Mistakes Women Make When Choosing a Man

Another thing is when women think just cause a man is a 'born again' that doesnt mean he is a good husband material.

Like its been said, why do men feel they have to fool women into believing they are something they arent.

I totally agree with what the poster said that - when a man starts calling you a pet name after a few days thne he is a phony.

To Layi:
I believe we all have a tendency to pose (pretend) as a part of our strategy to get whatever we we want. We do that while attending job interviews, we do it while trying to convince a prospective client. Its all part of the art of negotiation.

And mind you, Most ladies only profess to like men who are down-to-earth and don't pretend about who they are. But watch them and see the kind of men they end up falling for; men who lack the kind of quality of your own mind. Men who are only full of talks but no balls.

My take on the issue is this: find that woman you want and do whatever you have to do to win her love. That's the way the world is,  Anything but committing a crime.

To all the ladies: Look well before you leap.

life can so funny,y do fools fal in love anyway?because they did out of plain truht and trust.no form of pretense.u know.basedon my relationship wit some of them,i firmly believe anyone who truly love u 4 whoever u r and hope 2 be ios worhtwhile.4 others,mayb thay r shortsighted to c in2 d future.
some ladies think of a man that can satisfy present needs n forget one fact.
that man true man appreciate in value over time.
i sent a text 2 my ex n later called her.she refused ti pick my call.as a true man of clear mind just hold on to bin yourself,in due season the rightful lady will surface.remember,some ladies think of NOW!!!!

cheers

It's amazing reading what people write sometmes. The way I see it is that most people (men and women) are just drawn by what they can't/don't have. And there is this withdrawal syndrome that the more the opposite resists the more you want to have her/him therefore you get technical, wise, and creative which ever  works for you. Talk to any woman or man even on this forum each person would only tell u the good side of them with few exceptions. Those games will eventually stop when we all stop over stating our standard or requirements and start seeing opposite sex as the best until proven otherwise.

Men and women will never stop playing games. the initial buzz you get when you are attracted to someone causes so many problems the tiny white lies  the I'm the best person acting does not last forever the mask slips eventually,

between, why are you still up so late? i thought you guys are in early mornings over there.

Well, to each his or her own.  You get what you bargain for--ALWAYS!


_{Reading "The Parable of the Sower" in preparation for "Sunday Massss"!}