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kiss_angel
When
« on: August 12, 2008, 04:14 PM »

Most women form the onset experience love at first sight. they already know he is the one from the very begining, sometimes even before the toasting and if u really watch it, you ll see that such women stay through thick and thin. but on the contrary when a man tells u he has fallen in love at first sight, it is usually more of lust and after a while they just don't feel the babe anylonger. I'm not saying I'm totally right, but for men  to grow love, it usually takes a while to appreciate the woman especially if she is the worthy type.

I'm talking love here, not lustof chop and clean mouth o.

so men, tell me is it true love at first sight or lust, when and how did u finally realise that you were in love.
onyinye2 (f)
Re: When
« #1 on: August 12, 2008, 04:20 PM »

As a women and as a person who adores Aphrodite since she was ten, I must say I don't believe in "Love at first sight".

Because in order for it to be REAL love, it takes time and age.

For me to love you, I must be able to trust you fully, meaning i need time to do that.

It is usually mere infatuation of you that i feel at first, but REAL needs more than sight, it needs age.
iice (f)
Re: When
« #2 on: August 12, 2008, 04:22 PM »

Please speak for yourself!
I don't do the first sight thing.
These are the things women like to deceive themselves with
segzi cres (m)
Re: When
« #3 on: August 12, 2008, 04:28 PM »

it's always lust for me. but when you see a responsible girl you'll know.
rampant (f)
Re: When
« #4 on: August 12, 2008, 04:31 PM »

Quote from: iice on August 12, 2008, 04:22 PM
Please speak for yourself!
I don't do the first sight thing.
These are the things women like to deceive themselves with


speak for ur self too iice Tongue

smtimes d love @ first sight is real and lasts
KarmaMod (f)
Re: When
« #5 on: August 12, 2008, 04:32 PM »

How does it last when you "love" someone just upon seeing them? That's lust

It's when you gradually know the person and like what you know that it gradually becomes "love"
onyinye2 (f)
Re: When
« #6 on: August 12, 2008, 04:32 PM »

Quote from: rampant on August 12, 2008, 04:31 PM
speak for your self too iice Tongue

smtimes d love @ first sight is real and lasts
But you have to admit MOST of the time it is mere infatuation.
tope2000 (f)
Re: When
« #7 on: August 12, 2008, 04:33 PM »

i think we should leave this for the guys to answer.
rampant (f)
Re: When
« #8 on: August 12, 2008, 04:33 PM »

Quote from: KarmaMod on August 12, 2008, 04:32 PM
How does it last when you "love" someone just upon seeing them? That's lust

It's when you gradually know the person and like what you know that it gradually becomes "love"

how do u know its lust?

it takes a second to fall inlove smtimes
iice (f)
Re: When
« #9 on: August 12, 2008, 04:33 PM »

Rampant, na why i talk say I don't do those things Tongue

More power to those who fall right from sighting the person ooo
Gamine (f)
Re: When
« #10 on: August 12, 2008, 04:35 PM »

Rampant

your argument befuddles me Huh Huh Huh

@Topic, i know the guys i may eventually like from first sight

and the ones that don't have a chance, This is not Love tho
rampant (f)
Re: When
« #11 on: August 12, 2008, 04:37 PM »

Quote from: Gamine on August 12, 2008, 04:35 PM
Rampant

your argument befuddles me Huh Huh Huh

@Topic, i know the guys i may eventually like from first sight

and the ones that don't have a chance, This is not Love tho

nl is a forum where we all state our opinions,whether the other person likes it or not

so if u aint comfortable wt mine,log off or stop reading them
Gamine (f)
Re: When
« #12 on: August 12, 2008, 04:45 PM »

Ah sorry o.

spare me eh
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