sometimes, I like her style anyway, just back off man, the gurl is in love with another guy, am sorry,
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