Getting Married For The Green Card (Citizenship)

wh'os actualy right?

it's the easiest way to go sometimes, just make sure the person knows about it, u know a simple business transaction.  dont try to lie or have an elaborate white wedding, i know some naija bros who made the mistake of doing that, now they are back home and can never come back to the US not even on a visiting visa.

 guess i'm lucky i don't ve to go through that,

is there any other POSITIVE option for ppl wit visit visas or illegal immigrants
(ppl without any legal status in d uk or u.s)???
u gats to do wot u gats 2 do to avoid d shame of being deported someday
or your heart skipping weneva u hear d word immigration or police/
hiding in another man's land like your a fugitive
although dis arrangie makes it difficult for d genuine marriages now cos d govt suspects every1 now

just b careful who u wan give your moni to for dat kind tin sha,419s dey out there both
whites n blacks (e no mata where dem com from), if some ppl no dat your desperate or needy
dey take d mickie. advantage or take d piss (use u anyhow and u might still not get wot u want at d end of d day)

alot of ppl pretend to love some1 and marry dem for d paper without d other person
knowing d real reason
d day wey dem get their final stay,dem go flee without notice even if kids are already
involved (VERY BAD!)

in d uk,getting your stay is not straight4ward or dat easy: it takes time, moni n proceedures
to get married,then u gats to file for your paper wit or without solicitors(best wit). u have to
wait to get a reply of yes or no. if yes, u get a temp stay first e.g. 2 years or 5 yrs. u have to
keep d person sweet for alll dem days/weeks/months/years (not easy,some ppl can be v.demanding
and diff to please)

wen dat one don complete then u fit apply for permanent stay.dis one get more proceedures:
u gats to prove with payslips, lots of bills dat 2 show dat u have been living 2geda all those years
witout recourse to public funds, etc. if u no get d real n correct proof,forget it,kiss your paper/stay
goodbye(bak to square 1). if u get proof n dem give u permanent stay then u gats to wait at least 1 year
to apply for nationalisation (to be british or apply for uk passport).oh dont 4get d life in d uk test, u must pass am 1st

i dont no about d u.s but in d uk if u b illegal immi or u get visit visa, your not allowed to marry in d country anymore
u gats to go to your home country to do dat n file your papers from there. d immi law changes a lot
dis is all i can remember,there may b more
o boi e no easyyyyyyyyyyyy

 All  I can say is get  married  because  you  love the person and no other  reason. I believe in Karma.

keep loving
x

Hi
   If you believe you're in love with her, and you consider her deserving a help of this magnitude, then go ahead and marry her. As for the fear that she might drop you; trust me, it's not Nigerian women tradition to drop their husbands especially for selfish reasons: Believe me, Nigerian women do stay with their husbands even persevering hard times except given the extreme cause to quite a marriage.
   Take this, she won't drop you after she got her documents; in fact, she'd want to stay with you because you're her pride and hero.

Pally, u can go ahead and marry her but remember that most white babes that date a black man can never date a white guy again. Why??? Because they believe that black guys are so caring, loving, understanding, loyal, sweet etc but u should know a typical african  man can love but will always be in charge. The black guys pretend to be so nice and loving but once they get their paper, they head 4 divorce.

How sure are u that the babe no dey act
U are in a better position 2 decide cos i remember u wouldnt wanna get married twice.

If u rush in there is every tendency that u will rush out

You know too little about this lady to decide to take her story hook line and sinker(did i get that right)
Right now she see's you as her ticket to staying in the US, so what u see as loving and caring may just be an end to a means.


Its not impossible that she has a longstanding relationship which can only be formalised when her status is legal

you are risking a lot for someone you really dont know her TRUE history

My advice?  PROMISE HER NOTHING, if you guys were meant to be let it happen naturally

I'm an American citizen and I'm posting to let everyone that cares to read this that It is not appreciated, especially if the sponsor is unaware of the plot.  What kind of person can do that to any human being?  The sponsor marries for love and the beneficarey just ups and leaves, they begin acting crazy then eventually trying to act like they have been abrused by the sponsor.  Don't you realize that type of behavior can cause mental instability, financial difficulity for the sponsor ? 

What type of person can confess out of there mouth that they love someone then get that person to bring them into their country and proceed to treat them like garbage, then blame that same sponsor of abruse.

