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dakmanzero (m)
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Let him put pepper inside his vaseline container.
That will cure him sharp-sharp
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salsera (f)
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@king you needed help right?
you have got more than enough links about getting help, even that lengthy response from Princewhatever is good at least it tells you you are not alone and you CAN stop.
that's whats most important
you CAN stop
we have all done it(men more than girls) but some of us got help and stopped and are better,
it may take awhile but it does get easier, it does
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rotbog (m)
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Its simple. CUT YOUR DICK OFF.
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Egede (m)
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@Kingo1. You can count on me for prayers. Thank God you realised it's a bad habit, it will certainly affect you in the future if don't stop it. you need to start reading your bible and make positive confessions about your life. You can say the bible says 'sin shall not have dominion over me' I refuse to mastubate, I am the righteosness of God in Christ Jesus. I am clean. Visit www.christembassy.org . You can hola me at egedeamos@yahoo.com . Peace, I love you. |
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mubowa (f)
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Mr mekoyo actually know all the means you can get to see a porn. u are right dough
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mubowa (f)
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we got a pastor in the house
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Damollar (m)
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Its simple. CUT YOUR DICK OFF.
@rotdog - This is your own personal insecurity issue, and you need to get over it. |
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mubowa (f)
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@damolar, you alway write a mean thing every where i see your post. if he cut off his thing, because i know you yourself had already cut your off, what is he going to use, because he won't be able to borrow yours mean guy
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jonpinjeff (m)
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Fisrt Step:
Search every where around you. Pick everything that has to do with Porn and Burn Them.
Second Step: Dont worry it has to do with your heart. Submit it to the Lord. His Fire will take care of it.
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Damollar (m)
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@damolar, you alway write a mean thing every where i see your post. if he cut off his thing, because i know you yourself had already cut your off, what is he going to use, because he won't be able to borrow yours mean guy
@mubowa - u should pay more attention while reading post on this thread. I was replying to a quote and mind u i was only being factual not mean |
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samorijack
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I'M KINDA NEW HERE ,JUST WANT TO SPREAD A LITTLE LUV TO ALL MY PEOPLE HERE .  I UNDERSTAND THE PROBLEM MY BRODA IS HAVING,WHEN MASTERBATION BECOMES OBSESIVE IT BECOMES A PROBLEM AND CAN AFFECT EVERY OTHER FACET OF YOUR LIFE ,HOWEVER MY REMEDY IS A BALANCED LIFE,A BALANCED SEX LIFE. THE MORE RESPONSIBLE SEX YOU HAVE THE LESS MASTERBATION BECOMES A HABIT, SEX IS A NEED THAT CAN EASILY BECOME A CRAVING,I ALSO THINK THE LOSS OF SEXUAL DESIRE IS A BIGGER PROBLEM, BETTER TOO MUCH THAN TOO LITTLE  |
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Xencee (f)
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Hey y'all
If masturbation is so wonderful, y does it bring with it so much regret and remorse???
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Ndipe (m)
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Pray continously to God to overcome these problems for you.
Meditate on these Biblical Verses, Matthew 8:11. "For the Son of Man Came to Save that which was Lost". Admit that you are lost without Jesus Christ and humbly believe that only He can save you, Amen.
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diltony (m)
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Everyone have one point or the other depeding on their views. There is a saying "For lack of petrol, the fire goes out".
You need to avoid activities that stimulate your arousal like hanging out wit your friend's gfs, being alone with girls,
Do not make the mistake of totally avoiding girls, but be careful not to allow it to get too much, and being alone with them.
You must not encourage idlesness, engage in physical exercise, and something like programming/web design( like me) that takes all
your concentration (and all your sparetime).
When you are ready, grab a girl and walk down the alter or something.
For someone wit a high sex drive, to have a girl as 'just a friend' can be disastrous/impossible, so don't think that will help you.
Most importantly, be calm, determined. You start winning battles like this from your mind, just believe it first.
Once you overcome your mind(yourself), it will be easier that way.
As a christian, you need to pray about everything. Even something like "dating a girl" just so u don't end up with hiv/blind with std!
Stay calm, i find your topic rather interesting, i am supposed to be doing a research.
