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DeepZone
Why Won't Guys Listen?
« on: August 20, 2008, 11:29 PM »

Why Do guys rarely listen? Could it be that their auditory gland is not functional 24/7 or what?

Guys, why is it difficult for you to exercise patience and listen? Do you know that communication will effectively enhance the bond between you and your woman?

Chics,
Do you agree with these "5 Talk-to-Him truths about men" below?:


1. Guys Crave Short and Sweet Compliments
2. Men Savor Silence
3. Dudes Don't Have to Hash Out All of Their Problems
4. Your Crying Can Freak Him Out
5. "Sorry" Isn't His Only Way to Make Up

http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/articlecosmo.aspx?cp-documentid=9206996&page=1


Ruby_Pearl
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #1 on: August 20, 2008, 11:34 PM »

*subscribing*

I'd like to know myself.
stillwater (f)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #2 on: August 20, 2008, 11:36 PM »

Quote from: DeepZone on August 20, 2008, 11:29 PM
Chics,
Do you agree with these "5 Talk-to-Him truths about men" below?:


1. Guys crave short and Sweet Compliments
2. Men Savor Silence
3. Dudes Don't Have to Hash Out All of Their Problems
4. Your Crying Can Freak Him Out
5. "Sorry" Isn't His Only Way to Make Up


Erhmmmm, would I be stabbing the women folk in their backs if I'm all those those things listed up there?
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #3 on: August 20, 2008, 11:37 PM »

Now that i think about it. . . . . being that majority of my friends are guys, 2. makes alot of sense. They like to be quiet and just sit back and savor the moment.

But then again i like silence too. . . . i rather sit outside and soak up the energy of the earth then an afternoon running my mouth.
DeepZone
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #4 on: August 20, 2008, 11:40 PM »

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Erhmmmm, would I be stabbing the women folk in their backs if I'm all those those things listed up there?

Do we have bella mafia here?
DeepZone
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #5 on: August 20, 2008, 11:41 PM »

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5. "Sorry" Isn't His Only Way to Make Up

If sorry ain't their only way to make up, what else do they want? Some women get time sha.
bluespice (f)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #6 on: August 20, 2008, 11:45 PM »

Quote from: DeepZone on August 20, 2008, 11:29 PM
Why Do guys rarely listen? Could it be that their auditory gland is not functional 24/7 or what?

Guys, why is it difficult for you to exercise patience and listen? Do you know that communication will effectively enhance the bond between you and your woman?

Chics,
Do you agree with these "5 Talk-to-Him truths about men" below?:


1. Guys Crave Short and Sweet Compliments
2. Men Savor Silence
3. Dudes Don't Have to Hash Out All of Their Problems
4. Your Crying Can Freak Him Out
5. "Sorry" Isn't His Only Way to Make Up



he he i am all that and a lady
but what does this really have to do with guys and listening? Undecided
Aloy.Emeka
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #7 on: August 20, 2008, 11:58 PM »

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Why Do guys rarely listen? Could it be that their auditory gland is not functional 24/7 or what?

Guys, why is it difficult for you to exercise patience and listen? Do you know that communication will effectively enhance the bond between you and your woman?

Because we easily get tired of our women yapping their mouth. I appeal to you women to shut up a little and stay calm, there are always spiritual mystics flowing in the air whenever the environment is serene. The bible advised us to go straight to sleep after sex and not talk talk talk.


An Appeal To My woman:


What will it cost a man for his woman to shut up for a minute? I'm ready to pay that price honey. Grin Grin

davidylan (m)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #8 on: August 21, 2008, 12:06 AM »

Quote from: DeepZone on August 20, 2008, 11:29 PM
Chics,
Do you agree with these "5 Talk-to-Him truths about men" below?:


1. Guys Crave Short and Sweet Compliments
2. Men Savor Silence
3. Dudes Don't Have to Hash Out All of Their Problems
4. Your Crying Can Freak Him Out
5. "Sorry" Isn't His Only Way to Make Up

My question is . . . why wont women just READ the above and DO THEM?
Hannibal
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #9 on: August 21, 2008, 12:09 AM »

Quote from: Aloy.Emeka on August 20, 2008, 11:58 PM
Because we easily get tired of our women yapping their mouth. I appeal to you women to shut up a little and stay calm, there are always spiritual mystics flowing in the air whenever the environment is serene. The bible advised us to go straight to sleep after sex and not talk talk talk.


