Converting Straight Men: Easy As ABC And Tonnes Of Fun!

Name calling is one of the symptom you should remember to tell the shrink in the mad house where u will be treated

sorry y'all, am sick of this thread, not seen so much negativity and insults directed at one person, mind u guys, no kind of insult will change pedron, so can we jus stop it and let the guy lead his life, we should be telling him to be safe instead of cursing him out,

u do not know what an angry gay man is capable of y'all, trust me ,

so can we all jus stop, this and pedron stop saying those stuff you say, i bet there are people out there that wont mind listening to u, but on nairaland here, umm no!!

y'all should leave pedron alone. he's gay so what? he's attracted to whom ever he's attracted to. is he supposed to change himself  so he can be accepted by other people? if pedron says straight guys are easy to change, he's saying so from his experience. gay or bisexual people are normal people too, they shouldnt be made to work hard to fit into society. Leave the guy alone.

damn ewwwwwwwwwww why did i click on this ish

@ aykay
thanks for understanding that the world does not revolve around only one group of people.Its nice to know that some people know that not everything they don't personally agree with should be condemned.For goodness sake,I did not choose to be gay,I did not ask for it either.It just is, and I just am.No apologies to the haters.
And you are so right about my experiences with str8 men.You know,I really started this thread to share what I know,and to start a good discussion on the "lack-limit" nature of the human mind.But all the homophobes and homophobe want to-bes began their insults.Very sad indeed.
@ everyone else
I exist already,I'm here to stay.I am a black Nigerian young male adult,with a Univeristy degree.I have sisters and brother,2 dogs and cable tv.I like to watch T.v,like to go out and have a drink or two with friends (most of whom are str8 and ignorant of my preferences).I have all the things a guy my age should want or have,and i have no trace of femininity.On the outside,I'm just a regular guy.Only a few guys know i'm not str8,and they have proved that they arent 100% str8 either.so within reasonable limits,I feel that they are safe,and can be trusted.but thats another issue entirely.My point is that I'm (outwardly) your regular guy-next -door.I could be your brother,your cousin,your neighbour,your boyfriend,and theres absolutely nothing you could do about it,and of course you'll never know.But look at everyman around you who's above the 27 and wonder.

@pedron:

I, too, just recently found this thread.  I feel fortunate in having done so, now, as I feel it has had time to dissipate some of the heat that it has generated!

If you have read any of my posts, you will know that I am not given over to flaming, baiting or any other confrontational, antagonistic methods.  I'm here on this site simply to learn from others and, where applicable, to share what experiences I may have.  So, please know that I'm not here to play "devil's advocate." No bashing, just empirical facts, agreed?

If I'm correct, the whole point of your post is that "straight" men can be "converted" to "gay" men.  My only issue with this is one of semantics, and here's why:  Sexual orientation is, by most determinations, not an either/or proposition.  Recent scientific findings suggest that the realm of sexuality is best considered on a continuum.  In other words, think of a bell curve, for example.  For any given community that is evaluated on such a curve, a few lie at the extremes, but most lie somewhere in the middle, not wholly one, but neither the other.  In this case, let's say that the extremes represent either strictly straight or strictly gay.  In the middle are those whose leanings place them as more one way or the other, but not at the exclusion of either.  The reason that more people are not more aware of their "other" sides is attributed to social and cultural reinforcements, i.e., they have simply not had (or acted upon) the opportunities to experience them.

To that end, what you speak of is not really a "conversion" but rather more of an awareness raising on the parts of those persons.  Consider that it is physically possible for a gay man to impregnate a woman, is it not?  And, it is equally possible for a lesbian to become pregnant by a man, right?  The basic orientation of these persons has not changed.  And, if you want an extreme example, consider that it is physically possible for a gay male to impregnate a lesbian!

Sex is what you are not what you do.  So, as you see in the examples I offer nobody is "changed" or "converted."  Would you consider same-gender sex in prisons to be conversions?  By no means!  And, I'D hazard that you'D get more than a mild disagreement were you to suggest the contrary to those in said circumstance! 

So, is what you are really trying to say is that so-called "straight" men can be persuaded into having male-male sex?  Well, with all due respect, sir, that's really not exactly a breaking news bulletin.  I only hope that in so doing you are being responsible in protecting yourself and your converts from disease transmission.  That's what you might wish to crow about.

@pedron:

First of all, please accept my thanks for taking time to read and consider my post!  I'm pleased that you agree with me. 

As to my bringing up the issue of disease, well, certainly it was not an indictment of you, personally, sir.  Surely, you are aware--as we all should be--of the importance of protecting ourselves against things that could compromise our well-being.  And I'm sure you know that there are stigmas that are yet to be overcome in that regard.  In other words, it cannot be overstated: safe behaviours are a must regardless of gender, orientation, age or whatever!  One's efforts can never be too overzealous in that regard.

I am, however, confused by the bifurcation of your sentiments.  You say that you have made these "conversions," but you also say that you stick to one partner.  Have I misread something in your post?

I would like to take issue with you when you say that God loves you and, thus, you are lucky.  No, my friend, when God loves you, you are blessed!   

Pedron i respect your decision. Fortunately I'm straight. Lets strike a deal. Lets set up a meeting and u have a chance to change me. If u win, you'll do whatever you want to do with me. If u lose, you'll be missing from the face of the earth. Its worth the risk if u truly believe in what u preach. You'll find me attractive, don't worry. You guys always do! I'm the regular tall, dark, athletic build and handsome.But it always ends up with the same result. A woman thrills me. I'm ready for the challenge, are you?

Pedron, thank your stars you are not interested. I can see that you are scared of the the anal. They say "he who lives by the gun will die by the gun". I'll tell you "he who lives by the privates will die by the privates". I'll have made you face that which makes you scared. A privates through your arse by a real mercilless faggot called Wahab. Not a lily-livered smooching one like you!

brave move tenor, phew 

ok angel micheal 

Does it frighten anyone else that this guy believes he can convert men? I mean, no guy is going to willingly go for that, unless he was homosexual to begin with. Is this guy a sexual predator? Dude, that's f'ed up. I hope he lives far, far away.

@pedron:

Sir, I'm not sure that I'D say that "all" you've gotten would amount to insults and ignorant statements.  Certainly, there has been a great deal of vitriol spewed forth.  This is unfortunate, for even in disagreement, civility is a virtue that cannot be overstressed.  I, for one, have made every effort to not be affrontatious, would you not agree? 

In hindsight, do you feel that the general nature of the responses has been due to to the topic, itself, how it was perceived or perhaps, how it was presented?

No need to apologize, sir.  I was just wanting to be sure that my commentary was not misconstrued as negative.  As I say, I seek only to learn aspects of a cultural sensibility that is, clearly, different from my own. 

Allow me to ask:  Do you feel that the general nature of the sentiments expressed in this thread is because people feel you are lying or because they feel you are telling the truth?  Or, perhaps to put it another way, are they angry because of what they feel is false or are they fearful of what they feel may be true?

Dude how can u see this and be gay?
(seun just making a point , its the most decent i could find)

@pedron:

It has been suggested that homosexuality and/or bisexuality would best be considered as part of the scheme of things in terms of natural selection, to help control population.  What's your take on this?

@chukky:

Yeah, she's not bad!