Rape Isn't Always Criminal

If she says No before penetration and he continues that is rape.
If she says No after penetration,that is no rape in my books, perhaps a mistake

what court case??

if you regret having sex with someone, that is your own fault, there is absolutely no right given to criminalize the person because of that.

A woman wakes up the day after and thinks 'i should never have slept with him!!' and the next thing is to claim rape? I don't think so

It may be regrettable, it may be an error of judgment, it may hurt and be very annoying, but is it rape? NO

@ karma

sharrap! 

If someone is mentally retarded and is not qualified to make decisions like that, then she should be in protective custody - its like sending a 3 year old boy into a bar, should never happen in the first place.

its a woman's right to say no?Once the act (penetration) has begun, it becomes very grey in my view. It may be her right, but she has made an error and it is unlikely that anyone will convict a man who was given consent till that point.

Simply put - that is another regrettable decision, not likely to be regarded as rape.

Haba,you don become even more hardline. Few minutes ago,you drew the line at where the man is a couple of minutes from coming,now you are suggesting the commencement of penetration. Unless you are implying that the usual duration of intercourse-from penetration to ejaculation-is 2 minutes.    

Assault is definitely not justified, but someone else committed a greater crime by dropping the ball - why expose her to such a situation in the first place. that is criminal negligence and is the root cause of the crime. For we know, the man may not recognise she is incapable of making such a decision.

So what do you suggest her do. . . . lie there like a casted mummy and except every hump her rapist gives her?

That's not the point. Any circumstance can cause it where she's not under protective custody. dead parents, system let her out. point is whoever decides to get down with such a person despite the fact that it's OBVIOUS that she's mentally incapable to make such a decision is a criminal pure and simple.

A woman's job is to raise her legs up while wailing like a deranged primate. Women should count themselves lucky that sex often lasts up to 2 minutes.

Osisi. . . . . you've got to be kidding me. So you who tell this to your own daughter if she was in this compromising position?

Can you now imagine a woman trying to cut it off at the 103rd minute?

I'll tell her not to go to a secluded corner with a man and take off her clothes willingly.
That's a better piece of motherly advice

To Clarify Helen Mirren's comment, she is saying that not everything sexual act called RAPE is RAPE, which means it can't be criminal.

Helen's contention was that a woman who voluntarily ended up in a man's bedroom and engaged in sexual activity – but then said no to intercourse – could not seriously expect to take that man to court on a charge of rape if he ignored her last-minute insistence that she did not want full sex.

which man wouldn't be
You now how they are?
obviously he's flattered but he like most men would do nothing about it.

Chei I meant 103 seconds.
Who dash them 103 minutes?
Do I even have 103 minutes to give when there are other things to be done LOL

My dear that may be you style.
It's like me telling someone don't do it but here this is a condom, in case you need it.

Of course i wouldn't send my child out and tell her she can put herself in such a position. I do agree that if you play with fire. . . . you might get burned. But i will tell her that in the midst of it all. . . . she has the right to put out the flames.