Where Do I Go From Here

@ Orikinla
I'm sorry oh but I have a question. You keep saying "they should". . . Who, where and What is this they? Don't you see, she is ALONE in this. Is not when two people are on the same wavelength "THEY" can do something together? The only THEY I can see here is her husband and his family.

I'm sorry but my sister getting hypertension, needing surgery all because of a man's family wahala is a no no for me. For what reason? Why are we making this a life or death issue? Must someone die in marriage before we can say they loved? If that is the case, TO HELL with love, marriage and the whole shebang , I say.


@ OP
You are absolutely right, this is not your marriage alone, why should you have to carry the load mean for 2? If he isn't ready, abeg let it be the back of your head he sees from yonder as you go buh-bye. Seriously, He's out there having his fun, enjoying his life and being happy and you are expected to what. . . Sit around in limbo waiting for him to come to his senses. . . that's if there is even any sense to come back to.

I'll repeat, life is too freaking short to keep twisting yourself into a pretzel, trying to please a man who by all account, couldn't care less about you.

Haba!

What you need to do is sit that hubby of yours down and those witches you call your inlaws and maybe a good pastor, lay all the issues on the table and let everyone say what they feel, come to an agreement, if things don't change,  Make your move.