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Queenisha
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LMAO!!!
I'm sorry but that is rape. In any point in time she says No and he continues. . . . he is a rapist. Simple as that.
Like someone already said,don't put yourself in that situation. Don't fire the oven when you're not ready to cook. |
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Baxilexi
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@ruby, you wouldnt mind me measurin for you now, would you??
guys measure, like 2'' by 2'', (with a ruler) / ladis measure by when we do it, i shall know
@onyin, thats not fair, your relationship shouldn't evolve around you.
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onyinye2 (f)
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Like someone already said,don't put yourself in that situation.
Don't fire the oven when you're not ready to cook.
(I'm not condemning people who do such) But a person should be able to fire that oven knowing good and well that any point and time it can be shut off. |
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onyinye2 (f)
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@onyin, thats not fair, your relationship should evolve around you.
You said it not me.  |
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Baxilexi
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onyin, thats the point the oven doesnt cool down immediately.
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Baxilexi
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@onyin, lol opportunist. here's ma shouldn't
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Ruby_Pearl
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(I'm not condemning people who do such) But a person should be able to fire that oven knowing good and well that any point and time it can be shut off.
Lol! You still don't get it. Listen, you can't just turn something off like that! I think Queenisha explained it with the car drive. Do you know what a blue ball is? |
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onyinye2 (f)
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onyin, thats the point the oven doesnt cool down immediately.
So then go outside and cool off. @onyin, lol opportunist.
And you know this  |
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Queenisha
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onyin, thats the point the oven doesnt cool down immediately.
Exactly ma point. (I'm not condemning people who do such) But a person should be able to fire that oven knowing good and well that any point and time it can be shut off.
Once you realise the consequences of sticking your hand into a 400 degree oven that has just been turned off no froblem |
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Sisikill
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You know this won’t be a problem if everyone took my advice and conducted there relationship like a business transaction.
1st phase (Introduction) if you like each other, then you go to the
2nd phase (Listening to each other’s offer and counteroffers this is where the woman can ask for a thorough perusal of the man’s abunga.)
3rd phase(Accepting of rejecting the offers) if you accept, then next step
4 phase (Draw papers up stating the clearly what the terms and conditions are)
Voila! Rape will be a thing of the past.
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Queenisha
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Lol! You still don't get it.
Listen, you can't just turn something off like that!
I think Queenisha explained it with the car drive.
Do you know what a blue ball is?
She'll get it someday. In her twenties |
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tpia
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this is why black women are always taken for granted.
White women demand more respect for themselves and they get it.
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onyinye2 (f)
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Lol! You still don't get it.
Listen, you can't just turn something off like that!
I think Queenisha explained it with the car drive.
Do you know what a blue ball is?
So what are you telling me that the chick should just lay there like a casted mummy, and accept the multiple thrust from her man? |
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Baxilexi
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@onyin,good to know you permit promiscuity So then go outside and cool off. And you know this |
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onyinye2 (f)
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@onyin,good to know you permit promiscuity
When i meant my "going outside" I meant the dude should go for a walk or something because he access has be denied. |
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Uche2nna (m)
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Laffing ma head off You know this won’t be a problem if everyone took my advice and conducted there relationship like a business transaction.
2nd phase (Listening to each other’s offer and counteroffers this is where the woman can ask for a thorough perusal of the man’s abunga.)
 The man should also be allowed some inspection. Bra assisted boobs and , She'll get it someday.
In her twenties
We hope |
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HR.hotness (f)
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When i meant my "going outside" I meant the dude should go for a walk or something because he access has be denied.
swthrt. . . u can't just turn on and turn off a human being like he was a piece of electronic. . . we all knw how guys are so why play with them that way? why do expect them to behave anything but how they r programmed to behave? your stand sounds rather selfish. . . the world doesnt reveolve around u, u know? |
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HR.hotness (f)
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You know this won’t be a problem if everyone took my advice and conducted there relationship like a business transaction.
1st phase (Introduction) if you like each other, then you go to the
2nd phase (Listening to each other’s offer and counteroffers this is where the woman can ask for a thorough perusal of the man’s abunga.)
3rd phase(Accepting of rejecting the offers) if you accept, then next step
4 phase (Draw papers up stating the clearly what the terms and conditions are)
Voila! Rape will be a thing of the past.
You got the right idea there girl!  i kind of work along those lines. . . to avoid any misconceptions |
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onyinye2 (f)
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swthrt. . . u can't just turn on and turn off a human being like he was a piece of electronics. . . we all knw how guys are so why play with them that way? why do expect them to behave anything but how they r programmed to behave?
your stand sounds rather selfish. . . the world doesnt reveolve around u, u know?
(jeez i really want to know how do i come off as selfish?) |
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Uche2nna (m)
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When i meant my "going outside" I meant the dude should go for a walk or something because he access has be denied.
Or maybe take a cold bath I thot that Onyi was like 15. Now I am even begining to doubt that. |
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Sisikill
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why would u go so far if u aren't going to go all d way. . .
d issue with date rape is that its usually guys u've just met. harmless flirting is ok but why go with him to his hotel room if u hav no plans of going all d way
Exactly! Once you start, you better be ready to finish it simple. I mean if a woman accuses a guy of rape, then its up to him to prove himself innocent.
Sometimes its not always about whether or not a woman led a man on. A lot of (black) men have fallen into this trap, which is very unfortunate. Life isnt always fair.
oyibo women especially- if they say stop then stop. Even then the man may still get into legal trouble like Kobe Bryant.
