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$$Rhino
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i am not sure it is possible anymore to have a relationship without sex, i think the question should be, why would a woman or the man want to be in a relationship, if they are not sure they want to make it a lasting one and be together forever, this being said, i am not saying that all relationship must end in marriage, but we cld at least try and set mnd on such goals and not just to have sex.
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timmfikk (m)
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at rhino, i can get a good point from your post, but the problems are most ladies are only ready for this young man who will always have his hand opened financially, and once guys also know the intention of such a lady, they keep asking for whats under the skirt and the rest of it.
Well i think the right thing to do is let many of the youth have more knowledge and get themselves a good lecture which will let them know they are a temple on their own and its only like a path leading to success both good and ugly people will always pass through it the best is to achieve what you have in mind, i rest my case for now,
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Missy B (f)
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Timm
YES!!to d ques yhu asked me ysterday.
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$$Rhino
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at rhino, i can get a good point from your post, but the problems are most ladies are only ready for this young man who will always have his hand opened financially, and once guys also know the intention of such a lady, they keep asking for whats under the skirt and the rest of it.
Well i think the right thing to do is let many of the youth have more knowledge and get themselves a good lecture which will let them know they are a temple on their own and its only like a path leading to success both good and ugly people will always pass through it the best is to achieve what you have in mind, i rest my case for now,
I so much agree with you, however, the men gotta act wise too, once u see a lady that seems to be interested in what u have in ur wallet, instead of playing the fool, the man cld waka too, 2 wrongs don't make a right, how long will the man continue to just sleep with babes all because they are asking for money, i guess, the man is not any better than the man then, because it all means prostitute is being helped by "prostitutee" how sad, and one day, a brother of urs cld come home with a lady that u have slept with too many times all because of money, how would u feel then, better for us to help them cleanup their act. |
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$$Rhino
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no one told anyone to retain body, but be sure u are doing it with someone that u sure will marry if one sling shot enters where it ought not to enter |
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Feministic (f)
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I think that it is very much possible, although not necessary, but if that is what you want then I surely see no doubts that you can have it.
I think the main "trick" is just knowing that you are not abstaining from sex due to fear, illness, etc. Anyone that decides to not date you because
you are abstinent is better off gone anyway, since that is an obvious sign that they do not respect your personal boundaries.
Also, try not to feel guilty if you ever do have sex with someone, since it does not lesson a person's self-worth.
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dadsgal (f)
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rhino,you really are good in councelling.
you see its very hard for one to be in a relationship with a guy that wont demand for sex,even my childhood friend goes about telling his friends that am is girl.i don't really like his character because all what that comes to his mind is hug,from hug to kiss,from kiss to SEX.
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dadsgal (f)
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you see rhino,i don't have a guy that i can call my own,because i havent seen the right one yet.They seem to be the same to me.
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micklplus (m)
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[quote author=Gamine link=topic=155583.msg2581279 Mickey!! are you serious??? Well, i don't have to deceive myself and thats the koko. It aint worth nada ! But, why would i want to be in a relationship where we wont have to explore our bodies?  i aint saying we are going to base everything on sex but, we aint gon do without it and thats a fact! Cheers |
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timmfikk (m)
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@ missy b, oh i see, then y the (M) do you know you just impose the gurl i like most on ND with that as well  okay letes meet at the normal home ground now. i already send you and invitation message but u fail to show up in there, i do not know why, show at the arena stadium where we always lock it down oo because its been long ur face showed at the dining table. |
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$$Rhino
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you see rhino,i don't have a guy that i can call my own,because i havent seen the right one yet.They seem to be the same to me.
trust me, there is no need for you to rush, because the right man will come at the right time, you will be fine, the last thing you want to do is give a man your precious body when you are not too happy about it. |
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Gamine (f)
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@Micky. Sorry o. i didnt know this is how u think  |
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$$Rhino
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Well, i don't have to deceive myself and thats the koko. It aint worth nada ! But, why would i want to be in a relationship where we wont have to explore our bodies? i aint saying we are going to base everything on sex but, we aint gon do without it and thats a fact! Cheers Will u be willing to take care of the result after exploration of the bodies? |
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micklplus (m)
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@Micky. Sorry o. i didnt know this is how u think don't be making a mistake,okay ! There are boundries and expectations, right? the point is, why do we like to deceive ourselves??? how many relationships can stay without sex? probably about 2% !!!! i decided with fullest consent of my babe to be having sex and thats a problem??? I never had problem with most things in life and premarital sexual exploration isnt an exception !  Thats not to say, all things should be centred around sexual activities. Cheers  |
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micklplus (m)
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@ rhino i don't see anything wrong in having sex with someone u are going to marry ! All activites are based on consequences ! i should think the type of r"esult" u were referring to was " pregnancy" right? i am game if that should happen ! besides, i am a prof of the "koko" Cheers |
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Feministic (f)
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Might I add that there all other ways of exploring the pleasures of sensuality without actual intercourse, some people try verbal stimulation, oral sex, mutual masturbation, etc. Usually, the stigma is that people that are sexually abstinent are "frigid" or "cold", which is untrue for many.
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$$Rhino
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Might I add that there all other ways of exploring the pleasures of sensuality without actual intercourse, some people try verbal stimulation, oral sex, mutual masturbation, etc. Usually, the stigma is that people that are sexually abstinent are "frigid" or "cold", which is untrue for many.
Good one and i am sure many people will be getting in touch with you for lessons |
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micklplus (m)
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Might I add that there all other ways of exploring the pleasures of sensuality without actual intercourse, some people try verbal stimulation, oral sex, mutual masturbation, etc. Usually, the stigma is that people that are sexually abstinent are "frigid" or "cold", which is untrue for many.
yeah, ALL the above plus,in addition, including, sexual intercourse !!!!  : Also, most things are based on choices, right |
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Gamine (f)
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Cheers to u too only a few people are lucky to have married those they had premarital sex with what happens to d rest of us  |
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$$Rhino
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Cheers to u too only a few people are lucky to have married those they had premarital sex with what happens to d rest of us Live with the memory and make ur sex with the newest partner counts |
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Gamine (f)
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tHE MEMORY OF HERPES.
na real memory to live with
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$$Rhino
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Well, i am sure you must have learn something from all the past, and be able to make tomorrow a better day of choice.
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Gamine (f)
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What I have learned has nothing to do with the topic |
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micklplus (m)
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@ gamine
LOL
Theres a brighter future
LOL
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Gamine (f)
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a brighter future indeed. made of constant hospital trips and bright colored tubes |
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micklplus (m)
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things could be revamped u know for more enhancement ! so, constant hospital trips and bright coloured tubes wont pose a problem, right?
Just make the activity one per night and u'll understand what i mean.
LOL
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$$Rhino
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lol |
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Gamine (f)
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1 per night?
isnt that asking too much
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micklplus (m)
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As the spirit leads!
LOL
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