This must be my favorite threat to date.
Reading the thoughts expressed was as interesting as watching a live debate.

In all there were a number of comments I agreed with from all parties and a few I disagreed with. I suppose it's because I come from a sort of Hodge-podge background my perspective is mixed.
I was born in New York. I am the first North American born in my family. My family is from the West Indies and S. America.
I was raised in relative poverty in foster care and orphanages until I started my trans-continental migration. I spent years living between Toronto, Canada, Texas and Barbados before the age of 18.
There are advantages and disadvantages to growing up this way.
My accent is one where West Indians call me a Yankee, Canadians are not sure where I'm from and American tell me I talk white and immediately presume I am not from here. That aside, I have had the benefit of watching the differences between American Blacks, Caribbean Blacks and Canadian Blacks first hand. I also spent over a decade with my best friends family who are from Uganda and Kenya. This lends to a more expanded perspective of what is possible from our people.
The histories between these 3 countries (US, Canada and Barbados) are similar but there are key differences. The similarities are:
- blacks (and other races) were brought during slavery
- slaves were taught about the pearly white Jesus as a means mind control through fear by slave masters, which they turned into a beacon of hope and held onto till this day
- slavery was eventually abolished
- limitations persisted, blacks were poor
- blacks were pretty much left at the side of the road and left to make heads or tails of themselves.
My point here is that Black Americans aren't the only ones that had to deal with slavery or its residual affects.
I am unsympathetic to the argument that Black American's tightly grip the victim role because of what has happened in the past. This one of the wealthiest countries in the world. There are resources beyond belief that most countries citizens could only dream of. Yet, black Americans can't seem to get in together. I watch impoverished Indian families move her with 3 generations in one home and barely enough money and in a matter of years own things. I watch African families move here and leave behind relative ease and comfort to start over for a chance at what people born here take for granted.
A few of the differences between the countries are:
- the US has had more violence during the Civil Rights Movement
- there was no Civil Rights Movement (as far as race relations go) in Canada
- there was no Civil Rights Movement in Barbados
- Canada is a country of immigrants, that is Canadian history (if you have even been to Toronto, you'd understand the incredible diversity I speak of).
As was stated in another post, people seem to want to work for what they want which is why the came to North America in the first place.
- That doesn't appear to the case for the most part with regards to Blacks in America.
- School is free in the US and Canada, it is not like that everywhere.
- There are more libraries and places of knowledge (museums, etc) than exist throughout the entire West Indies
- There are government programs and community services that provide support and resources
As much as people want to gripe about Cosby being unqualified to speak on the 'Victim Mentality' and laziness of Black Americans because he's isn't or wasn't poor - I completely agree with him.
I know what he's saying is right.
I know it is possible because I have lived it and so have others.
I am a black woman.
I was an orphan.
While in Foster Care, I too was a victim to societies ills.
I grew up in extremely unpleasant conditions.
I have slept outdoors and had no place to go.
I have worked and worked and used everything resource available in this country to get myself together.
I have watched others who have come from worse conditions improve their situations when they get here.
It is up to the individual to take responsibility for themselves and find value to invest in their lives.