To all contributors to this discussion: you all did great especial sweetnini (my kind of babe!)
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risesun123
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Find out why masturbation is harmful for your health and many aspects of your life and what you can do to stop it. Read the only step-by-step program available in the world today and you will succeed in ending the habit of masturbation and start enjoying your life to the fullest. check http://www.stopmasturbating.com/ |
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Reverend (m)
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Find out why masturbation is harmful for your health and many aspects of your life and what you can do to stop it. Read the only step-by-step program available in the world today and you will succeed in ending the habit of masturbation and start enjoying your life to the fullest. check http://www.stopmasturbating.com/OK Mr. 1 post I wonder who you could be. It is about time that Seun took action against all the idiots who keep signing up under different names to post one idiotic and pathetic post  |
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yemo offa (m)
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King,i am speaking from experience.you can stop masturbating
but you will need will power. Also stop watching anything that can excite you sexually
and when u fail to stop your self,remember that masturbation has to do with the mind
therefore control it from there.While you are at it,try not to picture any sexual scene in your mind
a good way of doing this is silently reciting the multiplication table.with time you get bored and stop without ejaculating.
i masturbated for 10years before i stoped.it is possible
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superman (m)
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na wa oo that one na life sentence
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Reverend (m)
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King,i am speaking from experience.you can stop masturbating
but you will need will power. Also stop watching anything that can excite you sexually
and when u fail to stop your self,remember that masturbation has to do with the mind
therefore control it from there.While you are at it,try not to picture any sexual scene in your mind
a good way of doing this is silently reciting the multiplication table.with time you get bored and stop without ejaculating.
i masturbated for 10years before i stoped.it is possible
You might as well commit suicide now  |
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debosky (m)
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lmao multiplication tables while masturbating?? don't u know all the blood will be in your JT at that moment, rendering your brain virtually useless? avoid all the sources of temptation and renew your mind. peace |
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domwas2 (m)
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u can control your mind
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KDK (m)
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@xencee, When did u last masturbate? How come you regretted the action?  Hmmmmmm, I dey fear o o o o |
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hbrednic
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king,your problem is more than just saying prayers because the devil has built a mansion inside u. whenever the idea comes into your mind,just shout halleluya 7 times,then go to the nearest river and dip yourself 7 times,after that tell your neighbour to clean up with 7 white pedgeon,then shout halleluya again and end it with i am clean.if the problem continues,u can send me a first class tickect, so we meet in naija for me to clean u up  with 14 cows.after the expenses u will start thinking of how to make money and forget about masturbation.  |
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L.O.V.E (f)
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@hbrednic LMAO |
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lionheart (m)
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Hey! You are not alone 99% men masturbate every now and then . We are all freaks in our own ways and some people here got more issues than urs yet they pretend like its the worse thing ever done . Masturbation and watching porn are not really bad but if u are doing it over 8 hrs a day then u need serious help . |
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lionheart (m)
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Some of the ways u can stop doing it is to keep yourself busy and spend more time making or hanging out with friends or play sports , if u can't then focus more on studies either way u gain because " An idle mind is a devil's workshop " . I bet You won't have the time 2 think about watching porn or masturbating , You 'll probably end up like doing it once or twice a day which is not really bad till u completely get over it or meet a girl in exchange for it  . |
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holyvirus (m)
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Sweetnini, u re a demon. People like re such a waste
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holyvirus (m)
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Hot-angel please don't send yourself 2 hell. How did u come about anyway?
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holyvirus (m)
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Hot-angel please don't send yourself 2 hell. How did u come about anyway?
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GGGG
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Hey dude, relax man. Just a short advise so u don't have to read much.
If u truly love God. You can read a little of the bible a day, not the whole thing, just in case it gets boring and u giv up.
Make sure u read that little bit everyday n get the message, It does not tell u directly to stop watching, but it does help a little. try it. Good Luck!
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Nnenna1 (f)
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@Kingo1 Although the log-ons to this religion thread are paved with good intentions, you're probably not going to find many answers to your spiritual questions here. But I think you're smart enough to have realized this by now anyways. I still wish you good luck, and will keep you in my prayers.  |
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