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Drusilla (f)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #32 on: June 27, 2006, 01:58 AM »

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I'm always suspicious of middle class White men married to their Tropical wives who feel the hurt of racism to wards blacks more than the blacks do themselves.

Wow. I have not seen a white person called a Niggerlover in a long time.

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Black man with no Education in a country where second level Education is free=Whites hate him,so he skipped school

Read above story where black boy was made to crawl.

Should I break out with the story of my sister the only Black in her 7th grade class sitting there as the teacher said, if it was up to him, the black slaves would never be free?

Maybe the story of the white teacher who said the only sad thing about a black student having his head decapitated was that she was not there to watch it.

My son's friend who near the end of highschool was given a brochure to go to college for environmental services (Janitor).

Or maybe I should story after story of Black Educators able to come in and turn the schools around.

Or maybe that Black parents are the fastest growing homeschoolers, that many Ghetto schools are closing because of what my local paper called Black flight (i.e. as Black people are getting enough money they are leaving Ghetto schools) or that Black charter schools are opening at astounding rates, with wide success.


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Black is caught dealing dope=its not his fault,what about the white who use the stuff and don't forget the Latinos who grow the stuff.

Should I show you America? Where people do anything to get money? Where whites on a regular kill their own parents and wives to get the insurance money? Where slavery, rape, genocide are celebrated as hero's because they got rich?

Don't forget, African Americans are in fact Americans.

Shall I show you Arnold Swartzeneggors violent movies? How about Heroin Models? How about Madonna selling sex?

Do you understand the idea of 'Supply and Demand'?

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Black men making babies with 101 baby mamas and not giving his children a stable family life=its not their fault,whitey doesn't want them to increase those on welfare.

Whites used to force Blacks to breed, when blacks having babies made them money. Now that Black people's babies actually cost them money, we aught to cry for whites?

Besides which, we went from 14 million on welfare (white and black and hispanic) in 1996 to now less than 5 million on welfare (white black hispanic) in 2006.

The welfare issue is a dead issue but people love to cling to this old stereotype.

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OK,If this would make you happy,Blacks are beyond reproach,they are not guilty of anything,John Mohamed is not the Sniper,blacks are not guilty of drive by shooting it must be the KLAN who look like blacks.Kill All Whites Already!

Do you understand that it is racism to say that John Mohamed is Black, therefore Blacks are guilty of being the sniper?
Drusilla (f)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #33 on: June 27, 2006, 02:04 AM »

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Whites who love rap music barely know who you are talking about if you mention either name.

Can you actually back that up? aside a straw poll among your friends, especially about L.

Nah. I could call my mom. She's white but crazily insists that 50cents is a half of a dollar.  Grin
mrmayor (m)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #34 on: June 27, 2006, 02:12 AM »

Quote from: Drusilla on June 27, 2006, 02:04 AM
Nah. I could call my mom. She's white but crazily insists that 50cents is a half of a dollar. Grin

That explains it,mixed raced offsprings are the most vocal apologist for the ZULU nation

Drusilla,

Racism is REAL,I know that but you do not hold any black person responsible for their actions,pity!

I REST MY CASE
Drusilla (f)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #35 on: June 27, 2006, 02:15 AM »

I guess if you take on the dominant view and go into denial about racism and it's effects.

Then you also take the dominant view that any whites sticking up for blacks are niggerlovers.

hehehehehehehe

Of course after watching a room full of blackmen with white girlfriends, go ballistic and begin planning a beating of a whiteman who moved in with a blackwoman downstairs.

I understand that there is something else going on.
Drusilla (f)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #36 on: June 27, 2006, 02:21 AM »

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That explains it,mixed raced offsprings are the most vocal apologist for the ZULU nation



Why do you think that Black Americans have a derogatory name for Sell Outs in this country that refers to those with Dark Skin and white insides?

Yet no such name in Black America exists for the idea of a light skinned traitor?

nferyn (m)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #37 on: June 27, 2006, 02:45 AM »

Quote from: mrmayor on June 26, 2006, 10:27 PM
Mr nferyn,

Its really important to read my post before claiming people on this board are as guilty as White Racist.I stated earlier that I have experienced discrimination as a BLACK MAN,as a NIGERIAN and as MINORITY within Nigeria.
Racisim is REAL and there is no denying it.
My comment was not really directed at you and I do not claim that people on this board are as guilty as white racists, but some here - and maybe I should have been clearer as it's not specifically in this thread - swallow the racist propaganda about African Americans a little too easily.
My appologies if you feel I unjustly put you in that corner.

