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ocherome (m)
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I have lost so many girls because am a programmer, one left last week (i woke up 7:30am - sleep 3am no time) i did not care. i always feel it after i have finished that project that kept me up. most of our ladies need your time, that a serious programmer do not have and cannot give. (she talking of fashion etc you are thinking of codes)
the off mode thing is real.
mine is worse off i have two laptops and two desktops(one with large screen), do not disturb on my door. my family thnks they are losing me.
i have not seen i good lady programmer in naija, if there are lets say 0.1%, ugly and less fashionable.
it might work (marriage) the keyword is understanding. then get a helper (a non programmer) for all the works at home.
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malone5923 (m)
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Programming is not a problem, gaming is. At least you are not called childish,lazy or useless when you are a programmer. If a see any girl thats a pro gamer or can endure my obcessive gaming habit marriage is the next thing even if she is as ugly as a baboon I dont care in time I will begin the see her beauty.
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mactao (m)
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I have lost so many girls because am a programmer, one left last week (i woke up 7:30am - sleep 3am no time) i did not care. i always feel it after i have finished that project that kept me up. most of our ladies need your time, that a serious programmer do not have and cannot give. (she talking of fashion etc you are thinking of codes)
the off mode thing is real.
mine is worse off i have two laptops and two desktops(one with large screen), do not disturb on my door. my family thnks they are losing me.
i have not seen i good lady programmer in naija, if there are lets say 0.1%, ugly and less fashionable.
it might work (marriage) the keyword is understanding. then get a helper (a non programmer) for all the works at home.
Losing many girls "because you are a programmer" is actually because you work long hours. And, the thing about programming is that work isn't restricted to work hours. Bankers can leave their work in the office. A programmer can work in the office, in the bus on the way home, in bed, in the bathroom , ANYWHERE. So, given that you love your work, you'll do it a lot, and it might eat into your time for other things. I plan to become a programmer in future, and, trust me, I'll still have time for other things. |
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rock101 (m)
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guy, na good tin o! I wan be programmer too. I just started learnin recently. U fit marry programmer, na just say na program u go born and na programming language una go dey speak for house. But seriously, I dont buy the idea, except u guys are gonna be working together u'd hardly find time for each other. Anyhowz, mate!
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MrCrackles (m)
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yes a programmer can marry a programmer so they can program each others life and breed programmed offsprings!
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javalove (m)
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u right about d programmers gals not being a bit ugly. i have one if anyone cares to have her  She's a mad .net programmer, when i mean mad, i mean real mad one. Her intelligence scares me, but the only but is she aint too fyne |
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Gamine (f)
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So what are you saying now???  |
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javalove (m)
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war did u hear me say  |
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Gamine (f)
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The gal aint too fyne?? how you be??? |
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Jokems (m)
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Javalove, since u ve made up your mind, there should b no reason 2 seek the view of ppl in da house anymore  .Well, 4 concerned comrades in da house; personally, if am a programmer, i wont marry a programmer cos we will only have a house but no home. Since bird of a feather flocks 2gether, i think Javalove will enjoy his futue kind of home, a home where no body is psychologically and emotionally there for the other. Well, since both are alike , they wont bother about the outlook of their home.I weep 4 d unlucky children that will eventually be borne into d home (if ever they will even care to freak n conceive) COS THEY WONT ENJOY THE AFFECTION AND WARM COMPANY OF THEIR PARENT.  |
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alex406 (m)
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I dont see anything wrong in marrying a programmer if you are one as long as you guys understand each other and you really will make a great match.Buttressing the fact that you guys will always be busy with work and stuffs does not mean she will not have time to cook or tidy the whole house.If you guys really know the your worth as one,then there will not be any catastrophe.
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webdezzi (m)
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Honey, this food suks, what configuration did you use?
the default config
oh no, thats boring, you never ever think of tweaking the settings, anyway, i have lost my connection
Honey, i am very, ok i promise you, next time, will be feature rich
it not about just eating it baby, my database is full, i need to drop it
suit urself, as if you have enough memory to cook that.
@mactao, become a programmer first and you will understand.
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gimbus (f)
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i don't think programmers(chicks) r ugly as most of u r tryin 2 point out.its just dat guyz do nt understand them n see them as weird.
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javarules (m)
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How will u like a lady who sleeps at 1am(at the least), wakes up in d middle of the night(wen both are u are snugging each other) and says honey where is my laptop, hair unkempt, most time always locked up(how did u meet her anyway), acts like a man(a tomboy in most cases)
That is d brief description of what I think a programmer geekress will be
That is something to really think about, but not to worry, we'll hire an house help dts not so smart to take care of the house
and kids
and the car
and d food too
and probably everything else
Even if u marry a geekress, one of u will have to step down from your geekdom else your boat will become another titanic, crash is inevitable
ciao I'm outa here
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galatico (m)
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Yes if there is LOVE.
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javalove (m)
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How will u like a lady who sleeps at 1am(at the least), wakes up in d middle of the night(when both are u are snugging each other) and says honey where is my laptop, hair unkempt, most time always locked up(how did u meet her anyway), acts like a man(a tomboy in most cases)
That is d brief description of what I think a programmer geekress will be
That is something to really think about, but not to worry, we'll hire an house help dts not so smart to take care of the house
and kids
and the car
and d food too
and probably everything else
Even if u marry a geekress, one of u will have to step down from your geekdom else your boat will become another titanic, crash is inevitable
ciao I'm outa here
its not that hard u know. by d time the knot is tied, lifestyle might still be d same with that of pre-marriage but when kids arrive, dey dats wen sacrifices would be needed from the two. In this case, I - the man - would have to sacrifice alot in helping her with the kids, some coking if needed, some washing, and all dat. We can still work late into the night like before, gist, and of course (clears throught) too. The only thing is that freinds would not luv visitng cos the home wud be damn boring for them. what we talk about, the movies we watch and the kinds of jokes that would fill the house, a non programmer will surely feel out of place, |
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Olad234 (m)
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The Question to your answer! Marriage is to Enjoy not to endure! Bcosz you're not married that's why you think you can't be compactible.if you really love your wife/husband, you will have time for them.  Am a bloodly programmer! during office hours I can't do with calling my wify at lease twice before the close of the day, Please enjoy your programming world; also enjoy your marriage. 
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EBlossom (f)
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they would have no friends and always speak in code. They would only communicate thru text and the latest gadgetry. Their heart to hearts would be via web cam lol
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oreft2005 (f)
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it depend if they're in love
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A-40 (m)
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they would have no friends and always speak in code. They would only communicate through text and the latest gadgetry. Their heart to hearts would be via web cam lol
Are you trying to be funny  |
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blackweaver (m)
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i don't know why all of you are making so much noise about a programmer lady,
there are programmer ladies in the world and they do get married so if a lady
programmer can marry a non-programmer and have a happy marriage why not a programmer?
That being said it might make things uncomfortable for the kids when they start growing up
especially if they don't have programming tendencies.
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Bellety (m)
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wat i believe in life is dis: if u are close to God, he will direct u towards everytin in life including getting a life partner. so it does not really matter, if God says your wife is a programmer, u nor get SAY. wether u reject it 1million times, u will end up marrying a programmer. u cant run from God, wat he says comes to pass.so stick wit Jesus Christ today and see d 1daful tings dat will come b4 u. if u are due 4 marriage, i will urge u to take it to the Lord in prayer and c hw he will b of the gratest help to u. but 1st u av to repent and follow him. instead of asking weda or not to marry a programmer. go to d Lord in prayer.
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