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whitelexi (m)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #32 on: August 20, 2008, 06:08 PM »

Quote from: rampant on August 20, 2008, 06:00 PM
any man that wants me to bow down and worship him,should get prepared to visit his grave,by d time i stuck him up wt otapiapia

Story Tongue Whether dead or alive - you do not tempt a lion Tongue Tongue Tongue
rampant (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #33 on: August 20, 2008, 06:09 PM »

Quote from: whitelexi on August 20, 2008, 06:08 PM
Story Tongue Whether dead or alive - you do not tempt a lion Tongue Tongue Tongue

keep dreaming,its so easy to get a man,u men r as weak as only gawd knows what,u r all known for that
wumi11
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #34 on: August 20, 2008, 06:10 PM »

Quote from: rampant on August 20, 2008, 06:00 PM
any man that wants me to bow down and worship him,should get prepared to visit his grave,by d time i stuck him up wt otapiapia

Shei! your type fit give you man groundnut and garri chop when the kitchen is filled with food. no hard feelings,
 But if  u value your Kids uve got no choice.  sory Cheesy
onyinye2 (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #35 on: August 20, 2008, 06:11 PM »

Quote from: rampant on August 20, 2008, 06:09 PM
keep dreaming,its so easy to get a man,u men r as weak as only gawd knows what,you're all known for that
LMFAO!!!! Grin
onyinye2 (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #36 on: August 20, 2008, 06:11 PM »

Quote from: wumi11 on August 20, 2008, 06:10 PM
Shei! your type fit give you man groundnut and garri chop when the kitchen is filled with food. no hard feelings,
 But if  u value your Kids uve got no choice.  sory Cheesy
Oh brotha man, there is ALWAYS a choice to be made.
rampant (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #37 on: August 20, 2008, 06:12 PM »

Quote from: wumi11 on August 20, 2008, 06:10 PM
Shei! your type fit give you man groundnut and garri chop when the kitchen is filled with food. no hard feelings,
 But if  u value your Kids uve got no choice.  sory Cheesy

 Grin Grin
Opslag (m)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #38 on: August 20, 2008, 06:17 PM »

Quote from: rampant on August 20, 2008, 06:12 PM
Grin Grin

easy i beg.u act like ur so tough.ur likes hv a perculiar 4mula.
chamotex (m)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #39 on: August 20, 2008, 06:18 PM »

Quote
what makes u feel like a King?

when she's sucking ma d!ck and licking ma ballz at the same time Grin Grin

oh what a KING-LIKE feeling Cheesy Cheesy
wumi11
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #40 on: August 20, 2008, 06:18 PM »

@Rampant!
 that is so wrong dearie, don't be fooled no matter how pretty you are,

the most difficult task is to find a man that going to thick to you no matter what. sure they are every where, but how many will stick by u. thats on in a million.

its a playaz world.  just do the best u can thats all.
whitelexi (m)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #41 on: August 20, 2008, 06:18 PM »

Quote from: rampant on August 20, 2008, 06:09 PM
keep dreaming,its so easy to get a man,u men r as weak as only gawd knows what,you're all known for that

Men are not weak, boys are weak. . .  So don't decieve yourself about your strengths when u take advantage of weak guys. Tongue Tongue Tongue
onyinye2 (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #42 on: August 20, 2008, 06:21 PM »

Quote from: whitelexi on August 20, 2008, 06:18 PM
Men are not weak, boys are weak. . .  So don't decieve yourself about your strengths when u take advantage of weak guys. Tongue Tongue Tongue
Boys ko men ni . . . . . sometimes it is hard to differ between the two.
whitelexi (m)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #43 on: August 20, 2008, 06:22 PM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on August 20, 2008, 06:21 PM
Boys ko men ni . . . . . sometimes it is hard to differ between the two.

When u view both from mature eyes, the difference is clear Tongue Tongue Tongue
onyinye2 (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #44 on: August 20, 2008, 06:24 PM »

Quote from: whitelexi on August 20, 2008, 06:22 PM
When u view both from mature eyes, the difference is clear Tongue Tongue Tongue
It is not my eyes that are the problem, it is yal's attitude and mentality. Tongue
wumi11
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #45 on: August 20, 2008, 06:25 PM »

if he weak, he be treating you like a b**tch!
Cry
but he aint then he be treating u nicely.

sorry Guys but i once read a book that says they are the weaker vessels,
but some strong pass us o!
rampant (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #46 on: August 20, 2008, 06:27 PM »

Quote from: Opslag on August 20, 2008, 06:17 PM
easy i beg.u act like your so tough.your likes hv a perculiar 4mula.

