WE'LL START WITH LEARNING HOW TO TALK
watch your tongue, it isĀ a very little member of your body but it can set a big forest on fire. watch what you say. what you say can make or mar an individual forever. learn to talk to people with honour and rspect. don't shout. keep your voice down even if yu are angry. when talking to your children, talk firmly , don't shout in order to threaten, it will just show you don't have authoiryt, rather make your mindknown to the child and believe that the child will act accordingly. mind you you must follow your instructions with action or they will think yur actions are contradictory.
when driving, talk to others with honour. if a driver drives in a bad way, don't shout at the driver, be calm and allow the driver to fnish his manoueverings, and then continue to drive along. some men don't like to see women at the wheels and they do their best to shout them down and actually ask who gave them their licenses, it ought not to be so.
some people talk weird to their spouses, your spouse is not your slave but your parner, talk gently and nicely to each other. hold each other in high esteem, even when extremely annoyed learn to control yourself and not hit at or talk your spouse down. this habit will eventually spill out in the public and it will neve be a promising sight to behold. let's learn to honour people in the way we talk. that is a sign of a true mature person
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