What type of person would do that, would you be proud of that person if it was your family member the used another that badly?

Well my ex-husband did just that to me, he's a nigerian and was a medical doctor there in Nigeria, I became pregnant within 1-month of him being here, his mother lives in Lekki and he once worked at Bob Specialist Hospital.  I visited him there twice and stayed with him on that property for short spurts.  He was kind while trying to woo me into marriage, but got into the states and cut a new fool, is that how professionals are in Niigeria?

The result of his efforts are a first son named Victor Obinna Ezike Jr., deep disrespect for my sons father, intentional eflection of mental stress by my sons father, unstable financial situation due to sponsoring and supporting my sons father, fatherless child due to my sons father abandoning us.  Who could respect a man of this nature?

Americans are starting to become more aware of some parts of the world, and now know to look out and not to be quick to believe their confessions of love.  We are speaking out more on this type of abruse and have begun alerting the proper channels to curtail this type of thing.

For those of you have a thought about using another human to gain your papers, I just wonder if you thought about how demeaning that is?  Why would you marry someone and knowingly ruin their lives. ?

ok,

I think it's wrong to mislead someone.

I'm not sure how people can do that and know in their heart what their real intentions are.

I dont want to marry. If u want to be with somebody, u can be without wedding. But i can marry and give somebody green card  For me, married is only s*** document, the green card too. I understand people who getting married for the green card.

We all understand that some people want to get into America so bad that they are willing to do almost anything to get here.  But it's a very devious non God fearing person that will use another human being.

These non God fearing persons may find some happiness for a short period of time but in the end they will reap seven times all that they have sowed.  It's biblical it has to come to past. 

My advice to all is if you feel you need to leave your country and come into Europe, Germany or any other country is to try to find someone online that you feel will make you happy, Marry for love, not for love of a green card.

I believe that people that do this kind of evil (marry for GC. then divorce their unaware partner)  brings curse's on their entire family and any interest they care about. 

It's just not good!!!

Whats all the hyper about getting married for greencard. If you have the opportunity to do it, why ask?
If your lucky enough not to go through the waiting and tensions associated with it then Thank your GOD. No body lives in your world but YOU no body can tell it better how it feels to be a floater than YOU! No body knows better what it mean to have your heart in your mouth but unable to swallow it than U! Europeans do it, Canadians do it, Recently i met a danish student at a law firm in Detroit seeking the advise of a lawyer to contract a marriage in order that he becomes a citizen. Even wonderful Australia their citizens seeks ways to marry US citizens . Cos' living in Obamaland is like living in the SKY your totally free, you dont even have to tolerate your parents if you dont want to. The only free country existing in the world till tomorrow. Recent immigration statistics showed that the number of international females gettin married to acquire US citizenship out numbers male 5:1. so, ?

Those who say die hard Nigerians how did you come to America?, even if u were born here, ask your parent how they came here and became legal. If u came as a student why didnt u stay true and go back after your schooling?, wasnt that a question presented before you during your interview for a student visa?, So! u lied and stayed behind after sch. Obama's father is a good example. It is the so called African girls who go to America or are born their and forget the African culture who end up becomig baby mamas, who dont wanna sweep or clean, who want a man she can remote?, shouldnt common sense tell you something aint right when an African man starts behaving like an American man, sweeping, cleaning washing your clothes, washing plates taking care of the kids while u d woman acts like the bread winner?  Yeah u'll know u got him when he leaves your ASS, dont cry over split milk do what your fellow African American ladies do (wannabes), move on get another man and keep tryin until u are 60 and become a granny.
Other nationalities they let it die off after divorce Nigerian girls make noise about it! this is slavery in another form. Good enough, the US immigration is aware of internal slavery people face when married to US citizens and tht is why they is a clause you can invoke wit the help of a lawyer during the first year of marriage to get a divorce and still remain in the USA, although u need evidence, it is something u can gather without the awareness of the your US citizen spouse. Thank GOD for America brains they know that both sides have fault. The problem is that many spouse to US Citizens are unaware of that clause and they re removed from the country after divorce. This is a new form of slavery! because of US citizenship, u re telling me i have to sell my life to want yeye woman, ?? GOD forbid.

What is this one year clause you speak of and where can I find this written clause at  ?   I never heard of that.

Thank you more than you know for this statement.