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akaa (f)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #64 on: August 15, 2008, 04:36 PM »

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dante01
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #65 on: August 15, 2008, 04:38 PM »

these our Naija babes self.What do they need flowers for?What will they do with it when they get it?Sow it & watch it grow as a sign of love? We cant always copy these white people some of their ways of "showing love" can be dumb sometimes.You can imagine a lady waiting for you to open the door to the car/house for her even when she gets there b4 u.Does this really signify love.You reading this post did your father give your mum rose when they were young? Check your answer & does that in anyway increase or decrease their love for one another? Too many shit our ladies wanna emmulate & it really pisses me off. There are lots of better ways that we can show love which our spouse/ fiance will appreciate not doing dumb things. I'm outta here. Angry Angry
$$Rhino
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #66 on: August 15, 2008, 04:38 PM »

Quote from: akaa on August 15, 2008, 04:36 PM
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what kinda flower is that?

$$Rhino
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #67 on: August 15, 2008, 04:40 PM »

Quote from: dante01 on August 15, 2008, 04:38 PM
these our Naija babes self.What do they need flowers for?What will they do with it when they get it?Sow it & watch it grow as a sign of love? We can't always copy these white people some of their ways of "showing love" can be dumb sometimes.You can imagine a lady waiting for you to open the door to the car/house for her even when she gets there before u.Does this really signify love.You reading this post did your father give your mum rose when they were young? Check your answer & does that in anyway increase or decrease their love for one another? Too many shit our ladies want to emmulate & it really pisses me off. There are lots of better ways that we can show love which our spouse/ fiance will appreciate not doing dumb things. I'm out of here. Angry Angry

i sure dont see anything wrong in a man giving a flower to a woman, coying such thing from the white people is not bad at all, and pls give us some sample of dumb expression of love from white man that irritates you that much.
dante01
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #68 on: August 15, 2008, 04:58 PM »

@ Rhino.
like kneeling down before a lady & shedding tears.You dont do it do you? Huh
$$Rhino
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #69 on: August 15, 2008, 05:02 PM »

Quote from: dante01 on August 15, 2008, 04:58 PM
@ Rhino.
like kneeling down before a lady & shedding tears.You don't do it do you? Huh

if i have done something so bad to hurt her deeep and i know within my knowing that i have stab her real bad, my guy, i will go on my two kneels, will ask for her forgiveness and i ams ure tears will roll down my cheek, now, does that makes me less of a man? nope, doesnt take being macho to show how manly u cld be.
Onyi bekee (f)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #70 on: August 15, 2008, 05:03 PM »

I expect flowers on my birthday and Valentines Day. Any other day of the year, will be seen as a romantic gesture.
MrCrackles (m)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #71 on: August 15, 2008, 05:15 PM »

Quote from: akaa on August 15, 2008, 04:30 PM
Emeka Ike Does Not Like Me Physically, Jim Iyke
do you believe that?

e be like say person puncture your eyes, u no come fit see!

craze man, dey post offtopic up and down like YOYO!
MrCrackles (m)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #72 on: August 15, 2008, 05:16 PM »

Quote from: Onyi bekee on August 15, 2008, 05:03 PM
I expect flowers on my birthday and Valentines Day. Any other day of the year, will be seen as a romantic gesture.

and what if you dont get it on your birthday and valentines? would u weep like a little baby or what?! Grin
$$Rhino
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #73 on: August 15, 2008, 05:17 PM »

Quote from: Brash! on August 15, 2008, 05:16 PM
and what if you don't get it on your birthday and valentines? would u weep like a little baby or what?! Grin
hahahahaa
Onyi bekee (f)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #74 on: August 15, 2008, 05:19 PM »

Quote from: $$Rhino on August 15, 2008, 05:17 PM
hahahahaa
Shaarrrup dia.

