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CodeRED (f)
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LOL.funny thread indeed, @topic I have absolutely nothing against treating my man as "King". However, he must be deserving of such treatment. Why on earth would I treat a "dog"( true definition of MOST men) as a "king". And just to clear up any misconception, I DO treat mine like one. Sadly though, I had to "kiss a few toads before he came along"  |
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wumi11
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@Rampant!
you done run? you be hard woman abi?
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sistawoman (f)
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Alas! With many naija girls, how u treat a man is not consistent. . . They treat u nicely before u propose, they change after the wedding.
There is a difference between [helping out once in a while] and working over-time to show your qualities.
I don't consider cooking and other basic household chores as big things - i have been doing all of them so no woman can shakara me with that one, but it is easy to tell that a girl is working overtime to impress u, she goes too far, as a Manchester United will definitely notice the trend.
Thanks for clearing that up. I can understand your point of overdoing it. I just causion you to be careful not to dismiss a girl right away because she does not offer you King treatment. My husband did not recieve king treatment until he earned it and proved that he was worthy of me going the extra mile. It is like that with most women. Could the problem with Nigerian women be that after marriage the man treats her more like a piece of property thus causing her to not want to treat him like a king? If my hubby ever did that the king treat would stop. I firmly believe in quid pro quo. |
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onyinye2 (f)
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LOL.funny thread indeed, @topic I have absolutely nothing against treating my man as "King". However, he must be deserving of such treatment. Why on earth would I treat a "dog"( true definition of MOST men) as a "king". And just to clear up any misconception, I DO treat mine like one. Sadly though, I had to "kiss a few toads before he came along" You know you aint right but as they say men are dogs, and dogs can be trained!  Seriously, what planet is this person from  Planet of Reality.
Chickala! am not an exception! i hate to cook, moreover i don't have the time. most time i go junk or iya basira!
and that goes to most men.
Oh you hate to cook and you expect a woman to cook for you at all time abi? Wake up brotha man, because you going to cook whether you like it or not. |
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wumi11
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You know you aint right but as they say men are dogs, and dogs can be trained! Planet of Reality. Oh you hate to cook and you expect a woman to cook for you at all time abi? Wake up brotha man, because you going to cook whether you like it or not. thats what am takling bout. LMAO |
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onyinye2 (f)
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Sistawoman. . . . . why do you treat your hubby as a king? I mean i will treat him right and make him feel like a "man", but for me to treat him like a king. . . .
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CodeRED (f)
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Sweetie, just like some people NEVER grasp the contents in school, so too are some men. No amount of training will and can deliver them. . But as I earlier said, I have no problem treating my significant other like a "King".Which translates in my dictionary as, respect, love and admiration". However, it he is NOT worthy of such, then Hell NO . Why waste my energy trying to do what his mother didn't even bother to attempt? |
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whitelexi (m)
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Planet of Reality.
More like planet of fantasy to me  |
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wumi11
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You know you aint right but as they say men are dogs, and dogs can be trained! Planet of Reality. Oh you hate to cook and you expect a woman to cook for you at all time abi? Wake up brotha man, because you going to cook whether you like it or not. 1. I HATE IT 2. MORE ESPECIALLY I don't HAVE THE TIME. and why would you not make me some nice dinner when we get back from work? huh? you got issues with the dishes? Sistawoman. . . . . why do you treat your hubby as a king? I mean i will treat him right and make him feel like a "man", but for me to treat him like a king. . . .
i now know u got issues with men, |
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onyinye2 (f)
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Sweetie, just like some people NEVER grasp the contents in school, so too are some men. No amount of training will and can deliver them. . But as I earlier said, I have no problem treating my significant other like a "King".Which translates in my dictionary as, respect, love and admiration". However, it he is NOT worthy of such, then Hell NO . Why waste my energy trying to do what his mother didn't even bother to attempt?LMAO!!! You got that right. King ko, dog ni, for me to treat my man like a king. . . . it must be his birthday or father's day. Besides that. . . wetin. Shaarup blanco boy. What do you know? nothing. 1. I HATE IT 2. MORE ESPECIALLY I don't HAVE THE TIME. and why would you not make me some nice dinner when we get back from work? huh? you got issues with the dishes? i now know u got issues with men, If you don't have the time to cook, i don't have the time to cook. If i see that I'm the only one cooking in the house and you just sittin there doing nothing, me cooking shall cease to exist. Me got issues with men? Never. . . . |
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sistawoman (f)
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Sistawoman. . . . . why do you treat your hubby as a king? I mean i will treat him right and make him feel like a "man", but for me to treat him like a king. . . .
I treat him like a king because he earned it. When I ask him to do something he does it the first time when he said he will do it. When I need him he is there. When the bills are due they are paid. When I am sick he is there. When I need a shoulder to lean on he is there I am always treated with respect, kindness and geniune concern. He is faithful to me and our children. I always, always, always feel like I am sitting up on a pedestal and that my needs come before his own. He treats me like his queen and in turn he gets treated like my king. |
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whitelexi (m)
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I treat him like a king because he earned it.
