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Ashiwaju (m)
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Would you be able to own up and report your relation if they rape you? especially your blood brothers/sisters and in worst scenario your parents! would you turn them in?
I have my reasons and i ll state 'em later on.
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retro (f)
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Definately. He's a rapist.
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Ashiwaju (m)
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Even at the expense of loosing your profile and the image of your family?
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retro (f)
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Even at the expense of loosing your profile and the image of your family?
Absolutely. If my family fails to see why I'm turning him in, then they aren't being reasonable. The guy raped 'me' (I'm going to say me instead of you), he doesn't deserve to be free. If he should rape someone else, I'll blame myself. |
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Ashiwaju (m)
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true life! A father has 4 children, a boy and 3 girls, He this V all the Girls and he had several count after that till they got married and they still refuse to turn him in. Last week they have all confessed and funny enough the man is supposed to be a religious icon and he is respected as one. He said it was the work of the devil. Then i wonder how many teenagers would have had this sad experience and yet refuse to turn who ever is involved.
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retro (f)
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true life! A father has 4 children, a boy and 3 girls, He this V all the Girls and he had several count after that till they got married and they still refuse to turn him in. Last week they have all confessed and funny enough the man is supposed to be a religious icon and he is respected as one. He said it was the work of the devil. Then i wonder how many teenagers would have had this sad experience and yet refuse to turn who ever is involved.
It happens a lot in Europe. Priests rape young children who refuse to talk because they're scared. It's sad. |
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Seun (m)
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Topics like this should be posted in the crime section under politics. Any specific questions?
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Ashiwaju (m)
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Crime section under politics? this has to do with romance, just like the topic " Would you have sex with your Brother/Sister inlaw?" Thread
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edygirl (f)
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I will turn him in. Not only for me but for my other sisters too.I really don't care too much when I am hurt but you can't hurt my sisters . So definitly I will turn him in for my sisters to be free from that.
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Ashiwaju (m)
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i respect your courage but not all humans would see it that way you? Some believe covering the act would make the rapist repent or something
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edygirl (f)
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It doesn't . A rapist is a rapist they don't change. They change that period alone and go back to the action again.
They just don't change.
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sweetnini (f)
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depends
i would say i would turn him in
but in real life i don't think i would
though i'll tell mi parents and the rest of my siblings
but for him to go to jail naaaaaaaa
the worst that would happen in this case is that i'll hate him
and trust me when i hate someone the person is automatically dead
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diddy4 (m)
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why turn him in when u can just kill 'em off and get it over with.
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sweetnini (f)
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why turn him in when u can just kill 'em off and get it over with.
exactly |
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edygirl (f)
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@diddy,
Two wrongs cannot make a right. I bet you if you kill him , you will ever live to regret it. Your concience will kill you for the rest of your life.
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diddy4 (m)
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@edygirl
what i said didnt mean that is whats my first action will be. secondly, i lost my conscience the minute the rapist touched me so whatever I'm gon do, i will do it without my conscience cuzz its dead.
i gotta be frank, a family where this kindda thing happens must be a very bad kindda family with no love in it. maybe i said imm@ kill 'em off cuzz it aint ma family or something but if something like this should happen to me, i aint gon turn u in. to turn u in is also a punishment to me, it will be in the media and stuff like that and when u go out people will be like thats d dude that got raped by his own blood.
instead of turning you in, imm@ make your life a living hell. your action aint worth pulling down the name of my family. imm@ make you change but i definately wont turn u in. i know there is nothing God can't do. even after you change, i will still stay the hell away from you.
if i try changing you and you don't wann@ change, den, get ready to go 6 feet deep. after all, i lost my conscience the minute you raped me. pronto.
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sweetnini (f)
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@diddy,
Two wrongs cannot make a right. I bet you if you kill him , you will ever live to regret it. Your concience will kill you for the rest of your life.
wont u feel quilty that u turned him in? and what of if they just made him spend sometime in prison then he'll come back don't u think he'll like to do something worst to u for turning him in? |
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diddy4 (m)
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he will definately want u dead. so its better u send him to an early grave den wait till he does that to u. for someone to have heart to rape u, it also means the person has the heart to kill u. there aint much difference between a psychopath and a rapist. i have heard a lotta news where a rapist killed his victim to avoid being turned in.
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sweetnini (f)
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u see
u might even be lucky to have survived
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Ashiwaju (m)
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I disagree that it must be a family where no love exist. this really happens in the families where love exist and they refuse to turn such rapist in because you love them and you dnt want them to get hurt or get sentenced or something but i really think to protect the rest of the family, its better to turn them in
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sweetnini (f)
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ok
thats ur opinion
when it happens to u do it that way
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DaHitler (m)
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Well, if I got raped by my big sis (can women even rape men), it would be really awkward. I won't be shaken or anything, but hanging out with the family will seem very disgusting. I won't report though. Honestly, as I guy, I place next to no importance no sex, so it won't, by any means, be the end of the world for me.
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kellorah (f)
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i'll report to ma parents, if they do nothing, then the police because ma bro must be desperate and prolly a sex addict or perv for him to rape me in d 1st place or even think about it. ewwwwww
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DaHitler (m)
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Or maybe you are just really hot.  |
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kellorah (f)
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lol, nice one
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retro (f)
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Or maybe you are just really hot. Whore. |
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DaHitler (m)
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Are you jealous?
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retro (f)
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What do you think?
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DaHitler (m)
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I think you are.  |
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desiree (f)
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I will turn him in without a second thought but in today’s family, they just keep it hush, hush and everyone just shuns the boy/girl that committed the offence.
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