Is It True That You Will Never Understand A Lady Until After Marriage?

 

So basically before marriage, ladies will act like saints or the best ladies. After marriage they are now in control, demanding, and bitching about every little thing. Guys and ladies, is it true? And why do they do it? Is it so that they will get married or is it to impress the guy and his family?

@ poster it is a normal thing to want to conceal one's character in order to please the other party. You try to paint what is black white just to act true and real. Most times all these fake things become exposed in marraige. But the truth is that you can't know everything about your partner nt even after both of u av gotten married. Just as albridge has said it is better you try to knw as much as u can before u get married and don't be surprised when you begin to see things that are contrary to what you were used to seeing while in courtship. _{It pays to be one's self.}

Haba girlfriend. That's rather too harsh. _{Na fight?}

@Girlsowit

no be fite, na true.

Even you sef you know go finish to understand ya sef

na one man wey go now understand you???

It is vice versa and like some has already said try and understand her as much as possible but people change mostly because of the treatment they start receiving from either side it could be positive it could be negative. If a woman changes after marriage may you have start to treat her bad there was a time she was the best in town before find out what made her to change.

No, it ain't true. Many people, these days, live with each other for a long time before getting married so they have ample opportunity to discover all the nuances of personality/character with each other.

well depends sha,
but me thinks she becomes less threatened,
more in control yet submissive.

Well, a woman that u yet to lve with daily, who you yet to eat her food daily, you only see each other on visitation, it is hard for you to say you know such woman, also, most ladies will pretend while they are dating, because they want to end up as the wife, and once theya re wife, they show their true color.

Also some of them will pretend to like all about sex and oral sex and all, and after you married, they will start singing an holy song.

well i had 2 rephrase the topic because. . . . . .  but anyway when i reach that bridge i'll  get bak 2 u

 

This is the deal. My older brother is dating a White lady. Actually they plan to get married. The White lady don't give a mess about the family. She haven't even done anything for the family approval. Some ladies don't know that the family have to approve them as wife to be or they will have issues with them. So basically my approval rating for is about %5 out of %100. When she comes around she doesn't do much if anything, she just go and hide in his room. Hopefully I will go to the wedding if I don't have anything to do.

My younger brother is dating Asian lady, I think she is Hispanic, but she looks mix. Actually I don't know what she is. Do I want to know? No. Well lets just say she is White. You are Black or White. If you disagree, go figure. They have not discussed marriage openly, so I don't know if he is wasting his time or tasting the waters. She have made effort to hang out. But she haven't made any sacrifice. She just comes around some times, and hang out. That's not good enough. My approval rate is %10.

My other older brother is hooking up with an Ibo lady who happens to live in another state, about 4hrs. drive. They are getting married soon. The deal is this lady is too friendly, well behaved, done a lot of things for the family, made some sacrifice. The thing is, she is too nice that it makes me wonder. When some one is too friendly it makes me to wonder if they are real or just pretenders. It looks like she wants to get married to my brother and she is willing to do what ever it takes. She seems to not want any problem or misunderstanding with the family. My approval for her is about %95 plus pretending behaviors. I guess she knows how to get what she wants.

A lot of ladies know that if they bitch about the way the guy eats or snore or what ever, he may think twice about marrying her and also that after marriage they can bitch about anything they want.

it's just by the spaecial grace of God.

You gusy have the nerve to talk about ladies?? What about guys. The first day you meet your husband is the day you step into his house as his wife,