Black women may overlook a lot of things, but not every woman is like that.
Really? How can he prove he didn't prove he didn't rape her? I'd think she is the one who has to prove she was raped. If that's how it is, then it's is completely unfair. |
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Baxilexi
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onyin, you know what, go to a store pick up FHM, or playboy, or any of those men magazine and you would get the definition of sex from a mans point of
view, or better still ask a mentor. but i aint askin you to get some now.
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Ruby_Pearl
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So what are you telling me that the chick should just lay there like a casted mummy, and accept the multiple thrust from her man?
What am saying is, sometimes, a woman goes too far sef. There's flirting and there's FLIRTING. As Queenisha said, once you let a man lead you inside the hotel room, let him touch you, let him take off your clothes, let him rub on you, honey, you're giving him a GO! The man is aroused, once he's in there, he can barely control himself to let it out, talkless of stopping. If men could stop having pregnancy doing unprotected sex, don't you think they'd have pulled out when they wanted. The point is, THEY cannot stop even if they wanted to, it's uncontrollable. |
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onyinye2 (f)
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What am saying is, sometimes, a woman goes too far sef.
There's flirting and there's FLIRTING.
As Queenisha said, once you let a man lead you inside the hotel room, let him touch you, let him take off your clothes, let him rub on you, honey, you're giving him a GO!
The man is aroused, once he's in there, he can barely control himself to let it out, talkless of stopping.
If men could stop having pregnancy doing unprotected sex, don't you think they'D have pulled out when they wanted. The point is, THEY cannot stop even if they wanted to, it's uncontrollable.
What im saying is that you can't put all the blame on the woman. The man is not untamed creature. He is a human being. Which has something called logic instilled in to their brains. If the woman doesn't want to go through with the act, it might be hard, but the man has to stop. onyin, you know what, go to a store pick up FHM, or playboy, or any of those men magazine and you would get the definition of sex from a mans point of
view, or better still ask a mentor. but i aint askin you to get some now.
Gross. Or maybe take a cold bath I thot that Onyi was like 15. Now I am even begining to doubt that. So i guess Uche, you are back for round 2 of insults. |
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davidylan (m)
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What am saying is, sometimes, a woman goes too far sef.
There's flirting and there's FLIRTING.
As Queenisha said, once you let a man lead you inside the hotel room, let him touch you, let him take off your clothes, let him rub on you, honey, you're giving him a GO!
The man is aroused, once he's in there, he can barely control himself to let it out, talkless of stopping.
If men could stop having pregnancy doing unprotected sex, don't you think they'D have pulled out when they wanted. The point is, THEY cannot stop even if they wanted to, it's uncontrollable.
who said so? There is only one point of no return i am aware of and that is when a man is on the brink of orgasm. Anything outside that a man is fully in control and can stop when he wants to. If i took a woman to my bedroom and took of her clothes and she says no . . . no is no . . . wear your clothes and leave especially if we just met. |
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HR.hotness (f)
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What im saying is that you can't put all the blame on the woman. The man is not untamed creature. He is a human being. Which has something called logic instilled in to their brains. If the woman doesn't want to go through with the act, it might be hard, but the man has to stop. Gross. So i guess Uche, you are back for round 2 of insults. men arnt wired like us ok? u dont build that kind of anticpation and then expect him to cool off. . . that is what i meant by being selfish. . . if u want to stop, do so befor it goes too far! I dont see uche's statemnt as an insult oh. . . it kinda hard to believe u r older than 12  . . . no insult meant here either |
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onyinye2 (f)
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I don't see uche's statemnt as an insult oh. . . it kind of hard to believe you're older than 12 . . . no insult meant here either So by me saying that men are not untamed animals as you guys described them. . . . . . makes me a minor? Then so be it. |
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Ruby_Pearl
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who said so? There is only one point of no return i am aware of and that is when a man is on the brink of orgasm. Anything outside that a man is fully in control and can stop when he wants to. If i took a woman to my bedroom and took of her clothes and she says no . . . no is no . . . wear your clothes and leave especially if we just met.
If it's controllable, then tell me why there are so much unwanted pregnancy. BtW, why would you be having sex with a woman you just met? AIDs is real, you know  @oyinye You this woman, you just made me burn my brownies I was cooking in the oven just b/c I couldn't stop typing a reply to you. Abeg, I'm not an expert on this topic, let mesmy help you |
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onyinye2 (f)
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@oyinye
You this woman, you just made me burn my brownies I was cooking in the oven just b/c I couldn't stop typing a reply to you.
Abeg, I'm not an expert on this topic, let mesmy help you
Sorry oh! Just wanted to make a point. |
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Baxilexi
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@onyin,gross nah more like nice anyways its nice chattin with you, sort of missed you, wierd aint it?  i have to go eat, catchya later.  atleast this is permitted in onyin's world. @ruby, i do no what to tell you?? always be ruby okay. eww nice make sure you clean ma slobber latter. |
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davidylan (m)
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If it's controllable, then tell me why there are so much unwanted pregnancy. BtW, why would you be having sex with a woman you just met? AIDs is real, you know the "i cant control myself" line is what men use when they want to pressure a naive girl into letting them have what they want. No guy can deny never having used it successfully. if you can control yourself when she is on her period then you have no excuse. BtW, there are some things called condoms you know. |
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onyinye2 (f)
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@onyin,gross nah more like nice anyways its nice chattin with you, sort of missed you, wierd aint it? i have to go eat, catchya later. atleast this is permitted in onyin's world. You have been loyally dismissed. |
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