Quote from: mrmayor on June 26, 2006, 10:27 PM
I'm always suspicious of middle class White men married to their Tropical wives who feel the hurt of racism to wards blacks more than the blacks do themselves.
Oh please, no need to get the usual stereotypes out of the closet.
1. I cannot possibly feel the hurt of racism as much, because it's not directed against me, but rather against my wife or my children, but that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt me as well
2. when my wife just arrived in Europe, she was oblivious to racism, even if it stared here in the face. I even had to explain that some people's reactions were borne out of racism, she just thought they were jerks. She adopted that sensitivity quickly though.

Quote from: mrmayor on June 26, 2006, 10:27 PM
Black man with no Education in a country where second level Education is free=Whites hate him,so he skipped school
Black is caught dealing dope=its not his fault,what about the white who use the stuff and don't forget the Latinos who grow the stuff.
The criminalisation of drugs is insane and causes more problems than it solves, but that's another discussion. The war on drugs is nothing but a war against the poor and especially against the black poor.

Quote from: mrmayor on June 26, 2006, 10:27 PM
Black men making babies with 101 baby mamas and not giving his children a stable family life=its not their fault,whitey doesn't want them to increase those on welfare.
That behaviour is not only typical for the poor African Americans, but for the poor underclass in general

Quote from: mrmayor on June 26, 2006, 10:27 PM
OK,If this would make you happy,Blacks are beyond reproach,they are not guilty of anything,John Mohamed is not the Sniper,blacks are not guilty of drive by shooting it must be the KLAN who look like blacks.Kill All Whites Already!
Could he in any way be considered a typicl product of an African American subculture? I don't see your point here.
Drusilla (f)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #38 on: June 27, 2006, 03:01 AM »

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Drusilla,

Racism is REAL,I know that but you do not hold any black person responsible for their actions,pity!

I REST MY CASE

mrmayor,

Your wrong. I hold you a black person responsible for believing only bad things about Black people.

That is other black people.

It is quite typical.

Do you know how many Black people perversely walk around thinking: I fought the odds and made it, those Negros could fight the odds and make it.

Lots of them.

They buy into the idea early, that if they get an education, it is because their not like those other black people.

It's just pride. Every Negro likes to feel special. So they love when whites tell them: Your not like all the rest of them.

They internalize the racism and no matter how many facts you show them, they refuse to see that Blacks are doing better, are making good strides and so on and so forth.

The idea that lots of Blacks are making it, would shatter their self-esteem that whites give them for making them think they have done things right, while no other Black is doing the right thing.

All the while having full sympathy for themselves and the racism they experienced.

Yawn. I really wish they would find somebody else to get their self-esteem from.
mrmayor (m)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #39 on: June 28, 2006, 12:03 AM »

Drusilla,

I do sincerely apologies for my mixed raced post,I have nothing against you.

I have never denied the effects of the White Controlled Media of the African American Community.
You've however excused black on black crime by blaming it on the outside world.The black man or woman is never guilty of anything.

I have issues with the way blacks are potrayed on black owned media.
I have issues with black men not giving their children a stable family life because they are in Jail or dead,usually killed by another black person
I have issues with the black community preference of Music over Education,we can't have 10000 rappers but we can have 10000 doctors,lawyers,engineers etc.

I've enjoyed discussing with you,my apologies again

Cheers Sister
mrmayor (m)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #40 on: June 28, 2006, 12:24 AM »

Nferyn,

I would like to I'm sorry about my Tropical wife post,I didn't mean to offend.

I agree with you that some of the problems in the African American Community is not Unique as these problems are common with any economic under class
but that does excuse my things that happen within the black community.

Years ago I use to have the picture of Tina Turner in my room until I stated getting myself acquainted with the achievement of other black women.
Now I have the picture of the first black woman is space as inspiration of overcoming the odds

http://quest.nasa.gov/space/frontiers/jemison.html     Dr Mae Jamison.

The Chinese took on the west because they sat down and educated themselves,
An Immigrant with children and that includes Africans are more likely to succeed in the USA than African Americans.Why?

I just want to know where does RACISM stop and Taking Responsibility for ones own action Starts.

Again I apologies for my earlier post,my regards to your family

Cheers
nferyn (m)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #41 on: June 28, 2006, 01:30 AM »

Quote from: mrmayor on June 28, 2006, 12:24 AM
Nferyn,

I would like to I'm sorry about my Tropical wife post,I didn't mean to offend.
No offense taken. Those arguments can get a little heated at times.

