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Coco29 (f)
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a very good friend of mine has been going out with a guy, for about 1 year, he takes her out wine and dine her however he does not assist her financially, (that is give her money) she is going through a very difficult patch at the moment and need some help which he knows about, but has done nothing to help her what is even worst is that he has a good job and is financially stable.
my question is should women ask their men for money or should men know that women need money for their day to day expenses.
i personally believe that they should if they could afford it, if the man is broke but you love him i feel the woman should understand after all she choose him.
whats your point of view.
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edygirl (f)
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He is just nonchalant and that's mean but if I were she I would let him know I need it since he wants to be told.
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Coco29 (f)
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that is what i told her, but she feels he should know  that is why i love being on ma own |
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edygirl (f)
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she better tell him because if not she shouldn't have anything against him for not helping. some guys are like that.
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Badman888 (m)
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I know this is for ladies but i gotta say my part, why should a guy help, to me its should only be your fiance or your wife
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Damsal (f)
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I personally don't think it's a guys duty to assist grils financially, except the both of them are married if they arent' then he has no obligation to pay up.
@Coco if your friend is in need of financial help then i think she should let the guy know of this, some guys are pretty slow and others like to act oblivious of the situation, If she doesn't spell it out to him then the guy would be non the wiser.
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edygirl (f)
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It's not the guy's responsiblity to help her financially but what are friends for. Or do you want to tell me that you badman or damsal has never asked any of your friends not the opposite sex for help b/4. Must he be the fiance or husband to help her out. Or does she do that all the time.
To me she is the kind that doesn't ask for money which makes it difficult for her to do it now and if she is not why can't he help now she needs it.
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mrmayor (m)
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my question is should women ask their men for money or should men know that women need money for their day to day expenses.
i personally believe that they should if they could afford it, if the man is broke but you love him i feel the woman should understand after all she choose him.
If the women are looking to be a kept woman then they should say so,I personally don't believe you should give help without the woman asking for it, your partner or some women would misinterpret as the man infringing her space.I have given help in the past and it turned out to be a mistake,don't get me wrong I'll stand by my woman come rain or shine but no man wants to be a Mugu. Woman generally don't give financial help to their men,at least in my experience. |
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edygirl (f)
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I do give and never seen any body who has given me. I am not saying he should be giving her money for her day to day wutever but at least help at times when she needs it most.
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Coco29 (f)
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I know this is for ladies but i gotta say my part, why should a guy help, to me its should only be your fiance or your wife
badman888 u want to F*UCK don't u? should i say more |
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Damsal (f)
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I didn't say you can't request for money from your of the opposite sex, what i said was that it is not his duty to do so, so you should not automatically expect him to pick up the tab.
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FOD (m)
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. . . atimes I wonder. Why should it be the guys always? when guys have financial problems, who do we turn to? we solve it ourselves. I think ladies should learn being independent, at least when u'r not engaged.
Don't get me wrong, I pay my dues too.
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edygirl (f)
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When you have finacial problems, you turn to your lady if she has it why not?
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Coco29 (f)
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i was born in the carribbean were men give their wife, girl friend, bit on the side what ever you want to call them money, it is known that if you have to ask ya man for money he is (wotless) now i have gone through my golddigging days  fun it was to. but now i want to stand alone. |
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mrmayor (m)
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badman888 u want to F*UCK don't u? should i say more You want the man to pay for A$$,I was under the impression this is all about love  COCO29, I'm all loving all spending man,I'give your friend all love she needs and Money in good measure |
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diddy4 (m)
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me i go yarn my own. if my girl has got probs, im gon be there for her because she is there for me when i need a good massage and some hot bath. what is the point of calling me her boo if i can't be able to boo her with money. i gott@ do what i gott@ do to see her smile. if i don't notice her being in problems, she should also tell me knowing that i might got some stuff going on in my head to think about her. if she tells me she got some financial problems, i will help her without her asking me to help.
i don't think the man must help but since u guys are friends and a r/ship for that matter, he should help and stop being nonchalant.
