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girlsoswit (f)
What Goes Around Comes Around.
« on: September 16, 2008, 01:21 PM »

We Nigerians most especially sometimes don't think before we act. We 4gt that whatever actions we take in life either brings about a positive or negative yield. A guy recently narrated his predicament to one of my friends in a popular radio station asking her for help on her programme where she discusses and treat issues of the heart. The guy is in one of the popular higher institutions in naija. He does a business which he says brings him a lot of cash which he uses to keep body and soul 2geda and uses to portray big boy in school. Someone ask me what business. Ok I'll tell u. This guy is an arranger. He arranges undergraduate babes for married men and other heavily rich men in town for
that thing u knw. And in return they would give him a lot of money.

According to him he has succeeded so much in the enterprise until the whole thing bounced back at him recently. His Uncle was getting married and was to bring his wife-to-be home for everyone to see his pretty damsel and have a feel of her. So he came to this guy's parents house and when the doorbell rang, my guy who was at home then came forth 2 open the door to behold the beautiful woman that his uncle had been bragging about. On opening the door he cudn't believe his eyes as he saw one of the hot girls he usually arranged for rich men arm in arm wth his uncle. Infact he said he still did business with the girl some days back. He wasn't sure of what he was thinking and summoned courage to ask his uncle if that was the 'SHE'. Surprisingly uncle said yes. Immediately his countenance changed. Later, he got thinking and proposed in his heart that he would not allow his uncle to get married to the girl knowing the type of person she was and 4 d fact that she was still in the business. He saw her as a gold digger who want to eat up his uncle's wealth and all he has achieved over the years. Un42ntely 4 him, his uncle is crazy about d babe and madly in love wth her. The problem now is he doesn't knw hw 2 disclose the issue to him and tell him of the girl's past. He doesn't even knw if the uncle would believe him. Meanwhile he had met the girl in secret afterwards and told her 2 completely stay off him bt she didn't agree and warned him nt 2 spoil her joy. Nw the battle line is drawn and it is fire 4 fire as the wedding bells would be ringing soon. What should this guy do.
rampagain
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #1 on: September 16, 2008, 01:25 PM »

he should just dance to the tune of d music
greatgut (f)
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #2 on: September 16, 2008, 01:41 PM »

since his uncle is madly in love with this lady, he should call the lady to order. no threat please.
girlsoswit (f)
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #3 on: September 16, 2008, 01:44 PM »

Quote from: rampagain on September 16, 2008, 01:25 PM
he should just dance to the tune of d music

But he is very jealous and thinks his uncle deserves a worthy girl and not one that has been messed up by every privates and harry. Moreover the girl is still sleeping with other men. If na u, will u allow that to happen.
spikedcylinder (f)
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #4 on: September 16, 2008, 01:54 PM »

It's none of his business. He should mind his business.

For all we know, the girl he himself might marry might be worse than the girl in question.

Abegi jor!
rampagain
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #5 on: September 16, 2008, 01:59 PM »

Quote from: girlsoswit on September 16, 2008, 01:44 PM

But he is very jealous and thinks his uncle deserves a worthy girl and not one that has been messed up by every privates and harry. Moreover the girl is still sleeping with other men. If na u, will u allow that to happen.

that is why they say what goes around will always come around

if na another guy she wan marry d guy no go do anything na because na him family member e dey run mad

when he was busy making contracts up for d babe to other guys,he never knew that it might come knocking at his door

he should keep quiet and dance to d music he put on himself
iice (f)
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #6 on: September 16, 2008, 04:57 PM »

hehehehehe another gets kicked in the kahunas by life Grin

Don't know why people be tripping, be doing things without expecting some consequence.  I need the vial of whatever they have been drinking.  I will be tripping on cloud 11 too
omega25red (m)
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #7 on: September 16, 2008, 05:28 PM »

This sounds like a story i saw on showtime.
Anyway i would advice you to just tell your uncle and if he doesn't believe you, you can just arrange another girl for him so he could see the type of business you're in.
Ben20001 (m)
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #8 on: September 16, 2008, 05:55 PM »

 :p
The Joker (m)
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #9 on: September 16, 2008, 06:53 PM »

Quote from: omega25red on September 16, 2008, 05:28 PM
This sounds like a story i saw on showtime.
Anyway i would advice you to just tell your uncle and if he doesn't believe you, you can just arrange another girl for him so he could see the type of business you're in.
Smiley Wink Cheesy wikid


Tell the girl all is well, say no more beef. You then tell your uncle you have a good reason why he should not marry the girl or find anyother reason to organise arangee runs for him and his pal. You then organise two chicks for him and his pal and of because, his to be wifey will be one of the two.
Organise her for like three different folks who are close to him. Better still organise her for an unknown and take pics. She must not marry him o! And yu ma sef go dey careful because if yu succeed she fit fefx pour yu acidic acid.

