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cocoboy (m)
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a girl i loved so much was forced into marriage by her parents last year but she still telling me how much she loves me now she wants to divorce her husband and marry me.and i think i still love her .if u are in my shoe , what will u do?
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Seun (m)
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How did they force her to marry him? Did they put a knife to her throat? Sorry, I have no sympathy for her.
So what should you do? Go on with your life. If you decide to marry her, what will you do when she's "forced" to divorce you also? Afterall, she's not a woman yet. She's still a girl who can be "forced" into marriage. Shame on her!
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eveseh (f)
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she's married now u can't do nuthing
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edygirl (f)
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If you are meant to be hers in one way or the other the two of you must surely be together. I feel you though .it happens a lot.
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hibans (f)
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I agree with Seun.
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Busta (f)
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u gotta move on cocoboy!
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babymine (f)
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Yeah, you gotta move on with your life!
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diddy4 (m)
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move on wetin? my man go fight for your rib jo.
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j-girl (f)
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What God has joined together let no man put asunder. They have been joined in his presence. Let them live in peace. Could she not run away on the wedding day. Did they force her to say i do? She should have fought for you.
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Eurphoria (f)
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AWWW
Dry your eyes mate! move on, remember that little word karma? if she leaves her husband for you, will you ever trust her? and will thesame be visited on you? Think long and hard
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mamaput (f)
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I will not assume its a church marrage ?
maybe just traditional or court.
If you love her take her.
Nawa for you people so two people should be unhappy for the rest of their lives because of what.
That Husband or so called did he not know that the woman did not love him when he went ahead to marry her?
Runn and take her before she has a baby for that man if you really love her and want to marry her. If you do not want to marry her then do not bother forget her.
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saintchux (m)
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It is so unfortunate that the girl was forced into marriage and she agreed. One question, I will love you to answer is what you did when they are forcing her into that marriage. May be you were not on her side. If you were, she would have had enough energy to withstand. you propbably did not give her the courage and assurance she needed during that trial period.
But will the two live together a life of unfulfillment? What God had joined together, let no man put asunder. Was it Gods plan that two of them should get married, if yes why under duress. Can two work together if they do not agree Amos 3:3. They were joined together by God or in prescence of God under duress from the parents. The marriage has no ground to stand. It has no tap root. It is a fabricated marriage. Forced to exist. It is modern day slavery. It is not marriage. You do not force people to marry.
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Coco29 (f)
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love u girl  |
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future
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am shure u re still pumping her boyu take it easy and look 4 ur own leave another man toto
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Greatpeter (m)
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Just be careful of don't climb known as "thunderbolt"
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akniy (m)
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u beta forget her, because der are lots of thunderbolts in the market now. so don't climb. once married to another person u don't try her. xcept u want 2 kill her husband,  |
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faa (f)
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There's no reason to cry over spilt milk. She's taken so forget about her. I know it may not be easy but do try.
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olodo (m)
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well wether she was forced or she willingly married the guy the truth is that she is married to another man. so why don't you move on with your life there are so many wonderfull woman out there who will give you joy and peace of mind who will not be FORCED. My dear please FORGET HER who told you she was forced please don't be deceived.
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Rottweiler (m)
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THEY FORCED HER INTO MARRIAGE
and you claim she wants to divorce the man and marry you. Are the people who forced her into marriage dead? Take am easy o, girls plenty for town wey you fit choose from.
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hot chic (f)
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It is advisable to forget about the gurl,its a lost battle.
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Seyin (f)
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Marriage is santified by God, don't be the reason their marriage breaks up as it is indeed a taboo.
If she's meant to be with you it will be but you do nothing and you allowing her to confess her love to you and vice versa again doesn't help.
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bebe2007 (f)
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 Poor you! better leave her alone. Its too late ok.
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Sweet T (m)
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@bebe2007
It's funny to see you give advise like that, after talking about tipping toeing out on your b/f. Longthroat.
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de facto
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is this some kind of joke? as in u don't know the solutions to ur problem?! please give us all a break. she is married and thats it so u get up dust your butt and move on. u sef!
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Roadblock
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you are confused. why not carry Gun, kill the husband and carry the girl as girls don finish for town . you better wake up she is gone for good. |
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kemoade (f)
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my friend you better go on with life and forget about this girl, if it is yours from the begining there wouldn't be anything like marriag, which simply means the girl is not yours.
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arizona (m)
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@poster,
what God has joined together nobody should assunder, think of it this way, will you like to go into a marriage that your in-laws will hate visiting you . i don't even think that your parents will be happy with you. infact, if you look at this situation, you are the one causing problem for the girl. your presence does not allow her to focus on her husband. Move on with your life, there are good things ahead.
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PHEESAYOUR (m)
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seun oro lo so!!!!
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Makamiyaki (m)
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snap out of ur reverie, homeboy. u've lost her, just move on
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Rhea (m)
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vasectomy,
that may happen if her husband catches you near her.
move on. there are many fishes in the lagoon.
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