When I ask him to do something he does it the first time when he said he will do it.
When I need him he is there.
When the bills are due they are paid.
When I am sick he is there.
When I need a shoulder to lean on he is there
I am always treated with respect, kindness and geniune concern.
He is faithful to me and our children.
I always, always, always feel like I am sitting up on a pedestal and that my needs come before his own.
He treats me like his queen and in turn he gets treated like my king.
Please tell them ohhh. Now thats the difference between a boy and a man! and i dare say, a woman and a girl! Tell them, especially 'GIFT' |
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onyinye2 (f)
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I treat him like a king because he earned it.
When I ask him to do something he does it the first time when he said he will do it.
When I need him he is there.
When the bills are due they are paid.
When I am sick he is there.
When I need a shoulder to lean on he is there
I am always treated with respect, kindness and geniune concern.
He is faithful to me and our children.
I always, always, always feel like I am sitting up on a pedestal and that my needs come before his own.
He treats me like his queen and in turn he gets treated like my king.
All this is sweet and peachy to read. And i see you married right. And you are oka with treating a man like a king. But as for me. . . . i don't treat no one like a king. I will treat him right and make him see i know a man's worth. Cater to him, satisfy him. . . . . you know blah blah blah. But for me to treat him as a king. . . . Idk but it just doesn't suit with me. . . . . |
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sistawoman (f)
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All this is sweet and peachy to read. And i see you married right. And you are oka with treating a man like a king. But as for me. . . . i don't treat no one like a king. I will treat him right and make him see i know a man's worth. Cater to him, satisfy him. . . . . you know blah blah blah. But for me to treat him as a king. . . . Idk but it just doesn't suit with me. . . . .
What is the difference for you? is it simply the "label" that you are hung up on? What is it that you will not do for your man that you consider king treatment? |
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onyinye2 (f)
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I don't know if it is the label or not. Cause for me to treat a man as a king. . . . you know, what does that make me? And who are you the king of? not me. Any ways what i view as king treatment. . . . . . is me subjecting myself to do whatever he wants. . . which is VERY hard considering me.
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rampant (f)
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@Rampant!
you done run? you be hard woman abi?
u r very stupid for this statement,what is it u have wt me?so u think I'm so jobless like u that ive got nothing to do apart from staying online and yarning rubbish?u r lucky i saw this when u r offline,fool |
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$$Rhino
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I don't know if it is the label or not. Cause for me to treat a man as a king. . . . you know, what does that make me? And who are you the king of? not me. Any ways what i view as king treatment. . . . . . is me subjecting myself to do whatever he wants. . . which is VERY hard considering me.
Do u really know the meaning of Love, i mean real love, not the kind of love that, i love you because you love me too, please, tell me, if you really understand the meaning of love, because if you do, there are some things that u argue about and u just wasting ur time oh, when u love someone, i mean when you really love someone, he will tell you to jump and you wont even ask how high before u jump. Treating a man as a king isn't same as enslaving yourself to such man, and trust me, just pray to find a man that truely loves yuo, because such man will do anything for you as well. |
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whitelexi (m)
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I don't know if it is the label or not. Cause for me to treat a man as a king. . . . you know, what does that make me? And who are you the king of? not me. Any ways what i view as king treatment. . . . . . is me subjecting myself to do whatever he wants. . . which is VERY hard considering me.
ewo She's sounding like an 18yr old right now. . . Thats a first |
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onyinye2 (f)
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Do u really know the meaning of Love, i mean real love, not the kind of love that, i love you because you love me too, please, tell me, if you really understand the meaning of love, because if you do, there are some things that u argue about and u just wasting your time oh, when u love someone, i mean when you really love someone, he will tell you to jump and you wont even ask how high before u jump.
Treating a man as a king isn't same as enslaving yourself to such man, and trust me, just pray to find a man that truely loves yuo, because such man will do anything for you as well.
(coughing relentlessly) I will treat him like a "man" not a "king". Whats the different. . . . . truly depends. Any how, I'm not some cold heartless person you are trying to make me seem like. I would do almost anything for the guy i love. |
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sistawoman (f)
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I don't know if it is the label or not. Cause for me to treat a man as a king. . . . you know, what does that make me? And who are you the king of? not me. Any ways what i view as king treatment. . . . . . is me subjecting myself to do whatever he wants. . . which is VERY hard considering me.
What if he gives you whatever you want? |
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onyinye2 (f)
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What if he gives you whatever you want?
Depends on what i want. . . . . because i aint too into material things. . . . . for me, giving me what i want could be hard. |
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sistawoman (f)
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Depends on what i want. . . . . because i aint too into material things. . . . . for me, giving me what i want could be hard.
