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lekan2311 (m)
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If Pre-marital sex is a sin, Count yourself to be a sinner because. I never want to know if anybody is ready to hear from you. we all involves in Pre-marital sex. Their's nothing One can do about it. Its a Normal way of life   |
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prettyH (f)
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If Pre-marital sex is a sin, Count yourself to be a sinner because. I never want to know if anybody is ready to hear from you. we all involves in Pre-marital sex. Their's nothing One can do about it. Its a Normal way of life Certainly not? Sex before marriage is not a normal way of life because its the normal norm doesn't make it right. |
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larger_20 (m)
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Certainly not? Sex before marriage is not a normal way of life because its the normal norm doesn't make it right.
It is normal for animals..they don't even marry..therefore it should be normal for man too.after all what do we loose? Nothing |
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elpaso
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hey.
if a girl doesnt want to get married at the moment, and doestnt want to have sex before marriage,
why would a engage in a relationship with a man? in certainly all the cases a man will desire to sleep with her. however she denies her. what do women want? a sense of appreciation or touch, sensitiveness?
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prettyH (f)
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It is normal for animals..they don't even marry..therefore it should be normal for man too.after all what do we loose? Nothing
Gosh what an excuse. You seem to forget we are higher and wiser than any other animal on earth. hey.
if a girl doesnt want to get married at the moment, and doestnt want to have sex before marriage,
why would a engage in a relationship with a man? in certainly all the cases a man will desire to sleep with her. however she denies her. what do women want? a sense of appreciation or touch, sensitiveness?
Come are some guys this shallow?  |
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cammy (f)
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ok if your engaed in premarital sex thats not good. but its ok. hormones are raging till the point that some people can't controll themselfs. its ok. noone is perfect. premarital sex is very dagerous and huful especially if the guy dumps u after he has gotten what he wants but it is still ok. just abstain untill you r married no biggie people lie about being virgins all the time. i don't think u have to marry someome who is a virgin. if u love someone it shoudn't matter should it? what u goin aroud looking for virgins crap, does that give u excietment? marry for love. jeez que tonto seun your not a virgin so maybe no girl should marry u rite. despierty(wake up your in the 21st century) the word deflower realy sucks.
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sin (m)
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who started this sex before marriage discussion? he that do not indulge in this act should cast the first stone. we pretend too much in this society. i rest my case
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goodguy (m)
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I have cast my own stone and I will continue to cast it. Premarital sex is wrong. We're in the 21st century..so?? Oh..u call premarital sex "civilsation" too? Please get off it. Even if we're in the 50th century, what is wrong will still remain wrong!!!
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Falcon
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hey.
if a girl doesnt want to get married at the moment, and doestnt want to have sex before marriage,
why would a engage in a relationship with a man? in certainly all the cases a man will desire to sleep with her. however she denies her. what do women want? a sense of appreciation or touch, sensitiveness?
SEX is not the only reason why males and females come together. remember COMMUNICATION is the first reason why God created Eve for Adam. SEX is very very primary. I totally abhore SEX before marriage. |
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Falcon
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Opposites attract. its okay to have female friends. its okay to have an intimate r/ship with a girl. but any guy that wants sex before marriage, dosnt have self control. and you should watch out else he uses you, and kicks you off  don't be decieved. its very wrong moraly and religion wise. thats why its called FORNICATION.....  |
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sage (m)
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Opposites attract. its okay to have female friends. its okay to have an intimate r/ship with a girl. but any guy that wants sex before marriage, dosnt have self control. and you should watch out else he uses you, and kicks you off don't be decieved. its very wrong moraly and religion wise. thats why its called FORNICATION..... I am sure some people will call this bigotry. Even gay proponents  ..will .................? |
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cammy (f)
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everyone do what u want if u want to have sex before marriage thats your bizzwax. noone can tell u what is right or wronge. most men arent virgins i don't know why the hell they demand that the girl they marry be a virgin when they themsefs are fonificators.
