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sammie.k (m)
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condom does reduce pleasure definitely, but it has its own advantages apart from prevention from stds and pregnancy. It prolongs the sex period, thereby making it pleasurable this way. So, the advantages outweighs the disadvantages. Always use one please.
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goodguy (m)
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Skin to Skin gon get you STD Skin to skin will be history when u get HIV!! I don't think this has anything to do with the topic at hand. The topic says "Do condoms reduce pleasure?" Had it been, "Is sex safer with condoms?", then your posts quoted above will apply. But for now, stick to the topic! and you still gon get the same result using a condom cept for if you don't know how an orgasm is achieved. Go back to SexEd 101!!! I don't mean to sound rude, but please, if u can't wait to have sex when you are married, USE CONDOM! Apart from STD's I'm sure majority of u aren't ready for babies, or reading to father babies.
Sex with condoms can be pleasureable if you know what you are doing. Some of u are even happy to blow your trumpet and say it's not pleasureable with condom. Immature-ness! I still say, if u know what u are doing, sex with condom won't be a problem for u. And like someone said, get the right condom that fits your 'ding dong'. It's not as if the condom will be a nylon bag on your 'thing'. Buy your size! All these have nothing to do with the topic. Read the topic again. It doesn't ask, "Do condoms kill pleasure", rather, it asks, "Do condoms reduce pleasure?" How on earth would you know this if you haven't had sex before? Please, simply answer the question - YES or NO, and give 'YOUR' genuine experiences, not what you read in books or what you watched on TV. Also, note that different people have different experiences, so this is not about 'knowing what they're doing', rather, it's about 'saying what they've felt'. Those who you listen to on TV most likely talk about their own personal experiences too. I might not have had sex, but i know damn well what I'm saying (or so i think). I actually don't think so. Hot-angel is right. Reduced pleasure is better than AIDS or Gonorrhea! But I don't think that's what this topic is about. between, nice posts by Christino, idiot & sonics.
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zebudaya (m)
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Nobody is asking for the advantages of condoms. Nor do we need anybody to preach that AIDS is real The question is do condoms reduce pleasure or not?@ the young virgins in the house All i have to say is drive slow and don't be in a hurry to grow up, right now you think you are going to have an orgasm by penile penetration alone the "older" women in the house would disagree with you, and also i really think you believe women have orgasms every time they have sex, In a couple of years (I hope) when you start having sex you would be in for a rude awakening, everything is overrated  , and don't trust everything you see in the movies or you read in cosmo slow down baby, @sammie k you said sex with condom prolongs sex, and makes it pleasurable , for who? :you are not feeling much thats why you last longer, and you are probably drying the woman out.
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damygurl (f)
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@ good guy we did answer the question but when peeps like Zeb start saying they don't lke using condom it was our civic duty to tell them about the risk of not using one!!! get it?!!!! read through our posts again and you gon see our answer don't feel like repeating myself.
condoms like Vibrating condoms give more and extra pleasure dan skin to skin.
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damygurl (f)
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Aight Zeb go tape your mouth. you are actually proud to tell everybody you don't make all the peeps you've slept with come everytime you've had sex with them. that is called Bad Sex!!!
i don't read cosmo!!
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CalabarMan (m)
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Hmmm lots of theory on this post by virgins. well let me give you all the koko of this matter. Condom does reduce pleasure. How come when you go into shops in winter and want to feel the texture of a cloth, you first remove your gloves eh,
The surface of a mans privates has a lot of sensors which the condom blocks out or reduces the feedback. Why is it that people who have quick ejaculation are always advised to try doing it with a condom.
Now I have also met babes who are alergic to condoms and come up with alergic reactions if they come into contact with one.
Someone once told me that sex is a thing of the mind. Crap
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LoverBwoy (m)
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YEs it does n it beginning to get on me nerves i think someone should invent something better than a condom with the same advantage of a condom if only there was a pill for std n pregnancy 
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goodguy (m)
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Calabarman, abeg tell them jare.
I don't know what's wrong with these so-called virgins, proving to know something they're completely ignorant of (that's if at all they're virgins).
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damygurl (f)
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can't you guys read? there are actually condoms that prolong and give more pleasure. they even got them at walmart if you too shy to go to a sex shop!!
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LoverBwoy (m)
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damygurl what are they called? i don't mind if u send me some(about a dozen x3)  then i can recommend it 
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zebudaya (m)
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Yea they have pills they claim adds extra 2 inches to the privates does it work they have pills that claim to burn fat no need for exercise they have pills that claim to restore hair loss they have machines which claim you only need to exercise 4 mins a day and build a sculpted body DO they work? Ok your point is that vibrating condoms are better than skin to skin. For YOU right  have you used them before. It's too simple, but you don't get the basics
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goodguy (m)
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can't you guys read? there are actually condoms that prolong and give more pleasure. they even got them at walmart if you too shy to go to a sex shop!!