An Appeal To My woman:


What will it cost a man for his woman to shut up for a minute? I'm ready to pay that price honey. Grin Grin

PRICELESS!!!!!!
bluespice (f)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #10 on: August 21, 2008, 12:13 AM »

Quote from: davidylan on August 21, 2008, 12:06 AM
My question is . . . why wont women just READ the above and DO THEM?
we don't do that because we are not robots! and because some ladies like some men just want to talk





Hannibal
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #11 on: August 21, 2008, 12:16 AM »

Quote from: bluespice on August 21, 2008, 12:13 AM
we don't do that because we are not robots! and because some ladies like some men just want to talk

Those talks make y'all IRRITANTS. Grin Cheesy
I can't stand a woman that moans, gripes, whinges like a puppy deprived of breast-milk. Grin Cheesy
Keep it short and simple. Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesh!!! Angry Angry Angry
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #12 on: August 21, 2008, 12:18 AM »

Quote from: Aloy.Emeka on August 20, 2008, 11:58 PM
Because we easily get tired of our women yapping their mouth. I appeal to you women to shut up a little and stay calm, there are always spiritual mystics flowing in the air whenever the environment is serene. The bible advised us to go straight to sleep after sex and not talk talk talk.
An Appeal To My woman:
What will it cost a man for his woman to shut up for a minute? I'm ready to pay that price honey. Grin Grin
Oka watever!!!!! seriously what is with this generalizing? I mean c'mon. It depends on the kind of chic you have. Oka i have to admit there are times we ladies (esp. me) want to talk. You know express what we feeling instead of bottling it up inside. But there are times we know when to be quiet and enjoy the moment. The whole sex comment is all taboo.

Same goes to you fellas. When you your lady busy at the moment, don't come barging in asking for her to do something for you. Gosh how annoying that is. Especially when I'm watching basketball. I will curse you out if you even attempt to step up to me when I'm watch Lakers vs. Celtics, Hornets vs. Hawks, or Rockets vs. Suns. i will give you a piece of my mind.
davidylan (m)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #13 on: August 21, 2008, 12:19 AM »

Quote from: bluespice on August 21, 2008, 12:13 AM
we don't do that because we are not robots! and because some ladies like some men just want to talk

Neither are we robots who have to "listen" to all the gossip you have to say.
Aloy.Emeka
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #14 on: August 21, 2008, 12:21 AM »

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we don't do that because we are not robots! and because some ladies like some men just want to talk

We are not robots too that should listen to what happened at your work place everyday. Must you tell me what happened at your work place everyday, Shoot, I don't want to hear that.
Ruby_Pearl
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #15 on: August 21, 2008, 12:24 AM »

Quote from: Aloy.Emeka on August 21, 2008, 12:21 AM
We are not robots too that should listen to what happened at your work place everyday. Must you tell me what happened at your work place everyday, Shoot, I don't want to hear that.
So you think we want to hear the events of the game you just finished watching?


between, I didn't know men were named Emeka too. hmm
rampant (f)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #16 on: August 21, 2008, 12:26 AM »

ruby emeka is a mans name
stillwater (f)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #17 on: August 21, 2008, 12:28 AM »

Quote from: davidylan on August 21, 2008, 12:19 AM
Neither are we robots who have to "listen" to all the gossip you have to say.

Having a conversation is gossip?
Ruby_Pearl
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #18 on: August 21, 2008, 12:29 AM »

Quote from: rampant on August 21, 2008, 12:26 AM
ruby emeka is a mans name
Ohh ok. It sounds girlish though.
DeepZone
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #19 on: August 21, 2008, 12:30 AM »

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So you think we want to hear the events of the game you just finished watching?
Thank you.
DeepZone
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #20 on: August 21, 2008, 12:31 AM »

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Neither are we robots who have to "listen" to all the gossip you have to say.

There's a big difference between a gossip and a conversation. You guys need to talk more so that we know when you are planning to abuse or kill us.
Hannibal
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #21 on: August 21, 2008, 12:32 AM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on August 21, 2008, 12:18 AM
Same goes to you fellas. When you your lady busy at the moment, don't come barging in asking for her to do something for you. Gosh how annoying that is. Especially when I'm watching basketball. I will curse you out if you even attempt to step up to me when I'm watch Lakers vs. Celtics, Hornets vs. Hawks, or Rockets vs. Suns. i will give you a piece of my mind.