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larger_20 (m)
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Gosh what an excuse. You seem to forget we are higher and wiser than any other animal on earth. Come are some guys this shallow? Listen, what do you mean by higher animals? You think other animals will not survive without man? The world will even be a better place without man...Higher animals in my sense is limited to once territory...therefore if you are irrational while majority of humans are rational then you're a lower animal...look at it this way...a mad man is not like a normal person, he is a lower animal..." In the animal world, they have abbormal ones too. Their capability could be bases on strenght and not the brain so if you're weaker in strenght, the animal is concidered a lower animal.... What man is doing is not right..i.e invading the teritory of other animals in the name of "higher animals"......for teroritory is limited to people of the same group or class..... If you are intrested, my book, Foundations of Human Problem will be released in May 2007. This book will change peoples mentality and cause a lot of storm but that is what I love to do..that is what really gives me joy..I discussed this in details in the book in my defense for other species..other areas I talked about includes darwin natural selection theories, sexual selection theories among other popular prostulations including my own..as an emerging writer |
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goodguy (m)
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larger_20, after all your story, the fact that premarital sex is wrong hasn't changed. No amount of theories (higher, middle, upper, lower, central animals...) will dispute that fact.  |
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larger_20 (m)
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This is a controversial topic and i wasnt expecting everyone to favor me..If u cast a ballot.......philosophically both sides are huge so it would be hard to just end one and leave one hehe..Anyways..Money is always good to get hehe
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Falcon
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who started this sex before marriage discussion? he that do not indulge in this act should cast the first stone. we pretend too much in this society. i rest my case
No matter how big a butterfly is, it cannot become a bird. What am saying is "That most people indulge in it does not make it right." even if everybody does it, it does not remove the fact that it is wrong. |
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goodguy (m)
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Thank you my brother/sister
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tassmal (m)
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i didnt believe this thread still alive after so long... humm people i am particular shocked that someone who even think about talking about animals when we talk about sex. what is the comparision . u were created in the image of a God, how on earth do we compare actions with animal. it just shows how low we stoop to justify what we know is wrong
Civilzed countries where some of us live where we think sex before marriage is the norm therefore it is right.. i will ask u really take a good look at what that idea has brought them. do u honestly like the fact that someone u are with has been with2 or so guys/girls? i meant u actually feel nothing that u like the 5th in a roll. humm the Devil has really done a good job in blinding us.
it may not be pride to be a virgin anymore but he who created has not changed his standard. those are virgin... stay true. rev talks about people who will escort Jesus as he walks round. the are all virgins.. not just christains.
those who are not virgins (or rather those having sex before marriage) i plead with u stop. fear God. there is repentance and restoration.
thats my all.
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Geez (m)
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Listen up all:
Pre-marital sex = AIDS = STD = Prostitution
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prettyH (f)
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Thank you my brother
@tassmal
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2_die_4
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I suppose this all stems back to the days of Adam and Eve...
people know it is wrong, but they do it anyway...
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tassmal (m)
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rebellion against God.... yah
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2_die_4
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but danm it's good!!!!!!
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tassmal (m)
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married ba? yes... but no yet.. i don't agree
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2_die_4
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are you honestly saying that you have never had sex since you became a concentual adult?
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tassmal (m)
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guess u not read my other posts... i not going to go into that again only want to say bro...... Baba (and i don't mean obj)is not happy o!
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2_die_4
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good on you man..
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tassmal (m)
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the great thing is u too can make it....even if u in u can come out!
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goodguy (m)
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tassamal, abeg tell them jo!  |
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holyghost (m)
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for the rules of the holy books its not ok to have sex before saying i do i do.
but in our living trends this days it's a must, because you know before hand what you'er taking home, an iron man , a weakling, or a terror muda of a guy some are even dauda the sexy guy at least you know what to expect
or is the woman, she may be i have headache type, or not today oh or levef me make i resst type some may be nyfo mania some na Oga long John na u go tire Oh even after round 9 ( baby Gkwana gida) some na after you na david joor you no dey do well, well
all am saying is that when you test you know the real thing that you are taking home or following home as the case may be.
because only by testing that you know your style and compatibility ratio then take the best decision/solutions,
because any union that has sex problem soon part their ways mark my words
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