Most of what my hubby does for me is not materialistic. Most of what he does for me can not be measured in dollars and cents. I know that when i need him he is always there. I know that I will never NEED for anything. I know that i may WANT for somethings until he is able to provide it. He is not perfect and neither am I. But our NEEDS are always taken care of, both his and mine. |
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minute (f)
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Both sides should treat each other with respect and love.
A titlle is worthless without this . . . .treat the ones you love with this
and life will feel like you're a king/queen of the world.
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onyinye2 (f)
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Most of what my hubby does for me is not materialistic. Most of what he does for me can not be measured in dollars and cents.
I know that when i need him he is always there.
I know that I will never NEED for anything.
I know that i may WANT for somethings until he is able to provide it.
He is not perfect and neither am I. But our NEEDS are always taken care of, both his and mine.
I guess you know you are living the life most people dream of. But. . . . . the king things just doesn't work with me . . . . . right now. I still have time to experience, learn, understand. Because for you, treating your man as a king goes without thought. As for me. . . . i guess I'm more worked up on the title then the whole "treatment" aspect. Who knows, that might change. . . . with much much much time. |
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$$Rhino
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Onyi, it is high time u stop struggling with the label, if u don't want to treat him like a king and yet you will treat him like a woman that treat her man like a king will treat him, then, chose any word that best fit how u will treat, the bottom line is no need for the man to ask for kingship treatment, Love from him will be enough to make u want to even give him ur life.
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onyinye2 (f)
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Onyi, it is high time u stop struggling with the label, if u don't want to treat him like a king and yet you will treat him like a woman that treat her man like a king will treat him, then, chose any word that best fit how u will treat, the bottom line is no need for the man to ask for kingship treatment, Love from him will be enough to make u want to even give him your life.
Of course I'm a ride or die kind of chic. If i truly truly truly love you, then why wouldn't i ride or die. For me. . . i will just think of it as instead of saying "treating him like a king" it will be me giving him that butta love instead. Cause when i think of king, the word "worship" just enters my mind. |
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Orikinla (m)
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A man who wants to be treated as King should be willing to treat a woman as Queen.
Not the one that will treat you like shit and expects you to treat him like king?
My American sweetheart called me her Afrcan King and actually treated me like one until she complained that there were too many women waiting in the wings.
A man who wants to be treated as King should earn it.
PERIOD.
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$$Rhino
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Of course I'm a ride or die kind of chic. If i truly truly truly love you, then why wouldn't i ride or die. For me. . . i will just think of it as instead of saying "treating him like a king" it will be me giving him that butta love instead. Cause when i think of king, the word "worship" just enters my mind.
There is only one king that i blv deserves our worship and that is King of Kings, Jesus Himself, so other could be adored but don't blv in worshiping a man. |
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$$Rhino
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A man who wants to be treated as King should be willing to treat a woman as Queen.
Not the one that will treat you like shit and expects you to treat him like king?
My American sweetheart called me her Afrcan King and actually treated me like one until she complained that there were too many women waiting in the wings.
A man who wants to be treated as King should earn it.
PERIOD.
I agreed with you, but the funniest thing is that most men want to be treated like a king and yet they will treat same woman like dirt. I have a policy, a woman that is beaten, shdnt cook for such man, because he has violated his right to anything with such woman. |
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CodeRED (f)
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A man who wants to be treated as King should be willing to treat a woman as Queen.
Not the one that will treat you like shit and expects you to treat him like king?
My American sweetheart called me her Afrcan King and actually treated me like one until she complained that there were too many women waiting in the wings.
A man who wants to be treated as King should earn it.
PERIOD.
Ori, my dear Your momma did an excellent job ooo, You need to educate these "small" boys here ranting, who know nothing about the topic @Oniyne, you are cracking me up |
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j-girl (f)
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I agreed with you, but the funniest thing is that most men want to be treated like a king and yet they will treat same woman like dirt.
I have a policy, a woman that is beaten, shdnt cook for such man, because he has violated his right to anything with such woman.
A man who wants to be treated as King should be willing to treat a woman as Queen.
Not the one that will treat you like shit and expects you to treat him like king?
My American sweetheart called me her Afrcan King and actually treated me like one until she complained that there were too many women waiting in the wings.
A man who wants to be treated as King should earn it.
PERIOD.
Oh My Gosh!!!!!!! We have sensible guys on NL!  Where on earth have you guys been? Egoistic animals like them. A guy puts a woman down and expects that she treat him as a King. Guys have issues. I haven't read the thread but I'm sure some marvelous guys are busy thinking that all men should be treated like Kings no matter what. I respect guys that understand how to show love in intimate ways because it shows how much they cherish you. You can't just possess the equipment and expect that it will guarantee automatic royalty from every woman. CodeRED, I'm on my way! I'm so happy. |
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