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mamaput (f)
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To be honest i tell my kids its not normal.
One said she saw nothing wrong in it. I ask her how she will fill if i brought home a girl friend or better go and attend her pta meeting with my "Girlfriend" all of a sudden it was not that normal after all.
I will not be happy about it,but i will wish them all the luck they can get,
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Viper (m)
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I wouldn't get mad nor would I cry. I wouldn't scream at God and ask why did he allow them to be that way either. God didn't make them gay/lesbian, he never made anyone gay/lesbian, he never did; it's wrong association either through friends/media/family that causes/caused it. I would still love them no matter what, because I am not homophobic at all. I have absolutely nothing against gay men or lesbian women. Pity, I have so much against them If my daughter told me she loved women, I would be, ok honey. If my son said I love men, I would be, ok honey. What kind of father/mother would that make you? a "good" one? That would just be being irresponsible and careless by doing that. There is no point in hating your children, yelling at them, telling them you wish they were straight, or disowning them. Most gay men and women who were disowned have been deeply affected by that. Some young gay men and women have even comitted suicide over the lost connections they had with their families. Being judgemental and hateful isn't going to get you anywhere. Yes it wont, but have you heard of "spare the rod and spoil the child"? the rod there doesn't necessarily mean beating them or rough-handling them, it means correcting them anytime they go wrong. If a child is going wrong, you bring him/her back to his/her senses. Many kids are crackheads and criminals because their parents had the same belief as you are having now. The belief of "be nice to the child, don't hurt their feelings. just say 'OK' to anything they want". This is destroying the future not building it  Some people on this board keep saying they are going to teach their child homosexuality is wrong. Or that their kids will know that they are to be with the opposite sex. Has it occured to any of you that the parents of gay men and women today have done the same thing? When some parents tell their children not to do something because it is simply wrong, it makes those children curious. They will wonder, well what's so wrong about it if he or she loves me and I love them. So simply forcing your views on a child isn't going to really do anything. Most children grow up with their own minds, and they will do what they want to no matter what you say or do. I quite agree with you. A hunters dog that is going to get lost will never hear its masters whistle.
If the child is going to go "crazy" he/she will no matter the amount of tutoring you give him/her.
But, doyou realise people are influenced by what they hear or see? Teach the child from birth, and he/she wont go astray into the crazy world of stupidity. The bottom line is that parents are becoming lazy and irresponsible. There are so many hate crimes against gay men and lesbian women that it's sad to see how there are so many close-minded people in this world. yes, my mind is closed to it like a steel clamp  People today treat homosexuality as if it were the plague, but if they were gay men or lesbian women how would they want people to treat them? How would they want their parents and siblings to treat them? The same so i will get back to my senses That's what some of you and others should be asking yourselves, because who knows it just might be your child that comes home saying he is gay or she is a lesbian. Karma is truly a bitch. Do you know what Karma means?  Seems like you are a lesbian/gay. Ok lets take it from here: Why do men have dicks and women Vaginas? and what are their primary functions? To be honest i tell my kids its not normal. Thank you One said she saw nothing wrong in it. I ask her how she will fill if i brought home a girl friend or better go and attend her pta meeting with my "Girlfriend" all of a sudden it was not that normal after all. Most ignorance/innocent kids imbibe this dirty lifestyle due to peer pressure in schools/groups/media.
They feel "Thats what in-vogue meehn!! I have to join the fun ". By the time they are in it, they find out their is nothing to it, but they just can't get out of it because their peers/friends are into it. it negative influence I will not be happy about it,but i will wish them all the luck they can get, what luck are you wishing them? |
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mamaput (f)
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They will be discrimated even here in europe they will need all the luck they can get.
Dont think that europe is so morden . Some even get beaten up on the road to this day
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Viper (m)
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They will be discrimated even here in europe they will need all the luck they can get.
Dont think that europe is so morden . Some even get beaten up on the road to this day
yes i know. We are even more lenient to the rubbish here. |
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mamaput (f)
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Then you understand,
they will even have to lie to rent a place or get a job.
well there are some tolarant people but not many
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Viper (m)
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Then you understand,
they will even have to lie to rent a place or get a job.
well there are some tolarant people but not many They shouldn't be tolerated. one bad beans spoils the lot. |
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Efani (m)
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then u prolly got it from your mom's side
thats what id say
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mamaput (f)
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then u prolly got it from your mom's side
thats what id say
thats a good one  |
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Viper (m)
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then u prolly got it from your mom's side
thats what id say
Was this directed at me? |
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Efani (m)
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r u the gay child??