 Huh Huh





Quote from: wumi11 on August 20, 2008, 06:18 PM
@Rampant!
 that is so wrong dearie, don't be fooled no matter how pretty you are,

the most difficult task is to find a man that going to thick to you no matter what. sure they are every where, but how many will stick by u. thats on in a million.

its a playaz world.  just do the best u can thats all.


wats so wrong?that men r weak or what?plsss you're d one whos wrong here,men r weak it is d simple fact,no wonder women r used to bring them down this days


Quote from: whitelexi on August 20, 2008, 06:18 PM
Men are not weak, boys are weak. . .  So don't decieve yourself about your strengths when u take advantage of weak guys. Tongue Tongue Tongue

yeah right ,go see 77 yr old men still fighting to get under d skirts of under 20,who just shaked their assses whilst passing them

whitelexi (m)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #47 on: August 20, 2008, 06:29 PM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on August 20, 2008, 06:24 PM
It is not my eyes that are the problem, it is yal's attitude and mentality. Tongue

Its not mentality, its not attitude. Its how it is, how it has always been, and how it will continue to be till death do everyone part.
God created it that way, Allah sanctioned it that way, The jews, the buddhists, the monks. . .  Everyone knows it will continue to remain so, so wake up from your little slumber before its too late Tongue Tongue Tongue
onyinye2 (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #48 on: August 20, 2008, 06:30 PM »

Quote from: whitelexi on August 20, 2008, 06:29 PM
Its not mentality, its not attitude. Its how it is, how it has always been, and how it will continue to be till death do everyone part.
God created it that way, Allah sanctioned it that way, The jews, the buddhists, the monks. . .  Everyone knows it will continue to remain so, so wake up from you little slumber before its too late Tongue Tongue Tongue
Blah Blah Blah. Will i be a good wife. . . . . yes. Will i bow down before him. . . . . hell naw. Treat him like a man. . . . . yes. Treat him as a king. . . . . hell naw.
sistawoman (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #49 on: August 20, 2008, 06:30 PM »

@ whitelexi

How my dear will you know if the woman will treat you like a king after marriage if she does not do it before marriage?

@ OP

There is nothing wrong with giving your man king treatment as long as you recieve Queen treatment.  As long as there is quid pro quo there are not beefs with me.

A king will know how to treat a queen and there will be no issues with catering to each other.
whitelexi (m)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #50 on: August 20, 2008, 06:32 PM »

Quote from: sistawoman on August 20, 2008, 06:30 PM
@ whitelexi

How my dear will you know if the woman will treat you like a king after marriage if she does not do it before marriage?


@Sisterwoman:

From the day it is born, you can recognize the child that will grow to become a king Grin Tongue Tongue
onyinye2 (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #51 on: August 20, 2008, 06:34 PM »

Quote from: wumi11 on August 20, 2008, 06:25 PM
if he weak, he be treating you like a b**tch!
 Cry
but he aint then he be treating u nicely.

sorry Guys but i once read a book that says they are the weaker vessels,
but some strong pass us o!

Oh dry up your tears. Tongue
wumi11
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #52 on: August 20, 2008, 06:34 PM »

Shei! This is getting Intresting!

@Rampant!
Gurl i fear your type! does that mean am weak?

By the way what do you mean by being weak.

for that 77yrs old, he just wants to check if he is still active, and wetin go make the 20yrs old girl follow am if she no ? Grin
ibrahiem (m)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #53 on: August 20, 2008, 06:35 PM »

takin control all time n at all course.being able 2 command respect
sistawoman (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #54 on: August 20, 2008, 06:35 PM »

Quote from: whitelexi on August 20, 2008, 06:32 PM
@Sisterwoman:

From the day it is born, you can recognize that child that will become a king Grin Tongue Tongue

That is cute but it does not answer my question:

How will you know that she will give you King treatment if she does not do it before marriage?