How do you know? You mean, you know better that the experienced ones here?  Stop coming here to post what someone told/taught you, or what you watched on TV or read in books, ok? Please, note also that different people have different experiences. So read, learn and stop arguing!!!
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damygurl (f)
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@goodguy did i say that? but if an experienced guy is gon open his mouth and say stuff like women don't have orgasm everytime they have sex, and blame it on d condom that's just pathetic and it don't speak well for the guys. . and Zeb been a virgin doesn't make me dumb i know there r different wayz for gurlz to come apart from the real thing. newayz loverBwoy i ain't using my money to buy condom 4 you. Go to walmart or any sexshop 4 that matter. some of d names r: vibe, touch, ignite,
i ain't saying anything on this topic again because most of the so called experienced guys don't actually know anything about Good Sex!!!Gosh!!!
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LoverBwoy (m)
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in my village we don't have walmart or sexshop  how much do they cost? I'm sure tehy cheap lol 
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hot-angel (f)
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@ goodguy, I AGREE STRONGLY that the topic has nothing to do with "is sex safer with condom".
BUT, i started preaching about safe sex when this so called experienced people started saying that "skin to skin" is better.
I know that no matter how much we are making sense, ALL of the 'experienced people' will Have something against what we are saying, Because they feel they can always get us by saying "WHAT DO THESE VIRGINS KNOW SEF"?
I still stand on what i said the first time i replied to this topic. If u can get an orgasm with condom on, I wonder what other kind of 'pleasure' you want.
U are preventing yourself from Std's or pregnancy, and u are enjoying yourself. What other pleasure are u looking for in the market?
Yes u'll feel that u have condom on, but that don't mean u can't Derive pleasure. U can still derive pleasure.
Like i said earlier again, Being a virgin doesn't mean being DUMB! All the so called 'experience people' are just talking (i must say, some are making sense). Having stuck your privates in a punnany doesn't automatically mean u KNOW better. Get out of your shell dammit!
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goodguy (m)
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I still stand on what i said the first time i replied to this topic. If u can get an orgasm with condom on, I wonder what other kind of 'pleasure' you want.
U are preventing yourself from Std's or pregnancy, and u are enjoying yourself. What other pleasure are u looking for in the market?
Yes u'll feel that u have condom on, but that don't mean u can't Derive pleasure. U can still derive pleasure.
You see, this is where you miss the point. No one is saying they don't derive pleasure while using a condom. Like I stated earlier, the topic doesn't say, "Do condoms kill/eliminate pleasure?", rather, it asks, "Do condoms reduce pleasure?" Of course, no one here will say he doesn't derive pleasure using a condom, but the fact remains that it does reduce pleasure for most people; but if you object to that, state YOUR genuine reasons. All the so called 'experience people' are just talking (i must say, some are making sense). Having stuck your privates in a punnany doesn't automatically mean u KNOW better. Get out of your shell dammit!
Of course they should know better. They have done it with and without condoms so they are totally qualified to have a say in this matter. Abi it is you who hasn't been penetrated that will know the effects of using a condom during an intercourse? 
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zebudaya (m)
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@ goodguy, I AGREE STRONGLY that the topic has nothing to do with "is sex safer with condom".
All the so called 'experience people' are just talking. Having stuck your privates in a punnany doesn't automatically mean u KNOW better. Get out of your shell dammit!
What else qualifies you then? Experience is the best teacher  . Like calabar man said if you want to feel the texture of a material would you wear gloves?. when you peeps get some experience then you can give credible lectures instead of making us listen to old wives fairy tales. Till then , P.S i wish i had the interest and brain power you girls devote to sex when i was 16. I would use it to solve maths. 
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debosky (m)
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oga zeb and goodguy, till you've tried those other brands like some of us have, you can't make definitive statements
i am speaking for myself, sex can be more pleasurable when using a condom, afterall is it only 'feeling the texture' that is the only pleasure??
what about ribbed c's which give pressure in different locations for both male and female than would occur during 'skin on skin' intercourse?
y'all should open your mind and stop trying to ram ur own opinions down people's throats simply because u haven't experienced what they are talking about
nuff said
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K2DaC (f)
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lmao husband at wife at war 
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Christino (m)
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Liars all?
How can Condies give mo pleasure dan d primitive Adam & Eve. Truth is it reduces it - yes, but it's not safe - that's all. END OF story. Pronto!
Save your arguments till you hear (woteva) both sides of the story. The most sensitive part of a guys body is in a cage - LOST in SPace, feeling the steam, no direct heat and you r telling me it's enhanced pleasure. Noise Over IP (NoIP)!
If e no be panadol, e no fit be like panadol. I'm waiting for kissing condoms - that's what i really need for now anyway.
Be sure u have the right partner and do ya thing, and if you don't want to get married, its up to you, just don't tell me u impregnated someone because that's not ma biz, if you must eat the whole of the liver, u must eat the gall as well.
Close this Topic abeg. Na by force?