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pearldrops (f)
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who is???
plss end topic
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Bisanke (f)
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God forbid though my child will never say it because it doesnt run up in my family's blood stream and what will make my child say such ah will make me wonna go crazy and then ull see me running all ova for help I'm going to start fasting and prayin that child will even go for deliverance
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Damest09 (f)
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God forbid, my child/ren will never be a gay man/men.
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shawna (f)
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y'all never know anything can happen  |
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Damest09 (f)
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That type of thing will never happen to me.
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Bisanke (f)
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true girl thats why before the child is born we attend a million deliverance and convention serivces and start prayin that God gives us good children wit normal attitude  cause them ones are abnormal children o |
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Damest09 (f)
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God will not give his children something that will make them sad. God want us to be happy always.
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Bisanke (f)
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God will not give his children something that will make them sad. God want us to be happy always.
Oh yes brotha truee talk |
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Damest09 (f)
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Oh yes brotha truee talk I'm a female not brotha |
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Bisanke (f)
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ohh my bad i'm so sorry. i meant oh yes my sista truee talk
damn wasnt i reading my bad i made a big mistake
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Coco29 (f)
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true girl thats why before the child is born we attend a million deliverance and convention serivces and start prayin that God gives us good children wit normal attitude cause them ones are abnormal children o what the hell is wrong with you gay people are humans to, god did not say to hate them just the act. God forbid though my child will never say it because it doesnt run up in my family's blood stream and what will make my child say such ah will make me wonna go crazy and then ull see me running all ova for help I'm going to start fasting and prayin that child will even go for deliverance
how do you know, seriously how do you one of ya family members are gay, think about it. |
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Bisanke (f)
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what the hell is wrong with you gay people are humans to, god did not say to hate them just the act.how do you know, seriously how do you one of ya family members are gay, think about it.
Of course i know that there humans. And where did u see me type that i hate gay people? I don't them i hate the act and i wudnt want my kids 2 be involved in such activity. And yeah i know that none of my family members arent gay and if they r whateva i don't even wonna know. |
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lady kool (f)
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if my child tell me that i will first and check his or her head if their ok or not because i wouldnt know what to do i have to tell them that its not good and take them away from the gay partner
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MIZIEYA
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[[/font][color=#770077]Any good parent would exercise unconditional love for their son or daughters: as Kahlil Gibran said "your children are not your Children: you do not own them" how ever parents should guide their kids. Regardless of my son or daughters Sexual Preferences I'D be more concerned that they are 1) safe, 2) using contraceptives, 3) dating someone they loved, 4) are not in an abusive situation. It is harder for a teen and an adult to come out in a hostile environment and I would prefer to see my son or daughter living a happy life true to themselves as opposed to living a lie. Of course my culture is slightly more accepting than most: the UK has legal gay marriage's and same sex civil liberties which is more than a lot of other cultures. If anyone wants equality then it has to start from the home and then progress outwards.[/color]
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pearldrops (f)
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if the child is an adult ,why not
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desiree (f)
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I now know why the Asians believe in the pricinple of "Honour killing" No child will bring shame on my name.  |
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pearldrops (f)
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u right thou
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mamaput (f)
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I now know why the Asians believe in the pricinple of "Honour killing" No child will bring shame on my name. that means you can ask your son to kill his sister because of the cloths she wears, or because she changed her religion, or she fell in love with the "wrong guy", Even if she runs away and changes her name. |
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feelgood (m)
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Tufiakwa. Mba mba mba. O tio. No way. Abomination. Inutterable. Wanene? Not my pickin. Traitorous. Who sai. Dat pickin has not been born. Me, Son of my father? Me, a true born? No way. Unthinkable. Impossible. Chukwuaju.
Another topic please
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soulpatrol (f)
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nefa say nefa (never say never). easy to say when you haven't been in the situation yet
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Ryley (m)
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, I'm sure this is something nobody really wishes to happen. But if it happened to me, i would sit my child down and explain the consequences of being homosexual. I will explain from both the biblical point of view(which i question till today), and the earthly point of view(acceptance, and possible discrimination). We'll then pray and then i will let him/her decide which direction he/she wants to go
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