Why Is It So Hard To Find Someone?

it's not really hard
say finding the right person that's hard

but u'll find  someone that' u really like or love

the girls u have met,maybe some of them want it serious ,and u don't know?
just try them,and see da ways

You are probably still really hurt from your last relationship and are just finding it hard to move on. It isn't actually hard finding someone, but it's definfitely hard loving someone cause it's an emotion we can't control. Take your time you'll meet someone soon.  

PS.
Girls lie a lot so, the girls you've met are probably just trying to play hard to get i'm sure if you went a little deeper you'll realise one of them feels the same way you do.

thanx damsal, but i have moved on.All i've said theres nothing pointing to me being scared of trying something new.

Something new, thats tryin out a new relationship, its not like i would throw caution to the wind but I think I know when to make a move.

I don't think its that hard, just that we are blindfolded by so many things that we don't notice other things that matters to us a lot.

as they say " the patient dog eats the fattest bone"
be patient and don't rush into sth u're going to regret, they right person will sure come along your way at the appointed time, Don't be easily discouraged!!

welcome to my world man.


just take your time, you don't need to rush nothing. its all good. it aint that bad to be single you know. not bad at all.
easy does the trick. take it slow and shine your eyes and one day you gon find the right person or you gon find the person and make her the right person.

do not make the mistake of asking out your close female friends cuzz it aint gonn@ work. certain things are better left the way they are.

I honestly don't believe in the "pretend - you - are - poor thing" when you are rich so that you don't attract the wrong girls, permit me to say its bullsh*t!!

You attract wrong people when you flaunt your wealth, you can be a rich and simple man, not all wealthy people wear crazy and expensive attires and certainly not all drive platinum and chrome plated cars, wise men call these "glittering toys" and unfortunatley they ahve a way of attracting easy girls, 

@ topic

I don't think its fair to ask a female friend out, especially when she is involved in a relationship, that does not mean you cannot have a bottle of drinks together, because for all you know, she could even introduce you to a nice girl like herself

Join a church fellowship.  Those ones there usually will keep the "agape" going till the after life.

No Olanajim, never had to try that route thank goodness. In ma own case, I never had any problems meeting the right people.  Infact, I was in surplus demand and could not meet the supply since I had to settle for just one.  But I heard that when people get very desperate and can't seem to find love the "normal" way, the resort to "spiritual" means.

Lol

you funny, yet right. I know about that. I know that most churches have responded to that by organising "singles summit" and other spiritual retreats for the DSS. That is Desperately Single and Searching. I don't blame them. At times the DSS were victims of circumstances beyond their control.

Seriously, there is crisis. It seem family materials are now endangered species. You are damn lucky you escape the perilous time.

for ones i agree with IYA.

o boy, enter church. babes boku for there.

Aj,
while congratulating you for a good catch, I urge you to pray and fast for those friends of yours that God may enter their stony hearts. I also want to let you know great guys abound. But they keep finding the wrong ladies. Ladies are not helping matter by looking for ready-made husbands.

Dating now aday is like what you called "recharge". People just break hearts at wish while looking for Mr and Mrs Perfects specially made and designed in heaven.

When we work at our relationship from the scratch, it helps strengthen the bond provided we are since.

The sight of DSS people made me open my heart for penetration. We must learn to love with empathy and utmost respect, trust and commitment before we can locate the missing link. Of course, magnets attract both sand and iron, an individual with wisdom who had discovered him/herself should be able to seperate iron from sands. Unfortunately, that is the missing link. To escape labour of refining crude Iron, men and women with desperate missions jumped at the fine sands and build their marriage on falsehood. It doesn't take long for the dream to crumble before their eyes.

Instead of learning from that failure, they says "good people are hard to find!"

finding d right person may be hard some times because most of d people we want are always taken.

Maybe because you are searching too hard 

Dont bother to search anymore because they are not worth looking for to have a series relationship withall they want is a FUN fun thing and when they are getting older they would want to hve something serious while their body has lost all the neccessary taste. . . 

@Sagitarius,''finding d right person may be hard some times because most of d people we want are always taken. ''
            I totally agree with you.It can be painful atimes.