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ud4u
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This is a serious case, because our wedding has been fixed before we discovered that we are not compatible. My fiance insisted we go ahead with the wedding. am seriously in love with him, somebody help please, very urgent
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MrCrackles (m)
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Go ahead and marry!
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ifyalways (f)
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hmmn.If u can take the chances maybe,have just 1 kid even at that sef,there is still a possibility of the "s" gene being dominant goodluck! But seriously why would u want to go into a lifelong stress and unhappiness?have u ever seen a sickler during crisis?the pains they undergo and the strain it puts on not just the parents but the whole family?a broken engagement with good reasons isnt forbidden,or is it?
wish u all da best.
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agaba123 (m)
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It is heartache. Do not try it. The love will evaporate when you watch your kids die.
No cure yet for Sickle cell disease. Try and forget about him
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sshh! (f)
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dear sista i know its not easy but i feel u guys should try and end it.i don't think the risk is worth taking,what if d first baby turns out to be a sickler what happens.
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hadiza30 (f)
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Wow that was the 1st mistake u made. HIV n Electrophorese tests are the first and major exams every couple should undertake if at all they want to get serious with the relationship. There is a chance atleast 2 out of 4 kids will be carears or full fledged SS patients. Believe me its not fun to see ur kids sick atleast once every month or even knowing they might not live to bury u.Two of my causins are and ive lost one to the crisis.
Its better u sacrifice the relationship rather than sacrificing ur futur hapiness. Well its all a choice for u to make dear. Your choice will always be thebest
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ud4u
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I thank you all for your advice and contributions, I have chosen to let the relationship go, though it is very painful but i have to do that for my unborn babies. Thanks once more, I love you all.  |
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aisha12 (f)
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yours is not a peculiar case. i was once in this quagmire. but which ever decision you take , i wish you the very best
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aisha12 (f)
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i did alot of research and irealised that a broken relationship wil be better than a broken marriage with lot of heart break for both partners
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Gsawlah (f)
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How can you go ahead and fix a wedding date without checkin out ur genotype. A big mistate you made there. don't you think a broken heart/relationship is 1000 times better than a failed or broken marriage. if you ever lived with a sickler then you'll know what i mean and i bet you don't want to imagin how and what their mothers go through.
the best time to make correction is now.
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yong babe (f)
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@ Poster
Are u really going 2 risk puttin ur future kids through the pain,
N discomfort that sickle cell is bound 2 bring them?
Or r u ready 2 put yourself through d phycological trauma of,
watchin ur kids die???
please for the sake of evryone involved,
call off the weddin.
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kryptix
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girl,
i can preach as much as i like, but u will do waz in ur heart.
go to a hospital and observe or ask the parents whose kids are sicklers.
then, ask yourself if you will want to go through all of that pain with ur kids for the next 30 or so years because u love him now.
the answer lies within you.
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big father (m)
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Go ahead and marry and risk the future of your kids !
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rubi (f)
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As marry As = one or most of you kids will be ss you know what I mean sickle cell
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ud4u
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Hi guys, you people have tried a lot,. I so much appreciate your contributions, well I have decide not go ahead with the wedding.
Thanks soooooooooooooo much. I love u all.
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coolier (f)
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This is a serious case, because our wedding has been fixed before we discovered that we are not compatible. My fiance insisted we go ahead with the wedding. am seriously in love with him, somebody help please, very urgent This is on the 12th of August. Three days later, I thank you all for your advice and contributions, I have chosen to let the relationship go, though it is very painful but i have to do that for my unborn babies. Thanks once more, I love you all. Interesting! |
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Moyola (f)
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eyahhh!!  i feel your pain sis!! that shuldnt b an obstacle 2 your marriage, u can go ahead with it, not all your kidz are gona b SS, u kuld aswell consult your doc. for more info.!! gdluck!! |
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The Sly
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eyahhh!! i feel your pain sis!! that shuldnt b an obstacle 2 your marriage, u can go ahead with it, not all your kidz are gona b SS, u kuld aswell consult your doc. for more info.!! gdluck!! One of the reasons why i would never advise my worst enemy to bring his/her personal problem to this place. |
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