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kbikes (m)
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hi,guys i have this problem i am 26 years old with a good job but i have never been able to hold a relationship together for more than 4month.i know i am good looking, funny,generous,and it is scaring me cos very soon i would like to settle down what if i can hold my marriage togerther.pls advice me and tell me what to do.
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kemisuga (f)
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Before advice. Wat are the things causing you not to hold a relationship 2gether? Is it your faults or your partner?
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HR.hotness (f)
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you probably hav been dating the wrong types
try something different
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kola oloye (m)
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Put your request at the Lord's feet. Your desire shall be granted and your expectation shall not be cut off.
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kbikes (m)
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well i dont know if the problem is from me i try to avoid such things as double dating,lying or pressures on sex.i guess may be i am destined to be alone
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oziomatv (m)
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Youre the course of yur problem Brother, cause u 're creating negetivity into your life. ask me why I'll explain.
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kemisuga (f)
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Work on yourself first. But if the problem still persists, then you need prayers
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Missy B (f)
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Work on yourself first. But if the problem stil persist,then you need prayers
With/without the working on himself he needs prayers. I think Kola is right. |
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oziomatv (m)
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well i don't know if the problem is from me i try to avoid such things as double dating,lying or pressures on sex.i guess may be i am destined to be alone You're not destined to be single no one is destined to be alone that's why even the worst people still have soul mate. |
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misssexy u (f)
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i think the best thing 4 u to do is to pray very well nd probably tell your pastor too.
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~smurf (f)
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Then you need to quit, cos truth is you are only as good as what you are and you are not looking to good ryte about naw!  |
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van der jo (m)
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@poster
Man the truth is you have not found the right person,it happens to most people and you are 26,how many relationships have u had that makes you reach such conclusions?The simple truth is that its not about good looking,having good job or money,most women of our generation simply does not know what they want and those are the ones you have met but i am not absolving you entirely,YOU have to take your time before you go into another one and take time to study them before you go in.
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Omolola1 (f)
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@ poster Pray to God @ Kola am so sorry but i think i know you, is your surname Aladegbemi?  pls reply, it is very important. my email add is on my profile |
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frijos (m)
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@ POSTER, YOU MAY TO TRY WASHING your HANDS
SERIOUSLY NOW, U NEED TO FIGURE OUT WHY your RELATIONSHIPS DON'T LAST. IF U CAN DO THAT THEN your PROBLEM IS SOLVED. ONLY THEN CAN U START TAKING STEPS TO SOLVING your PROBLEM. TAKE A TIME OUT AND THINK ABOUT your LIFE WHAT your DOING WRONG OR WHAT your OVER DOING. ASK your PARTNER TO MAKE A CRITICAL ASSESSMENT OF U. ALWAYS BEWARE WHEN your GETTING PRAISES ALL THE TIME NO MAN'S PERFECT. NEVER BE AFRAID TO ASK PEOPLE TO CRITICISE U FOR THEM TO BE SINCERE AND HONEST WITH U AND TELL U WHAT your DOING THAT THEY DON'T LIKE AND HOW CAN U SATISFY OR PLEASE THEM.
ONE SECRET OF LIFE IS THAT IF U SHOW CONCERN FOR OTHERS WELL BEING THEY'LL SHOW CONCERN FOR URS. EVERYONE U MEET EVERYDAY EVEN A STRANGER TRY TO KNOW HIS/HER WELL BEING HIS/HER BUSINESS' WELL BEING, HIS/HER FAMILY'S WELLBEING AND SO ON. CARE FOR PEOPLE AND PEOPLE WOULD LOVE TO BE IN YOUR COMPANY ALWAYS.
GOOD LUCK, MY FRIEND
YOURS TRULY,
FJ FRIDAY JOSEPH
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pc guru (m)
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It's possible you've got an unconscious compulsive disorder to be alone.only u r not aware.
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Hollysmile
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Wow! If as a man u can't hold, maintain and direct your relationships, u ar in deep shit. Man, all u need is prayer - ask 4His wisdom. Tryin 2be Smart and actin with human sense will not help! Just pray!
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Ben-10
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poster, try using a stronger rope   |
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Ujujoan (f)
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One thing you need for sure is prayers. Such things are not ordinary. Nobody’s destined to be alone. I don’t even buy the idea of trying to change yourself because of that. Maybe part of the problem is that you try too hard. Just be yourself and pray. I’m sure you’ll find the right person.
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