Premarital Sex is Not OK!

rever you f-ucking caitiff, you're a fool

i'm in the least bit frustrated, i'm only pointing out your dim-wittedness.
you're devoid of even a single particle of decency & your reasoning is skewed.

You proved me right, thank Almighty! I knew you were slow in the head.
No son, going about saying premarital sex is a necessity is an outstanding characteristic of a barbarian.
Try again, this time post something sensible.  Try inducing sound logic.
Maybe you'll come to understand that I am yet to make a statement with regards to the topic at hand.
Why are you so irate by the way, all I wrote was approximately 2 lines, and here you are responding with a 20-page editorial.
What has your anti-christ agenda got to do with me terming you a scum, which is what you are.
So you know this.
That's good to know, but I'm not interested in dim-witted views, though it seems that's all you have to offer.
I pretty much called you a buffoon, get it? Dim-wit
You're preaching The Satanic Times to the wrong crowd, bloke.

Are you always this contradictory? You're fulla rebuttals.
You do not think of God when you're not having sex, you claim.
Yet you're here ranting about the said God that you do not think of.

You'll grow up some day.
G-night

You are one befuddled, delusional, xenophobe
I wouldn't dare.
Child you ought to know better.
And sadly you're one.
Speaking of education(or in your case lack there of), you're putting on quite a sorrowful, lugubrious, sad display of your intelligence
only a gay, immature, dyslexic, perverted, indecent, lowlife swine would think that.
You're clearly one.
Erase me from your homo-erotic fantasies
That's almost flattering & consoling, but mind you, I on the other hand am  saddened that you want to drool on my f-ucking shaft you bloody wanker.
Have you swallowed your pills this morning.

That's just a figment of your faggoted imagination.

Ohhhhhh, you mean the way you experience sex with the members of your kinky supposed-church, you stupid dolt.



From here on out, silence befits your foolishness you hobo.
fool at 40, what a pity.

Sex is important for the following reasons:

1. Sex is "essential"

There is a natural instinct or need (akin to a hunger for food) which we all have, and that to repress it is damaging to physical and mental health.

2. Sex is an "experience" 
     
It is beneficial for people to accumulate as many different experiences of life as possible. Pre-marital sex with several different partners is said to be one of these experiences. Sex is "exciting" and is seen by some as an essential component.

3. Sex is an  "experiment"
       
It is no longer sufficient for a couple to be emotionally, spiritually or intellectually compatible. If they are really serious about each other they ought to discover whether they are sexually compatible too. In the context of cohabitation, this is sometimes seen as a "trial marriage".

4. Sex is an "expression"

If two people love each other it is seen as natural for them to express that love through sex, regardless of their marital state.


Premarital sex does not exist,  SEX EXISTS  Enjoy

so if he wants you so bad he should marry you so he can screw you?

its really sad that women still think that once they are married that solves everything.

with 70% of the world's HIV infection,I don't understand why we still think we are on a higher moral plane than the West

Yes, I personally believe that we are.
HIV stats do not establish morale.

when were you born, why don't you go in front of a panel of reasonable audience and tell them "due to the 70% hiv spread of the africans, they're immoral people."
that's insanely asinine.
delusion abi whatever you want to call it, be my guest.  I'm yet to read where it says "African culture doesn't believe in condoms."
That statement is more religion-driven than it is cultural.
don't just come out here speculating. if you read these things somewhere, or there's a declaration somewhere kindly paste the links.
Going by hearsay is very daft.  You'd literally have to be a 2-year-old, or an illiterate to believe that sleeping with little kids cures the HIV virus.
Once again, this is about morality not a phuckin virus.

That wasn't a personal attack at all, it was a sincere question, i was curious.
moral superiority in sexual issues ---------ah now you're talking, since you've clarified that, I agree with you completely.
We're most certainly not living in the Victorian era where women especially are sean as pure/perfect.
Yes, it is very alarming, but that's not the problem at all, people are having sex everywhere all over the world, it's just unfortunate that the virus is pretty much all over the continent of Africa, almost no one is safe from contacting HIV.
I still don't understand this, what groups are these? Let me share this quote with you
"If you don't know the forest, you will come to fear the forest." - people usually don't adhere to things they have no knowledge of. Based on intuition, this might be the reason, or as I stated earlier, it could be motivated by religion.
Come to think of it, it is Africa we're speaking of here isn't it? A continent filled with labeled "third-world countries"
No, it doesn't.  Let's just say the people are "improperly" informed.
I'd like to know how this idiot became a VP. how does someone in their right mind think showers cure HIV, ooooh goodness, it's a miracle.
actually, there is no such thing as moral superiority, but there are certain standards and beliefs as a person growing up, in a certain society, that dictates the way I conduct/carry myself, that's why I see some things done in the western culture and say oh, "that's unethical" or no "that's immoral"
No, I wouldn't claim that there's a unified African culture, there might be certain aspects of our cultures that we share in common, but there is no uniformity.  when the FP made his post I had to assume something being that Nigerians predominate this board. Overall morality isn't based on sexuality though, but I do still feel that we aren't as sexually promiscuous/open as our western counterparts, I definitely wouldn't call it sexual morality.
compare Nigeria to America for example, how many "fa.gs" do you see walking about the streets acting femminine, how many couples do you see cuddling out in the open without feeling insecure, etc, things might have changed now, but it's certainly not as prevalent as it is in America, or etc,

fekuti:sometimes ago i heard that the Catholic church preached against the use of condoms.those are not africans.whats your view about that.As for the VP u can not disregard his opinion totally, i have also heard something close to that,just as u must have come to know that CONDOM is not 100% garanttee against HIV.for men it has been medically proven that we might not get infected even if we have sex with a carrier,the danger in our own case is not to have any bruises so as not to create an opening for the virus to get in.the skin protect the virus from infecting easily.so if we do proper cleaning of our body and THING we can wash off the virus off our skin.but how sure are we that we would not suffer any wound.

hey girl, even a toddler knows how bad premarital sex is,  and i believe u know how detrimental it is to your physical, cycological, and spritual health even though you are not spiritual. i bliv evryone is accountable for his conduct, the world is free, if you feel its okay with you, just go ahead.but if common sense 'though it aint common" says girl its bad  for you, u had better pay head. one more thing avoid provocative and tempting situations for best result. I stil maintain my opinion flee fornication lest u wallow in dismay and regret because nothing good emits from premarital sex. the amusing aspect is that u wont be the last the guy will bed. Just bet your last dollar on that, that is if uve ever seen one.

 To me premarital sex ain't o.k . To be frank the greatest gift a woman can give 2
her marraige pair is Virginity. What pist! me most is seeing living lovers (acting husband & wife)
and the contrary happens when ther are married

so we are assuming seun is still a virgin because after that long speech we wont want him to be acught having or ever had premarital sex! so hows that celibacy working for you?