Mistakes Women Make When Choosing a Man

Hmm, quite interesting. But I've got a question Viktor, what are views about this whole thing called romance? You sound anti-male to me. Anyway, I'm sure the broads would be happy for you.

Well spoken vexxy.

It's a lose-lose situation. 

Men pretend to be Casanova's to get to women: They succeed.

Men pretend to be "nice guys" to get to women: They succeed.

Men pretend to be "bad boys" to get women: They succeed.

What is so hard about being who you are?

Men pretend to be rich and successful and have other female admirers.  After many attempts, they might eventually succeed.

Nice guys don't get to women.  Rich and successful cassanovas pretend to be also caring and they usually succeed!

When a nice guy pretends to be a bad boy to get a woman, this is a win-win situation.  Nice man gets nice woman who would have fallen for a "bad boy" and they live happily ever after.  or the rest of their lives, each time she needs a little more "bad boy", from him he gives it to her!

You get rejected by several women and then you get smarter.  Women reward those who pretend to be what they are not by paying them attention, so the men go right ahead and do what works!

The problem ladies have is that they abandon the guy that really loves and cares and go for "gold"
the gold I refer to here are: The physique of the guy.
The handsomeness of the guy.
Then they go for money.

I was in relationship before and I really loved this lady, I mean I fell for her "patapata"
But I never got anything then sha! but I was in love.
So she met this army officer and got her pregnant and dumped me.
The army officer later dumped her and marry another lady.

After her issue she was now looking for me.
At last we met but I didn't have time for second hand lady.
Though I told her we could be best of friends but relationship wise it's blown up.
She begged but i refused even though I wasn't in a relationship.

Last August she gave me a call that she put to bed( to another man of course)i was there live to give gift to her baby.
See what this lady missed. he lost a gold and found pebbles sorry to say. I'm proud but she missed it all.
Ladies understand us and watch closely whether we are what we potend.

Vexxy thanks for that.

We need more contribution.

Layi always spun surprises when when you least expected.

Brilliant one there Layi.

But most times these ladies pretend to love you.

Ok now.

I think there is no way out of this one.

If women didn't go for men who posed, no guy would pose (prolly the reason why most men over 28 stop posing)
We all have things that we can't live without, both guys and girls. Some women can't bear a guy who's shorter than she is. Some men can't handle a woman who's not attractive. It's all about expectations, and meeting these expectations.

A friend of mine once told me that before he goes into any relationship, he asks himself what is expected of him in the relationship, and draws a parallel between that and what he has to offer. Anything else would be absolute folly.

 

This is strange really...Did he show u pictures of his mother? But then, it's been said that God created us in two's (I don't know how true it is). There was this passport sized photograph i saw in my house one day...it was an old one (black and white pic to be precise) and the person in the picture looked exactly like one of my seniors in secondary school then. I mean the resemblance was just too extreme.
So I don't know if yours is a mere coincidence of resemblance or there really is something to your "serious" relationship.

You bear the first and second name of his mother and her last name is the name of your village....Really it's strange. I think you should follow Layi's advice and ask your parents about it.
But then, here are some strange facts to note...

1. You happen to be a carbon copy of his late mother.
2. You bear the first and second name of his mother (Both home and official name)
3. Her last name is the name of your village.

GO AND ASK YOUR PARENTS OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

_{Or are you a reincarnate of his mother?}

Yes Viktor, you're very correct. But you see, how many of these girlz are really who they say they are? It's a primal part of the homo sapiens. The Art of Deception.

Most people go through lives without ever knowing who they really are. This is because we have multiple personalities for everywhere we think the flavour is. Layers and layers of personalities yet undiscovered.

Its natural for guys to do these things, because its what's going to get them through with the ladies, see? It's merely got to be toned down, at least to an extent you can cope with.

I know coupla guys who are married to girls and right now, these girls are in love with these guys. Right now these girls know the truth about most of these guys. But it's hugely apparent that these relationships would never had kickstarted if the guys had come clean about themselves from the onset. So, go figure for yourselves if its right or wrong.

(this is an advice) watch out for the guys who start calling you pet names virtually a week into the relationship.



What do u mean? cld u please Elaborate. tah.

  We all imperfect. We came into this world to find and love an imperfect person perfectly.

Be yourselves and see the real deed being done.

no one's wrong or right, the both parties carry blames of their own. period