@coco
tell your friend to suck it up and tell him she needs help. which kin shakara be this? what if the guy is waiting for her to ask before he helps? women sef, una get problem, a guy is too busy to notice certain things or think about some stuff cuzz we got our mind on many stuff.
u women should learn how to open mouth and talk when the guy doesnt know.
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Coco29 (f)
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You want the man to pay for A$$,I was under the impression this is all about love COCO29, I'm all loving all spending man,I'give your friend all love she needs and Money in good measure love  honey when i was a golddigger love had nothing to do with it if i am giving up my p*ssy he has to give up his money |
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shawna (f)
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that is so true |
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mrmayor (m)
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Why do women keep talking about giving up their pussy,what about man giving you his Big Di*ck.
Women you want to get away with murder,you choose when its love,when its romance and when its a business aka i give you pussy on the condition you pay up when the time comes.
Its either its love or a business,the question still remains What Do Woman Want, love,romance or business
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Coco29 (f)
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Why do women keep talking about giving up their pussy,what about man giving you his privates.
Women you want to get away with murder,you choose when its love,when its romance and when its a business aka i give you pussy on the condition you pay up when the time comes.
Its either its love or a business,the question still remains What Do Woman Want, love,romance or business
love when married romance as a teenager business when you are old enough to understand that men will do what ever it takes for a f*UK. |
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edygirl (f)
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I need love. That's all I want.
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mrmayor (m)
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Recently I got burnt after helping my woman,I invested the whole works,love,romance,time and financial.I'll be more cautious next time especially the financial section.
If I need pussy bad,there lots of baby mamas in Dublin who give free love,no need to pay through your nose.If I will be garrantied a good pussy session minus the drama.I Will Pay With Joy
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edygirl (f)
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So pussy means love now.
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mrmayor (m)
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pussy is not love,but some women use their pussy as a TOLL GATE.if want a pass you must pay
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desiree (f)
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I would prefer if he does not have to assist me financially, I don't even know how to start asking for money, I know everyone has money problems once in a while but still I would like him to assist in a non-financial way, there are other things a guy can do to show he cares.
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desiree (f)
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Recently I got burnt after helping my woman,I invested the whole works,love,romance,time and financial.I'll be more cautious next time especially the financial section.
If I need pussy bad,there lots of baby mamas in Dublin who give free love,no need to pay through your nose.If I will be garrantied a good pussy session minus the drama.I Will Pay With Joy
Are you that ugly?? |
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mrmayor (m)
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Are you that ugly?? No Ma'am, She just met another who has more dosh,no ill feeling on my side though.My policy now is Pay As You Go.pay for the punani when you need it,no need for the drama of love,romance and all that bullsh-it. Am sure I fine pass your Oga |
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desiree (f)
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No Ma'am, She just met another who has more dosh,no ill feeling on my side though.My policy now is Pay As You Go.pay for the punani when you need it,no need for the drama of love,romance and all that bullsh-it. Am sure I fine pass your Oga Forgive my generalization I know all generalizations are wrong. I was just wondering what would make her want to leave since you are taking care of business, and you are not pot-bellied middle-age broke bloke |
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mrmayor (m)
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I'm 5'9,72 kg. work out once a week,I'm not a spender because I have a mortgage to pay.She's a spender who doesn't care where the money comes from
am not doing any dirty stuff to make money to please any woman.
I want my woman to be hardworking and I will stand by her any day,giving women money to buy clothes and perfumes is asking for trouble,if it ain't no more she's walking.
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desiree (f)
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But don't you think, going with a baby maamaa a bit low. I mean i know there are girls out there that don't give a flying f**k about money. Personally, i don't have any form of respect for a guy that would pay for sex or think they might get sex by spending money. The same sentiments for girls that demand for money/gift in return for sex (indirectly).
Life shouldn’t be filled with hang- ups and hold-ups. As soon as I meet a guy, I feel he is not compelled to marry me or pay my bills and I’m not obliged to have sex with him, cook or clean for him (if I don’t want to). At least that way we know where we both stand and no wahala.
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