Premarital Sex is Not OK!

am a female, av never done it, av been tempted to do it ,but still hope to keep it.

thankx men(mamba) i love that ;
First of all, I agree with quicksilver 100% about the hierarchy rule.
There has to be the deflowerers, the dumpers and the pickers like Mr Admin.

It might interest you to know that it's proven fact that Ladies enjoy sex more than men do and they are partly responsible for all the premarital sex act. Besides, most girls will think you're impotent if you don't prove yourself early in the relationship.

I would never marry a girl that I've not tasted for so many reasons which I'm still compiling.
i think  that  is just the real fact.
mamba i love that

I need to taste the applei am about to eat permanently, if its bad i drop it, if its good i keep it.
but i like eating apples sha

ladies i will only marry a virgin

@ Big Shishi

Why is masturbation not OK?

@ Big Sissy


I think you are the ignorant one and totally backward in your views!

Masturbation is a normal and perfectly healthy activity.

Isn't it incredible that one of God's most beautiful gifts, masturbation, is held in such contempt by those who wear their religion on their arm. No one has ever become pregnant, impregnated someone, become diseased, or been physically harmed because of the act. I'D like to meet the person who has passed puberty without ever doing it.

The only mention of masturbation in the Bible would possibly be Lev. 15:16-18, 32-33; 22:4 and Deut. 23:10-11. It is interesting to notice that none of these passages refer to the emission of semen as a sin. In fact, such an emission has fewer consequences than a woman's menstruation.

Therefore, masturbation is not a sin and is no more regulated in the Bible than relieving oneself or menstruating. This is unsurprising, since the overwhelming majority of human beings do masturbate at some point in their lives (and the rest, someone once said, are lying); if it was a sin, then, it seems to me, it would have been mentioned.
       
Thus, don't feel guilty about doing it, and it will not be a problem.

If you feel the need then you can masturbate in the knowledge that it is good for your inner spiritual health.

I wont comment on this matter any further in this thread as this is not the topic. There is already a thread which discusses this issue.

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-13811.0.html

99% of people who have responded to this topic are not free of sex before marriage.What to do is to seek God's favor and stay in the marriage. But many do not have a marriage. Inside the marriage are heat, death and hatred.

The desire of women, ladies and girls on fashion and all that jazz and the weakness to control itchiness lead to sex before marriage. Men are just there to jump at it. The women do not respect their private thing, men see it as a cheap thing and so it is. If not for the STDs, rape would have been welcomed by all. All welcoming a sin doesn't make it a good deed! Men are not vowing every woman can't see my private thing to cut down the rate of the sin is going. It's like a competition thing; do or others do that for you and you will still take in what the cat brought in. But what can we do?

Do you call what women wear trousers? Am afraid we don't have partners to marry. Men and women alike. So keep your mouths shut and make do with what you have finished or wrecked long ago. (Boomerang). I remember when a man was being peppered by his would-be father-in-law and he vowed not to proceed and that afterall the beautiful daughter is not a virgin. He too wasn't a virgin! Vicious and spiral cycle if you like. If you don't fornicate, people elsewhere will do that with your would-be wife and vice versa. I think it is only what happened in Soldom and Gomorah (not sure of the spellings) that can change us and the world.Not family background, not religion and not counselling that will stop the madness. This shit is bigger than most of us. End of the world be that huh. Am out.

@rev na english now!  try to assimilate/comprehend it he/ she ain't speaking GREEK

whats the prize? @rev i hope u are not as horny as you potray in your posts

well:θέλω να έχω τη σεξουαλική επαφή με σας

translate to: i will like to have a sexual encounter with you
RIGHT?

@ rev candle light dinner  mba mba mba

fresh dairy ice cream in the post  otiooooooooooooooo


this na ojoro ehemmmmmm let me put on ma thinking cap, i'll get back to u on the prize thingy

at rev
no dinner, icecream. cuddle and kissing or premarital sex u dig

was right, u are one horny dude

i will getback to you on ma prize, mean-while duty calls, ma oga dey look me with evil eyes

dey go scratch head small.

gotta run get back at u soon

seems your verbal reasoning skills need honing,

i didn't equate getting aids with pre-marital sex, i was simply countering some other posts that this thing is 'bigger

than us all' and that '99%' or people on this thread will have PM sex. the fact that a lot of people, or 'everybody' is

doing something doesn't mean you should also do it. 

erm, you think say Kinky Rev. go gree that wan. I no think so oooo

you go girl!

California nko 

For me it's not okay. can't even count the number of lecture i've had on it.  My religion sees it as a sin so it's a sin plus personally it just doesn't feel right having premarital sex.