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nferyn (m)
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You need to define pleasure first before you can give a meaningful answer to the question. Pleasure could be an extraordinary feeling that makes you come in less than 2 minutes. Pleasure could also be a little less extraordinary feeling that allows you to enjoy sex for an hour.
Now, do condoms reduce pleasure? Skin to skin feels better, but you'll come more quickly. All in all, fast-food is not really my thing, that's why I always like the second round better, with or without condom.
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Rottweiler (m)
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Condom does reduce sexual pleasure. You feel the reduction in pleasure more when you do not engage in adequate foreplay.I always advise guys to turn their partners 'crazy' with foreplay. By so doing you would get adequate lubrication which in turn prevents your condom from getting torn. Some of those that complain of pleasure reduction are always into quickies (u just want to insert your stuff and ejaculate before someone appears on the scene).
As adults, we ve all got choices. To DIE or LIVE. The choice is yours.
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DaHitler (m)
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I have no idea. I have never had sex without a condom. I think it does because all the sex I have had have not been that great. O well, ill find it if I ever decide to get married. (not likely) 
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Rottweiler (m)
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Uhmm yes, I'm 16 and I'm a virgin.
Oh my God! Are you truly 16yrs? I never knew there were such young individuals on Nairaland! Why are you engaging in adult discussions? Men or men! Who else is 16 on NL? Speak up now! I am beginning to understand certain things better now. I hope Seun is not 16 also. One has to be really cautious! Imagine one engaging in sexual talk with a girl only a few years older than one's daughter. Men I withdraw,
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yankidelta
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of course it's sweeter flesh 2 flesh but 4 d risks involved e beta 2 play safe, but 4 me n ma babe we prefer am RAW!!!!! 
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dakmanzero (m)
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The answer to this question is obvious. Lets all stop trying to bend the truth because of our moral standpoints or what we WANT to believe.
The bitter truth is that sex without a condom is more pleasurable for the man. For the woman, I don't know. Only one woman I know ever claimed the condom reduced her pleasure, and I am 100% sure she intended to blackmail me.
Yes, people. BLACKMAIL. HOWEVER, there are two reasons why I will NEVER have sex without a condom again until after marriage.
1) There must be something to look forward to. Yes, I know I am the person that advocates 'marriage is for reasons other than sex'. BUT we must realise that when marrying, we are throwing away sexual freedom FOR GOOD. Gaining the freedom to have sex without using a condom will make this easier.
2) My initial sexual laisons were condom-less until some girl tried to claim she was pregnant for me after engineering a 'failed removal'. The fact that she knew my parents and the possibility that she may actually be trying to pass another dudes' child onto my head led to the worst three months of my life that I shall NEVER forget.
ps: there is a possibility that condoms make it better for the woman for the simple fact that we last longer with the reduced sensation caused by condoms! I have also never experienced a person drying up during intercourse even with a condom on, maaan that must be humiliating,
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babadee (m)
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hell yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Big Shishi (m)
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using condoms is like wearing gloves, if u wear gloves and put your fingers under running hot or cold water, yuou still feel the coldness or heat a lot but take the gloves off, you really , really feel da heat or coldness, i used that illustration because i think its the closest  whether they reduce pleasure or not i thinks its vital that they are used!
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MP007 (m)
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what da fuk, ? A lot of guys are ridin dirty , so whats da point?
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idiot (m)
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@zebudaya - I didn't know there were vibrating condoms! using condoms is like wearing gloves, if u wear gloves and put your fingers under running hot or cold water, yuou still feel the coldness or heat a lot but take the gloves off, you really , really feel da heat or coldness, i used that illustration because i think its the closest  whether they reduce pleasure or not i thinks its vital that they are used! Like I said, there are many types of condoms. An ultra thin condom. . . to use your example is like wrapping your hand with a couple layers of tissue paper. If you have someone pour boiling water on both hands, the one wrapped and the one not, do you really think you'd feel a difference? With body parts that sensitive, most people's minds cannot comprehend the difference between an ultra thin condom and none at all. That is assuming that the condom isn't ribbed, a size too small, or something which would add to the sensation.
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Ndi (f)
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Yes! Condoms do reduce pleasure, there is nothing compared to flesh contact, at the same time i recommend that Guys/Girls not married should always wear condom if they must have sex, these days some married couple wear condoms because there is no trust in the marriage.
Someone said something about having pleasure when fingered, from experience, i must tell u that fingering really hurt, u may not feel the pain immediately, just wait till u go to the bathroom to urinate or take your bath, u get this sharp pain, very painful that u do not want to bath or urinate. i don't know if i am speaking for the babes in the house. And for the so called virgins, i tell u, u do not have anything to contribute to this topic because if u have not experienced sex with or without condom u cannot tell how it feels. Forget the Mills & Boon Stuff or Movies u've watched that contains a lot of sexual activity, u re not qualified to report anything if u have not felt it, it's like reporting the headache i am having when u have never had one.
And guys that stay long in a babe, u dry the babe out, because when u are aroused, the guy penetrates and u get to cloud 9, but continuous pumping could hurt and its becomes boring!
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