How many geezers come barging when a game is on TV?? Undecided Undecided Undecided
While u r glued to the TV watching Kobe. . . .Ya geezer is watching Messi at Barcelona.
Guys are considerate. . . . .women are the evil XXXX. Grin Cheesy
bluespice (f)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #22 on: August 21, 2008, 12:32 AM »

Quote from: davidylan on August 21, 2008, 12:19 AM
Neither are we robots who have to "listen" to all the gossip you have to say.
if u don't want to "listen to our gossips" don't,
soory couldnt get past the gossips bit
u say gossips?
puhleazze y'all gossip more than old women

that aside seeing that "listening" is too much a complicated process for ur royal assness
pardon us when u come bellowing for food, or that lost sock u need because we in our strive to please u, have suddenly lost the sense of hearing Smiley
DeepZone
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #23 on: August 21, 2008, 12:33 AM »

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Those talks make y'all IRRITANTS. Grin Cheesy
I can't stand a woman that moans, gripes, whinges like a puppy deprived of breast-milk. Grin Cheesy
Keep it short and simple. Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees
Me too, I can't stand a man that moans,gripes or chase me around the house because he wants sex.
rampant (f)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #24 on: August 21, 2008, 12:34 AM »

dnt y'all ever get tired of all this male/female bashing ?
Hannibal
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #25 on: August 21, 2008, 12:34 AM »

Quote from: DeepZone on August 21, 2008, 12:33 AM
Me too, I can't stand a man that moans,gripes or chase me around the house because he wants sex.

Not when Veronica stays 3 streets away. Grin Cheesy

rampant (f)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #26 on: August 21, 2008, 12:35 AM »

Quote from: DeepZone on August 21, 2008, 12:33 AM
Me too, I can't stand a man that moans,gripes or chase me around the house because he wants sex.

try it my dear,it can be sweet u know Wink
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #27 on: August 21, 2008, 12:38 AM »

Quote from: bluespice on August 21, 2008, 12:32 AM
if u don't want to "listen to our gossips" don't,
soory couldnt get past the gossips bit
u say gossips?
puhleazze y'all gossip more than old women

that aside seeing that "listening" is too much a complicated process for your royal assness
pardon us when u come bellowing for food, or that lost sock u need because we in our strive to please u, have suddenly lost the sense of hearing Smiley
HELL YEAH!!! I use to think women gossip more. . . . nope it is guys. 89% of my friends are dudes and the things yal be saying is just like . . . . . "WHAT".
Seriously it is ridiculous.

Quote from: Hannibal on August 21, 2008, 12:32 AM
How many geezers come barging when a game is on TV?? Undecided Undecided Undecided
While you're glued to the TV watching Kobe. . . .Ya geezer is watching Messi at Barcelona.
Guys are considerate. . . . .women are the evil XXXX. Grin Cheesy
That is a bold face lie right there and you know it. You don't know how many times i have been disturbed by you fellas when I'm watching my basketball. I mean can you wait till comercials or half time? Jeez. It is so freaking annoying. between, barely any body watches soccer in the States so that last comment was pretty irrelevant.
chamotex (m)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #28 on: August 21, 2008, 12:38 AM »

its funny to see how some ladies in the house didnt say anything about the generalization of GUYS here

@ topic

because some just talk yama-yama into ur brains, nothing really relevant Embarrassed

especially on the phone at night when a negro is trying to get some sleep, thats when they want to talk for hours

"I'm so tired, lets chat" - if u are tired why not go to bed

"U can't beleive what happened at the salon today" - Thats for u and your girlfriend

They call u 3am in the morning "Are you sleeping?" Duh, even if I'm not. . . . .
DeepZone
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #29 on: August 21, 2008, 12:40 AM »

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Not when Veronica stays 3 streets away.
And ms HIV is also 3 streets away.
Hannibal
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #30 on: August 21, 2008, 12:43 AM »

Quote from: DeepZone on August 21, 2008, 12:40 AM
And ms HIV is also 3 streets away.

ms HIV me ass. . . . . If every guy that Polys get infected with the Virus then mankind woulda been erased since.
Have u heard of prophylactics?? Cool
bluespice (f)
Re: Why Won't Guys Listen?
« #31 on: August 21, 2008, 12:44 AM »

Quote from: chamotex on August 21, 2008, 12:38 AM
its funny to see how some ladies in the house didnt say anything about the generalization of GUYS here

@ topic

because some just talk yama-yama into your brains, nothing really relevant Embarrassed

especially on the phone at night when a negro is trying to get some sleep, thats when they want to talk for hours

"I'm so tired, lets chat" - if u are tired why not go to bed

"You can't beleive what happened at the salon today" - Thats for u and your girlfriend

They call u 3am in the morning "Are you sleeping?" Duh, even if I'm not. . . . .
lmfao! what sorta gurls u been rolling with?  Shocked
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