Quote from: mrmayor on June 28, 2006, 12:24 AM
I agree with you that some of the problems in the African American Community is not Unique as these problems are common with any economic under class
but that does excuse my things that happen within the black community.
It never absolves any individual from responsability, but when looking at what causes a specific behavioral pattern, many all too easily look for individual and/or so called cultural deficiencies, while under certain conditions you will always have a certain number of people behaving in an undesirable way. Lack of opportunities breeds criminal behaviour and that cycle reinforces itself.

Quote from: mrmayor on June 28, 2006, 12:24 AM
Years ago I use to have the picture of Tina Turner in my room until I stated getting myself acquainted with the achievement of other black women.
Now I have the picture of the first black woman is space as inspiration of overcoming the odds

http://quest.nasa.gov/space/frontiers/jemison.html     Dr Mae Jamison.
That's indeed a problem with the cultural conditioning we're going though, it's not really brainwashing, but the effects are very similar. My wife's Edo and I immediately got interested in the history of her people. It saddens me that (relatively) so few of her people are aware of the their historical accomplishments. You need to have a healthy dose of self esteem to be open to others in a positive way.

Quote from: mrmayor on June 28, 2006, 12:24 AM
The Chinese took on the west because they sat down and educated themselves,
The west never had a very profound cultural impact on China, at least nothing even remotely comparable to what happened in Africa.

Quote from: mrmayor on June 28, 2006, 12:24 AM
An Immigrant with children and that includes Africans are more likely to succeed in the USA than African Americans.Why?
That's actually reasonably easy to anwer as the population of immigrants is not directly representative of the population at home, they are generally speaking more adventurous, innovative, etc with a healthy dose of initiative.

Quote from: mrmayor on June 28, 2006, 12:24 AM
I just want to know where does RACISM stop and Taking Responsibility for ones own action Starts.
The lines are not always easy to draw. Adverse conditions on the aggregate, community level do not absolve anyone from individual responsability, but it's not because a certain amount of people manage to escape the trap of poverty and discrimination that those that for whatever reason are not capable of doing so should be held accountable for the full 100%
I guess if somebody with the attitudes, intelligence and stamina of GW Bush would have been born in a poor black inner city family, he would probably have ended up as a crackhead. Now he's president of the US.

Quote from: mrmayor on June 28, 2006, 12:24 AM
Again I apologies for my earlier post,my regards to your family

Cheers

No probs cya around do the same to your family  Wink
Drusilla (f)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #42 on: June 28, 2006, 01:55 AM »

mrmayor,

I live in a country, where every night everybody in the country goes to bed looking at some black criminal. And every morning similarily they wake up to the news of a black criminal.

I do not assume that people who run up to me and say: "Why can't blacks stop being criminals?" actually care about the people who they consider their deaths and troubles to be their daily entertainment.

I think if people actually care, they will do as I have done and sit down and learn about what is the cause of what is happenning to the people they watch every night.

Proverbs 29:7  The righteous considereth the cause of the poor: but the wicked regardeth not to know it.

God made the Blackman.
The Whiteman made Niggers.

You may not like it but it is in fact the truth.
Drusilla (f)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #43 on: June 28, 2006, 02:09 AM »

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I guess if somebody with the attitudes, intelligence and stamina of GW Bush would have been born in a poor black inner city family, he would probably have ended up as a crackhead. Now he's president of the US.

Nferyn,

It is public knowledge that Mr. Bush was on cocaine early on. Jesus saved him and turned it all around according to the official story.

Laura Bush also killed her ex-boyfriend in a car accident. She was not drinking according to the official story. The fact that they had recently broken up had nothing to do with it also according to the official story.

Bill Clinton of course puffed but did not inhale.

77 percent of all drug users in America are white.

25 percent of white teenagers smoke cigarettes compared to only 4 percent of Black teenagers.

It seems you are more in danger of drug use, if you do not live in the Ghetto.
Drusilla (f)
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #44 on: June 28, 2006, 06:17 AM »

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I have issues with the black community preference of Music over Education

mrmayor,

I do not want to sound mean or harsh. Yet I do not know how to say this any kinder.

African Americans are in fact Americans. We live in a first world country. We are basically going to eat and get the basics even if we get no education.

My point is this. For a 3rd worlder, education is the dream.

Your not going to convince Americans that education is the dream.

We do not dream about a house in the suburbs, that is boring and quite stale. Suburbs in America have problems because the young whites do not want to live there and getting away from the burbs as soon as possible is what they do, leaving the suburbs to be thought of as places where a whole bunch of old folks live.

Many people refer to the suburbs in America as like a kind of of death. The death of dreams, the death of living, the death of joy. Many people comment on their sterile hospital look. Saying this is why cities and ghettos feel better to us because cities and ghettos are full of life and color.