Reminds me of this hilarious Yoros film i watched last night, Jennifer, where one of the arrangee gals husband to be who just returned from Uk caught her in his uncle's hotel bed. Anywan seen it?
showbobo (m)
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #10 on: September 16, 2008, 07:12 PM »

Your story should be sold to Wale Adenuga(Superstory) OR better still our moderator Seun.He still wants a story Cheesy. .  .  .  .  reminds me of a yoruba movie by Funke Akindele titled JENIFA.
topup
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #11 on: September 16, 2008, 08:27 PM »

Wow, what a story. Many questions need to be answered first; does his uncle know about his escort business? Also, does the girl seem to want to change (though she 'did business' only a few days ago and it doesn't seem like it). I believe the only option now is to have a conversation with the girl, not to threaten her but to let her know that she shouldn't be sleeping around still. It's a tough decision because professionally she has nothing to be fired, but maybe he should just let her know that he is not about to hire his uncle's wife as an escort and he'll have no part in it anymore (which means she would have lost her job). Lastly, the guy should really think about his business, I am sure this is the not the only drama that has been caused by the agency, he should really consider whether he is okay to continue messing up other people's lives and families.

I believe this is a good thing, he was able to turn a blind eye to it, as long as it didn't involve anyone he knew or loved. Imagine if his father used one of those agencies upsetting his own mother.

Anyways, there is no clean solution to the above problem, it's going to get very messy before it can be cleaned up. He may even have to come clean to his uncle because he's holding out valuable information. Maybe he should even could ask his uncle about whether he knows about the girl's past, he should tackle this gently because the uncle could easily think that the guy is jealous of him or interested in his wife to be, lastly, he doesn't even know how his uncle met the girl, maybe he hired her himself.

Messy!!
paulmamud (m)
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #12 on: September 16, 2008, 08:37 PM »

this is the third "remix" of this boring story that i have seen.Or are all the uncles now into marrying former runs babes that someone in the family just happens to know?
paulmamud (m)
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #13 on: September 16, 2008, 08:52 PM »

wetin your friend come tell the ex-pimp?Y on earth would anyone go on air with such baloney?admitting to being a pimp and now "fire for fire" with one of his girls?!Haba!
rampagain
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #14 on: September 16, 2008, 08:59 PM »

essay writers are back Sad



but seriously can't people make their responses as short as possible,sm people don't even have time to read them
topup
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #15 on: September 16, 2008, 09:29 PM »

Quote from: rampagain on September 16, 2008, 08:59 PM
essay writers are back Sad



but seriously can't people make their responses as short as possible,sm people don't even have time to read them

Yeah, I get it! You don't have the time to read it, but some people do. Sometimes a single 5 word sentence cannot answer the stated question/topic.

I have never attacked short answer replies, even the replies that are insults or some joke that doesn't address the topic.

Well done you got a reaction.
rampagain
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #16 on: September 16, 2008, 09:30 PM »

Quote from: topup on September 16, 2008, 09:29 PM
Yeah, I get it! You don't have the time to read it, but some people do. Sometimes a single 5 word sentence cannot answer the stated question/topic.

I have never attacked short answer replies, even the replies that are insults or some joke that doesn't address the topic.

Well done you got a reaction.


huh  Huh  excuse me?
topup
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #17 on: September 16, 2008, 09:42 PM »

I also happen to be an 'essay writer'.
rampagain
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #18 on: September 16, 2008, 09:42 PM »

    Huh huh`?  are u?
topup
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #19 on: September 16, 2008, 09:58 PM »

Nevermind, I guess you were refering to the OP. I thought you were refering to my long post. A lot of people call my replies essays. .
dyabman (m)
Re: What Goes Around Comes Around.
« #20 on: September 16, 2008, 10:27 PM »

i hate long writtings
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