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bkplur
Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« on: August 19, 2008, 03:23 PM »

i don't know i am so confused,he told me i am a temptation to him though i am a very tall lady,about 5 ft 11 inches,i like him but i am christian
MrCrackles (m)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #1 on: August 19, 2008, 03:25 PM »

Quote from: bkplur on August 19, 2008, 03:23 PM
i don't know i am so confused,he told me i am a temptation to him though i am a very tall lady,about 5 ft 11 inches,i like him but i am christian

if u are a christian? what has that got to do with shagging or getting with your boss?

tell him! Grin
$$Rhino
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #2 on: August 19, 2008, 03:52 PM »

Quote from: bkplur on August 19, 2008, 03:23 PM
i don't know i am so confused,he told me i am a temptation to him though i am a very tall lady,about 5 ft 11 inches,i like him but i am christian

Is your boss single? if he is, then, follow ur mind, but please, make sure you not shagging for shagging reasons, if he is married, please, stay away, because you don't want to be the "other woman" else, sista woman and onyinye2 will teach the wife how to eliminate u.
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #3 on: August 19, 2008, 03:54 PM »

Quote from: $$Rhino on August 19, 2008, 03:52 PM
Is your boss single? if he is, then, follow your mind, but please, make sure you not shagging for shagging reasons, if he is married, please, stay away, because you don't want to be the "other woman" else, sista woman and onyinye2 will teach the wife how to eliminate u.
What lies are these? Grin Angry I'm an angel. Grin
$$Rhino
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #4 on: August 19, 2008, 03:58 PM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on August 19, 2008, 03:54 PM
What lies are these? Grin Angry I'm an angel. Grin

was even on CNN last night
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #5 on: August 19, 2008, 03:59 PM »

Quote from: $$Rhino on August 19, 2008, 03:58 PM
was even on CNN last night
Shaarup dia. Angry me do something like that. . . .
$$Rhino
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #6 on: August 19, 2008, 04:05 PM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on August 19, 2008, 03:59 PM
Shaarup dia. Angry me do something like that. . . .

Does the thread " how to treat the other woman sounds familiar" you and sistawoman and those chemicals that can't be discovered ?
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #7 on: August 19, 2008, 04:06 PM »

Quote from: $$Rhino on August 19, 2008, 04:05 PM
Does the thread " how to treat the other woman sounds familiar" you and sistawoman and those chemicals that can't be discovered ?
I have no idea what you are talking about. . . .
$$Rhino
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #8 on: August 19, 2008, 04:11 PM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on August 19, 2008, 04:06 PM
I have no idea what you are talking about. . . .

loss of memory by choice, little class of irish on da rock will heal that.
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #9 on: August 19, 2008, 04:12 PM »

Quote from: $$Rhino on August 19, 2008, 04:11 PM
loss of memory by choice, little class of irish on da rock will heal that.
Oh you think you funny. . . .
idupaul
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #10 on: August 19, 2008, 04:32 PM »

what the heck,  if u like ur boss then go ahead and hump him. u can keep it secret if u wish, office romance is good ooo esp if ur married, u will feel mad kicks from the whole hiding thingy and ur adrenaline levels will surge to high level as u guys try to avoid getting caught by other nosy workers, girl go extreme jo
bigboyslim (m)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #11 on: August 19, 2008, 04:37 PM »

@ poster, what kind of feelings are you having for your boss. Genuine affection or lustful feelings? If lustful, then desist from it because it will do you no good, the best that you will get is a few encounters of passion which will die down eventually and could cost you your job in the end.

If you do have genuine feelings for him, then ask yourself, is he married, if yes, summon all the efforts within you to put those feelings to an end because like previous posters have said you do not want to be a home wrecker

If he isn't married, then I would tell you that i usually do not encourage dating within the same office because it usually interferes with work, God forbid you should have a misunderstanding in the future where you naturally need to spend time apart, there won't be any avenue for this and it could terribly impair your performance on the job.

If you can not control your feelings for him, then my advice is start looking for another job.
Ola8 (m)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #12 on: August 19, 2008, 04:50 PM »

why did u like this man?

Anyway Just satisfied your conscence since you are already in Love, but bcareful.
segzi cres (m)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #13 on: August 19, 2008, 04:56 PM »

@poster i'm sure you have a boyfriend that cares alot about you, he also tries his best for you, if it's the financial part you're looking for, run cause it always has a very nerve breaking and self esteem lowering end.
bkplur
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #14 on: August 20, 2008, 10:14 AM »

tanks guys,i know the fact that he is married maybe i sould eliminate the feelings i have for him,i am having my industrial attachment i am his personal assistance,i will be tru by next month,but till then i pray the lord help me.i think its lust maybe because i just have a mis understaning with my b/f i am now using this as a defence mechanism,iwill holla you guys how far. lol Grin Grin Grin Grin Cool
zignor (m)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #15 on: August 20, 2008, 10:16 AM »

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like him but i am christian

lol . . .you can said that again Grin Grin Grin
MrCrackles (m)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #16 on: August 20, 2008, 10:20 AM »

Quote from: zignor on August 20, 2008, 10:16 AM
lol . . .you can said that again Grin Grin Grin

fucking hell, you just shot me!! Grin
Folanre (m)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #17 on: August 20, 2008, 12:45 PM »

Lady, I hope God help u as u prayed so that u don't commence something u can conclude
bkplur
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #18 on: August 21, 2008, 09:26 AM »

folanre thanks, i pray GOD helps me lol Huh Huh Huh Huh Undecided
kemisuga (f)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #19 on: August 21, 2008, 11:52 AM »

@ poster, I really understand your feelings. I have been in the same issue too. 

It is not easy being a Secretary/P.A for a very handsome, very intellectual and rich man. Although I never compromise to this man. His wife love me in such that, if his husband take me as his 2nd wife, she wont take offence. But I can never be a 2nd wife of a man.

After I left them, actually it was during my NYSC service, we become good family friends, and he gives me respect for not yielding to his demands. Huh

bkplur my advice for you is to get this behind you. don't let the fact that you have probs with your boyfriend make you lure yourself. Besides it is not good having affairs with one's boss. If he is not married, I would have say go ahead.

Take Care Dear. Smiley

TolaniLuv
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #20 on: August 21, 2008, 12:00 PM »

Grow Up! and Help your self. 

Don't you want to be called BossLady!
hollandis
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #21 on: August 21, 2008, 03:28 PM »

Quote from: bkplur on August 19, 2008, 04:05 PM
i don't know i am so confused,he told me i am a temptation to him though i am a very tall lady,about 5 ft 11 inches,i like him but i am christian

bla bla bla

stop advertising berra do your IT and leave

Many men say that  stuff to deceive women

very soon you r going to open a thread of how you phocked your boss

scrammmmmmmmmmmmmmm and get your degree ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwuuuuuuuuu
Sam Milla (m)
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #22 on: August 21, 2008, 03:39 PM »

He said you are a temptation to him and you didnt mention if he is married, engaged or not.

meanwhile there is nothing religiously wrong with that but your job or his could be on the line.

count your steps and don't think 5ft 11 will help you out if things doesn work out.
bkplur
Re: Help I Think I Am Having Feelings For My Boss
« #23 on: August 22, 2008, 01:10 PM »

i know i have my dignity to protect thanks every 1,kemi sugar thanks at least i unerstnd you have been dere,but hollandis na wa o why the word mumu now, if you are not willing to help no probs but not like that, i mean no harm am just bothered any way thanks 2 u guys lol
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