Quote from: Brash! on August 15, 2008, 05:16 PM
and what if you don't get it on your birthday and valentines? would u weep like a little baby or what?! Grin
Me, cry? Never. But there will be disappointment.
AmakaOne (f)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #75 on: August 15, 2008, 05:22 PM »

Quote from: dante01 on August 15, 2008, 04:38 PM
these our Naija babes self.What do they need flowers for?What will they do with it when they get it?Sow it & watch it grow as a sign of love? We can't always copy these white people some of their ways of "showing love" can be dumb sometimes.You can imagine a lady waiting for you to open the door to the car/house for her even when she gets there before u.Does this really signify love.You reading this post did your father give your mum rose when they were young? Check your answer & does that in anyway increase or decrease their love for one another? Too many shit our ladies want to emmulate & it really pisses me off. There are lots of better ways that we can show love which our spouse/ fiance will appreciate not doing dumb things. I'm out of here. Angry Angry


aahn ahn,  why does it pain you so?

dante01
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #76 on: August 15, 2008, 05:30 PM »

@ Rhino
 Dont get me wrong i'm not saying it makes you less a man when you show emotins. I got a girl one time, she like stuff like guys going on her kneels & begging her on flimsy excuses & that pissies me off.All i'm saying is that most Naija babes are fake & i dont like that.
dante01
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #77 on: August 15, 2008, 05:33 PM »

aahn ahn,  why does it pain you so?

cos some of u babes are fake Angry
Caliente (m)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #78 on: August 15, 2008, 05:37 PM »

Do naija babes appreciate flowers? Maybe yes maybe NO! They prefer cards, I mean recharge cards. Undecided Lips sealed Cool
AmakaOne (f)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #79 on: August 15, 2008, 05:37 PM »

Fake ko Rose ni.
 Grin

Why yu tight face like that?

na simple flower cause you so much pain?

*smh*

Quote from: dante01 on August 15, 2008, 05:33 PM
aahn ahn,  why does it pain you so?

because some of u babes are fake Angry
DeepZone
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #80 on: August 15, 2008, 05:46 PM »

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and i'm crazy about the guy for all his ideas, , ,

i was pleasantly surprised when i arrived lagos!

Fashola Rocks!

Fashola for president!!!
Fashola is uptight and very civilized.No argument here.
ezer (m)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #81 on: August 15, 2008, 07:48 PM »

ahah, nija guys do give flowers.

 just stop the arguements, they do give flowers especially the enlightened (not educated) ones. cos most educated guys dont give flowers.

it takes self dignity to do that, especially when the receiver doesnt like such things. most 9ja guys love givin flowers, but they dont know if their girls like flowers, so to avoid embarrassments, they only give flowers on val days.

the bottom line is nija guys do give flowers. dont say u dont believe it, say u've never seen.


@akaa
i no know which net u dey use o, but he be like sey your own na ABA net. cos i no know wetin u dey post.
davidif (m)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #82 on: August 15, 2008, 07:51 PM »

flower ke, nonsense. What's with all this western craze, na too much American movies dey cause am. Geez i don't understand why we have to emulate western lifestyles. I say the west for the westerners and Africa for the Africans. Who knows, very soon our daughters would be asking for ponies on there 16th birthday (pathetic) or the girls would be asking for chocolate and teddy bears for valentine. Nonsense, if you want flowers GO AND MARRY A WHITEY.  Angry
$$Rhino
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #83 on: August 15, 2008, 07:58 PM »

Quote from: davidif on August 15, 2008, 07:51 PM
flower ke, nonsense. What's with all this western craze, na too much American movies dey cause am. Geez i don't understand why we have to emulate western lifestyles. I say the west for the westerners and Africa for the Africans. Who knows, very soon our daughters would be asking for ponies on there 16th birthday (pathetic) or the girls would be asking for chocolate and teddy bears for valentine. Nonsense, if you want flowers GO AND MARRY A WHITEY.  Angry

u need to grow up and give a woman what they like to appreciate.
ezer (m)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #84 on: August 15, 2008, 08:00 PM »

Quote from: davidif on August 15, 2008, 07:51 PM
flower ke, nonsense. What's with all this western craze, na too much American movies dey cause am. Geez i don't understand why we have to emulate western lifestyles. I say the west for the westerners and Africa for the Africans. Who knows, very soon our daughters would be asking for ponies on there 16th birthday (pathetic) or the girls would be asking for chocolate and teddy bears for valentine. Nonsense, if you want flowers GO AND MARRY A WHITEY.  Angry
Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Grin Grin

but they do give flowers sha, u cant deny the fact
ezer (m)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #85 on: August 15, 2008, 08:02 PM »

Quote from: $$Rhino on August 15, 2008, 07:58 PM
u need to grow up and give a woman what they like to appreciate.

tell am jare
davidif (m)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #86 on: August 15, 2008, 08:16 PM »

and you wonder why in America not 10 or 20% of there marriages end in divorce but 60% (yes o, 60%) with all there flowers and there picnic and there public intimacy. Why its because, westerners are easily moved by there senses and emotions. There idea of romance is of prince charming coming to sweep them to a castle where they would live happily ever after, they don't know that nothing could be further from the truth, they  forget that the mind can be very tricky. So let them keep decieving themselves. In life, there ups and downs, bright spells and dry spells but they don't know that, they want to eat out everyday and go to paris and venice (Oya go and be going to paris now), my people let's stop decieving ourselves with this xenocentrism (go and check the meaning online).