How you treat a person should remain consistant.  If i did not cook for you before what makes you think i will do it after you put a ring on my finger?  How can you expect a person to change who they are because the took your last name?
ibrahiem (m)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #55 on: August 20, 2008, 06:36 PM »

takin control all time n at all course.being able 2 command respect
onyinye2 (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #56 on: August 20, 2008, 06:36 PM »

Quote from: ibrahiem on August 20, 2008, 06:35 PM
takin control all time n at all course.being able 2 command respect
Nwoke, are you serious? I mean are you truly serious? Who are you commanding? Your wife?
rampant (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #57 on: August 20, 2008, 06:37 PM »

Quote from: ibrahiem on August 20, 2008, 06:36 PM
takin control all time n at all course.being able 2 command respect

meaning what?
sistawoman (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #58 on: August 20, 2008, 06:38 PM »

Quote from: ibrahiem on August 20, 2008, 06:36 PM
takin control all time n at all course.being able 2 command respect

Commanding respect will get you none.
wumi11
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #59 on: August 20, 2008, 06:39 PM »

Quote from: sistawoman on August 20, 2008, 06:35 PM
That is cute but it does not answer my question:

How will you know that she will give you King treatment if she does not do it before marriage?

How you treat a person should remain consistant.  If i did not cook for you before what makes you think i will do it after you put a ring on my finger?  How can you expect a person to change who they are because the took your last name?

To an extent you are right. But thats were we have to work on ourselfs, and also understanding would come to play here, because an average Nigeria man cannot cope with a wife that does not cook good food talk less of "can't cook" thats Bad
whitelexi (m)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #60 on: August 20, 2008, 06:40 PM »

Quote from: sistawoman on August 20, 2008, 06:35 PM
That is cute but it does not answer my question:

How will you know that she will give you King treatment if she does not do it before marriage?

How you treat a person should remain consistant.  If i did not cook for you before what makes you think i will do it after you put a ring on my finger?  How can you expect a person to change who they are because the took your last name?

Alas! With many naija girls, how u treat a man is not consistent. . . They treat u nicely before u propose, they change after the wedding.
There is a difference between [helping out once in a while] and working over-time to show your qualities.
I don't consider cooking and other basic household chores as big things - i have been doing all of them so no woman can shakara me with that one, but it is easy to tell that a girl is working overtime to impress u, she goes too far, as a Manchester United will definitely notice the trend.
onyinye2 (f)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #61 on: August 20, 2008, 06:44 PM »

Quote from: wumi11 on August 20, 2008, 06:39 PM
To an extent you are right. But thats were we have to work on ourselfs, and also understanding would come to play here, because an average Nigeria man cannot cope with a wife that does not cook good food talk less of "can't cook" thats Bad
That is understandable. But then again being that this is 2008 not 1908, i wonder why the guy can't cook for himself. hmmm. . . . . Anyways you really don't know a person until you are married with that person. That is why when i see people who get married after only dating 1 1/2 years or only 2 years, i question their judgment. I mean do you really know this person like you think you do. I mean there are people out there who's main principle is to "hide the flaws until after the wedding". That includes men and women.
wumi11
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #62 on: August 20, 2008, 06:48 PM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on August 20, 2008, 06:44 PM
That is understandable. But then again being that this is 2008 not 1908, i wonder why the guy can't cook for himself. hmmm. . . . . Anyways you really don't know a person until you are married with that person. That is why when i see people who get married after only dating 1 1/2 years or only 2 years, i question their judgment. I mean do you really know this person like you think you do. I mean there are people out there who's main principle is to "hide the flaws until after the wedding". That includes men and women.


Chickala! am not an exception! i hate to cook, moreover i don't have the time. most time i go junk or iya basira!
and that goes to most men.
whitelexi (m)
Re: To All The Guys. Ladies You Can Contribute As Well.
« #63 on: August 20, 2008, 06:49 PM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on August 20, 2008, 06:44 PM
That is understandable. But then again being that this is 2008 not 1908, i wonder why the guy can't cook for himself. hmmm. . . . . Anyways you really don't know a person until you are married with that person. That is why when i see people who get married after only dating 1 1/2 years or only 2 years, i question their judgment. I mean do you really know this person like you think you do. I mean there are people out there who's main principle is to "hide the flaws until after the wedding". That includes men and women.

Seriously, what planet is this person from Huh
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