Virginity In Islam

Why do muslim men & ladies lose their virginity for pleasure while disobeying Allah.

SHARIA IS OUR GUIDANCE IN ALL ENDEAVOURS, SO ONE CAN NOT RULE IT OUT. THUS GOING OUT OF SHARIA WOULD MEAN SOMETHING CONSTRST. ALLAH SAVES OUR FROM THIS.
THOSE WHO LOSE VIRGINITY IN RESPECT TO ADHERENCE TO THE LAW OF ALLAH(SWH) IS NOT THE FRIEND OF ALLAH.SO WE MUST OBEY THE LAW OF ALLAH IN ORDER FOR US NOT TO PERISH OR RECEIVED HIS GREVIOUS PUNISHMENT.
MAY ALLAH FORGIVES OUR.