Growing up has nothing to do with flowers and like i said earlier, IF YOU WANT FLOWERS, GO AND MARRY A WHITE MAN.
Ruby_Pearl
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #87 on: August 15, 2008, 08:20 PM »

Hheheheh so flowers cause divorces? Grin Grin
hahahha, oh lawwd, have mercy!!
sistawoman
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #88 on: August 15, 2008, 08:20 PM »

Quote from: davidif on August 15, 2008, 08:16 PM
Growing up has nothing to do with flowers and like i said earlier, IF YOU WANT FLOWERS, GO AND MARRY A WHITE MAN.




or just marry a romantic Nigerian man like i did.
yong babe (f)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #89 on: August 15, 2008, 08:52 PM »

Well its not really about the number of flowers he gave you.
But the thought behind d gesture.
Builder
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #90 on: August 15, 2008, 09:00 PM »

I honestly dont know why we just have to adopt the western ways of doing things, why cant we find our ways romantic enough.
KarmaMod (f)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #91 on: August 15, 2008, 09:02 PM »

whether you buy 1 or 12, it's all goat food.
sistawoman
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #92 on: August 15, 2008, 09:05 PM »

Quote from: Builder on August 15, 2008, 09:00 PM
I honestly don't know why we just have to adopt the western ways of doing things, why can't we find our ways romantic enough.

What are your romantic ways?
davidif (m)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #93 on: August 15, 2008, 09:37 PM »

@sistawoman
we love our women, because we don't take them to the moon does not mean we don't know how to take care of them. When it comes to being there in the long haul, no matter what " in sickness and in health, in happiness and in sadness" and the whole 9 yards we are always down for that, we don't just wake up in the morning and say well we need to talk. Well its not working, i think we have grown apart in the past couple of years "and its my fault" so i think we need to seperate(or take time off like they like to say it), days later, the wife or girlfriend is in the club shamelessly flirting with any boy she sees in sight. Nonsense, after all the flowers and the chocolate and the jewelry and because of some lack of "emotional connection" you break a holy sacred convenant.
That right there is why relationships should never be about emotions. At least African men are real, they are not going to buy flowers for you on monday and break up with you on sunday. In some cases, they even break up with you during dinner (yes o, dinner, can you imagine that).

Tell me of any western men who love taking care of kids or assisting in the house, heck even cook or go help you select drapery. They did rather hang out with "the guys" what's that they call it again? yes "guys nights out" nonsense. Haven't you heard that "for this purpose will a man leave his father and his mother and cling to his wife and become one flesh and what God has joined together, let no man put assunder" (not even his friends).

Oh and by the way, we do tell our wives or girlfriends that WE LOVE THEM we just don't hire carriages or rent planes to write "i love you" in the sky.
2sleek2NV
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #94 on: August 15, 2008, 11:27 PM »

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What are your romantic ways?
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it includes: wearing ANKO (same dress/attire) anywhere we go as a couple
drive out to c frnds wen d man is free
giggle togeda while watchin tv


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When it comes to being there in the long haul, no matter what " in sickness and in health, in happiness and in sadness" and the whole 9 yards we are always down for that.

even 4 olympics, u go c say na africans dey win long distance races like 15000m just to show we can last longer in marriage
but westerners win 100metres dash signifies y they have more divorce cases

[sub]na examples i giv b4 pple crucify me o[/sub]
davidif (m)
Re: Nigerian Men And Flowers
« #95 on: August 15, 2008, 11:40 PM »

my man 2 slick, thank you o jare.

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drive out to c frnds when d man is free

That is sooooooooo true rather than going to some cabin in the middle of nowhere to be alone or going to picnic in the woods because that's there version of a romantic get away. Later when avalanche happen or serial killer catch them dem go dey cry.
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