For an American, running off to New York like Madonna, Marilyn Monroe is the dream. (countless others)

Try to keep in mind that Chris Rock and Samuel Jackson and rapper DMX are all former crackheads.

In a land of oppourtunity, some of the little Ghetto people are going to make it out.

Remember Bill Gates thought education was worthless and quit college after a year and amongst thick marijuana smoke,(I'm sure) him and his friend Steve Jobs (the owner of apple) sat in the garage and invented these two systems.

Do realize that when you try to impose your big dreams as an immigrant on an American, even if they are an African American.

This dream of an education and a house will be greeted with a yawn and a sigh.

It's just not an American's dream.

What appeals to immigrants as the best thing in the world, just will not appeal to African Americans, we dream bigger.

Sorry. I am not trying to be mean about it.
Shine
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #45 on: July 07, 2006, 12:15 PM »

This must be my favorite threat to date.
Reading the thoughts expressed was as interesting as watching a live debate. Smiley

In all there were a number of comments I agreed with from all parties and a few I disagreed with. I suppose it's because I come from a sort of Hodge-podge background my perspective is mixed.

I was born in New York. I am the first North American born in my family. My family is from the West Indies and S. America.
I was raised in relative poverty in foster care and orphanages until I started my trans-continental migration. I spent years living between Toronto, Canada, Texas and Barbados before the age of 18.

There are advantages and disadvantages to growing up this way.
My accent is one where West Indians call me a Yankee, Canadians are not sure where I'm from and American tell me I talk white and immediately presume I am not from here. That aside, I have had the benefit of watching the differences between American Blacks, Caribbean Blacks and Canadian Blacks first hand. I also spent over a decade with my best friends family who are from Uganda and Kenya. This lends to a more expanded perspective of what is possible from our people.

The histories between these 3 countries (US, Canada and Barbados) are similar but there are key differences. The similarities are:
- blacks (and other races) were brought during slavery
- slaves were taught about the pearly white Jesus as a means mind control through fear by slave masters, which they turned into a beacon of hope and held onto till this day
- slavery was eventually abolished
- limitations persisted, blacks were poor
- blacks were pretty much left at the side of the road and left to make heads or tails of themselves.

My point here is that Black Americans aren't the only ones that had to deal with slavery or its residual affects.
I am unsympathetic to the argument that Black American's tightly grip the victim role because of what has happened in the past. This one of the wealthiest countries in the world. There are resources beyond belief that most countries citizens could only dream of. Yet, black Americans can't seem to get in together. I watch impoverished Indian families move her with 3 generations in one home and barely enough money and in a matter of years own things. I watch African families move here and leave behind relative ease and comfort to start over for a chance at what people born here take for granted.

A few of the differences between the countries are:
- the US has had more violence during the Civil Rights Movement
- there was no Civil Rights Movement (as far as race relations go) in Canada
- there was no Civil Rights Movement in Barbados
- Canada is a country of immigrants, that is Canadian history (if you have even been to Toronto, you'd understand the incredible diversity I speak of).

As was stated in another post, people seem to want to work for what they want which is why the came to North America in the first place.
- That doesn't appear to the case for the most part with regards to Blacks in America.
- School is free in the US and Canada, it is not like that everywhere.
- There are more libraries and places of knowledge (museums, etc) than exist throughout the entire West Indies
- There are government programs and community services that provide support and resources

As much as people want to gripe about Cosby being unqualified to speak on the 'Victim Mentality' and laziness of Black Americans because he's isn't or wasn't poor - I completely agree with him.
I know what he's saying is right.
I know it is possible because I have lived it and so have others.
I am a black woman.
I was an orphan.
While in Foster Care, I too was a victim to societies ills.
I grew up in extremely unpleasant conditions.
I have slept outdoors and had no place to go.
I have worked and worked and used everything resource available in this country to get myself together.
I have watched others who have come from worse conditions improve their situations when they get here.
It is up to the individual to take responsibility for themselves and find value to invest in their lives.



Eliza704
Re: What Cosby Said?
« #46 on: April 12, 2008, 01:01 AM »

I'm african american, and some times when I'm driving through certain parts of town, or watching filth on tv and the guys walking in the middle of the streets cussing and carrying on,  I wonder,  What happened to us? What happened to the pride and the love,  What happened to our men and women? Girls walking around in booty shorts pushing babies when the should be in school. Well i don't know,  But I'm trying to figure out how can we fix this thing? I am personally sick and tired of it! To those of u who think we don't care oh believe me, we do. Some people just don't believe in themselves and no one has told them they could make it. I'm so sick of every body wanting to be a rapper or stripper. I'm sick of it. Jesus people come on. Well have to get our dignity and black pride back.
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