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legs (f)
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Anyways, this pre-marital sex thing is quite recent. How was it handled in the old days?
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dablessed (f)
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Now I want to find out something else now this no sex before getting married thing does this include no serious smooching (as in even naked together) and if this is true do you people have any idea the kind of position you are placing me under that means on my wedding night I am at the womans mercy whatever she has to offer for me is what ill have to content myself with for the rest of our lives together? Legry, To answer your question above, yes this includes not seeing her naked or ' smooching'- as you put it. Why would you want to see your girlfriend naked when you don't want to go all the way? Answer me my friend? Kissing, petting, necking, touching under clothe and the rest are all 'foreplay' - to prepare you for sex. Why would you want to engage in these things when you don't actually want to go all the way? You can do it! You can do it! No big deal!Pple have done it before. You just have to be disciplined. Discipline is something everyone should posses. The same way you discipline your self with food or anger is the same way you control yourself with sex ok? |
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love4ever (f)
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hey
my friend tell him so that he will stop day dreaming
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tayotina (f)
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hey
my friend tell him so that he will stop day dreaming
 love4ever and legry again. Hope it all ends well.  |
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love4ever (f)
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it would not end well if he does not stop talk about gals like that  |
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tayotina (f)
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love4ever, if that is how legry feels bout girls, then let him feel free to express it ok? |
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Seun (m)
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I'm not comfortable with the direction of this discussion. Inasmuch as it helps that people are being open and all that, there might be people who might be put off by all this.
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tayotina (f)
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Seun just come out straight ok? Tell us you are not comfortable with it. We already know you are never comfortable with anything pertaining to sex.
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legs (f)
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not necessarily tayo-t i want to believe seun was referring to ability to exercise self-control and be courteous and polite even when expressing yourself, in any case like we said earlier there may be some non-adults visiting this forum
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mamba (m)
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Let me throw a question here(Ladies please forgiv me for this) Okay no sex before marriage right, okay fine by me but what if on your weddig night the night of finnaly discovering each other your wifes privy prt smells and I mean really stinks, what do you do then and you are one of those men that even something as like smelly armpit(which you can easily use a roll on for) turns them off, what would you do in the name of love, stay abi and find medical cure that she has been looking for all her life, This goes out to the If you have sex before you get married your d*&k would fall off people
which kind extreme example be this? my cousin once met a babe like this and boy it was bad, but the guy still do am o! when I entered his room I asked him: " eeewwwwwwwwww what is that nasty smell?" and he replied: " na the babes thing!" but it did not stop him but it would have been a turn off for me straight away. You guys are nutzzz!!! What a way to make a point... Me and my friends have been Rolling on the floor with laughter, I'm havin' stomach cramps already... |
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Pinky (f)
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this is becoming something else... u guys have to be careful else i will be forced to get this topic off the board...what all that nonsense about....something smelling or not.. legry compose your self plsssssssssssssss.. else u guys will have to say bye to the topic
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Seun (m)
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Pinky, how exactly are you going to achieve that?
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dominobaby (f)
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I don't support premarital sex oh but "No man should marry until he has studied anatomy and dissected at least one woman".
Seun you hear?
Tayotina i am trying to figure out what it is you have put here because you have got me concluding that: you do not support premarital sex for a girl but a guy could "dissect" a girl, am i correct? |
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love4ever (f)
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not necessarily tayo-t I want to believe seun was referring to ability to exercise self-control and be courteous and polite even when expressing yourself, in any case like we said earlier there may be some non-adults visiting this forum
i dey sorry if i said anything wrong and i think what you say is true thanks anyways
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tayotina (f)
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Dominobaby, don't mind me oh. Just catching my fun jare love4ever, I hear you oh. I go exercise self control, you hear!!! |
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love4ever (f)
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i was refraining to those that i have annoyed anyways like seun that is it and not you
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shockreaction (m)
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Well, I guess this is mostly a religious issue. It's ok or not ok based on what you believe...
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legry (m)
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ok i give up. Love4ever i totally give up you know what i am totally yours now but please how do i talk about girls that offends you i only say what i see and know haba na wa o okay all girls are saints and all men are evil does that make you feel better |
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dominobaby (f)
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Dominobaby, don't mind me oh. Just catching my fun jare |
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love4ever (f)
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ok I give up. Love4ever I totally give up you know what I am totally yours now but please how do I talk about girls that offends you I only say what I see and know haba na wa o okay all girls are saints and all men are evil does that make you feel better hey legry what do you mean that i am totally yours now please and na beg i dey beg tell me and do not want to get involved in somthing i do not know and mind you know how you talk about me please make you know spoil my image  |
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legry (m)
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Get involved in what you don't know emphgggggg!!!!!!!!!!!
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legs (f)
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Get involved in what you don't know emphgggggg!!!!!!!!!!!
Rolling on the floor with laughter legry you are a certified nut! LOL |
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Laka
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premarital sex is a total no- no for me. u may not want to get involved wit what u've got no clue of but at the same time, the sex could actually change.
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love4ever (f)
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it is not ok because you do what is not good
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Motee (f)
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Yes premarital sex is not OK. It takes the grace of God not to be involve except you do not have feelings for each other.
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Greatpeter (m)
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H m m! you are an idealist.  |
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legry (m)
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Love4ever let me ask you a question have you ever had sex?
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Vieira (m)
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Love4ever let me ask you a question have you ever had sex?
If the answer is anything other than NO shcok go kill me o! |
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uchesco (m)
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Hmmm ......pre marital sex..........I just want to add my two bit to this never ending discussion..... First of all, having sex before marriage is like MOST things in life, is a thing of choice between both people(Thats my view......) But Quite frankly, seun your wish for ONLY a virgin is starting to border on the fanatical(sorry)... u mean u plan to divorce her if u find out she isn't a virgin..... Bros get REAL NOW..... if u keep looking at it that way, u'll keep missing the point. Sometimes a person who has had pre marital sex is like someone who has been on a job for some years, (LIKE UR JOB) and thus has experience... He/she is sometimes the best to hire!! (in this case for marriage...). You know what the opposite expects and better yet, how to give it... so your marriage starts on a great note....And for your info. disvirgined girls are VERRRRY capable of faithfulness, sometimes better than virgins. To draw from my analogy, they have been on different "jobs"so they know a good one when they see it, and she chose YOU, You think she doesn't know what a diamond u are!!!! Legry, as much as i find your choice of words humourously irritating... i'm bound to agree wit some of your points... Every one has priorities when it comes to relationships, some want beauty, some want fame.... some want riches, some want true love.... and some want the very best of sex!! (I believe u can get true love and sex together and that's my choice). Some also want all of the above, but PLS be real... even Cinderella didn't get it all(THERE WAS NO GREAT SEX IN THAT STORY ABI??) Ladies ladies.... no kissing or smooching in a relationship?? I know they MIGHT(notice i said might) exist in some relationships but in today's world, heavily saturated with R&B love songssteamy video on local t.v, Mills and Boons,(and better ones!!) u want to torture all those school girls and boys who have been dreaming of this since they reached ss1... We are disciplined but the truth is if the opposite sex is sooo loving, sooo caring... soooo all-u-think-ever-want-in-a-guy-or-girl... ... You'LL WANT IT!! And don't tell me u haven't kissed someone too!!!! I'll talk more later in the next 2hours,if i get any replies, Cheers |
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hot-angel (f)
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Primarital is suppose to be a NO NO. But Love does cazy things.
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