Loving Someone And Screwing Someone Else

WOW!  Interesting topic.  I guess my man can screw someone on the side - if he wants to be ASSURED that I will be doing him the same as he is doing me.  Cuz if he ain't takin care of his business at home ~ someone else will.  It is good to see a good number of men here who understand faithfulness and know what real love is.  Personally ~ I have no time for game playing.  If u love me, I'll keep u so busy u won't see the light of day anyway!

Iskwew,
u're obviously worth loving!!!!

u are a cow meat.

hmmm, love and lust. (since he's digging outside wit some b***h, then I can slug it out rite in the house wit a gigolo or a handsome hunk) afterall 2 can play the game!

are they not two different things we like to make work hand in hand
u grow to love a person, thats if it even exists
for me its just a superficial over rated word that is relative depending on the time of the day

i guess the love we are talking about is interpersonal love and it comes in different shapes and sizes

Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings. It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another. Unrequited love refers to those feelings of love which are not reciprocated. Interpersonal love is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships. Such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples.

Some feelings that are often associated with interpersonal love:

Affection: feelings of tenderness and/or wanting physical closeness
Attachment: satisfying basic emotional needs
Altruism: selfless or unselfish concern for another
Reciprocation: if love is mutual
Commitment: a desire to maintain love
Emotional intimacy: sharing emotions and feelings
Friendship: the spirit between friends
Kinship: family bonds
Passion: whole-hearted desire
Physical intimacy: sharing of intimate personal space
Self-interest: desiring rewards
Service: desire to help

Sexuality can be an important element in determining the shape of a relationship. While sexual attraction often establishes a new bond, sexual intention is considered undesirable or inappropriate in certain love bonds. In many religions and systems of ethics it is considered wrong to act on sexual desire for immediate family, for children, or outside of a committed relationship. However, there are many ways to express passionate love without sex. Affection, emotional intimacy and shared interests and experiences are common in friendships and kinships of all human beings.

Hope the bolded part helps, u can express love without necessarily having sex.

Sex on the other hand is a sport, its either u are good at it or your not. its either u are talented at it or u re not. its either u have the right and desired equipments or u don't. and all these factors determines those whose tales are going to be told for years to come and those who will disapper with the sands of time.

I can love u but still love having sex with another. two isolated events. so no need to use one to justify another though they can come hand in hand. the lucky ones are those that not only find reciprocal love but are oppourtuned to be talented and also find a talented partner. that for me is what u call a jackpot

why do we separate love from sex?

the world is sick and we are all victims of this madness,

love! such an elusive adventure!

well, we are not better than dogs then, wild men in cloths, hiding under the guise of civilization.
aint reality a bitch?

If my understanding based on other people's explanation of love is correct then there is no way for you to risk the life of someone you "love" like that by screwing around. It's impossible to truely love someone and do anything that will hurt them. I heard a story that I consider true love, a man was walking with his pregnant girlfriend when someone started firing shots at them so he jumped on top of her to protect her. He was killed but no one can question whether or not it was love. If you are screwing around and claiming love I bet you will never risk your life to save hers. Actions speaks louder than words, so don't go around like an empty barrel echoeing love so the sound waves can bounce off an make you seem deeper than you acutally are. Even if you use protection there are other diseases that condoms can't protect and the sad thing is that women are symptomic while men are asymptomic so even if you get genital warts (human papilloma virus) it is dormant in you and then you will transfer it to the one you "love" and then she will become infertile and we know how Africans are understanding towards women that can't reproduce.

don't get it wrong screwing somebody doesnt necessarily mean u love the person as in u guys love
for me love is an adjective meant to qualify a verb eg
i love screwing u
i love talking with u
i love having u as a partner
i love u as if u were one of my own
i love screwing around
i would love to love ( that is if it exists)
like i said screwing is a sport so read no meaning to it
would u have had a different view about screwing if there were no STDs and HIV/ AIDS
i bet u would

@ poster

I am sorry to disappoint you.
You have lost the world record as the jackass of the year.
You aren't the first to do it and you won't be the last.

These people sef.
They come online seeking help when their real intention is to get admirers.

always the women folk making noise
but they have forgotten this thing is not possible if they don't share the same view
and na them do am pass
go come nairaland dey rain insults on people
the guy ask question
just try answer or shut the f up
which one come be insult

@ don1demaco u sabi your own thing,  let me sabi my own 

there u go again
trying to use age to justify your agreement with me
there are some people u see and all u do is lust over them that does not mean u love them
meanwhile some people were born to be loved and u might not be attracted to them passionately as per sex
u can love someone passionately without having sextual feelings towards the person
the point is we still have active people at 70, 80 in the game so what has age got to do with it
is the passionate part of love meant to die after age 50???
do u call that love

"hey woman i loved u passionately when we were young but now that u are old i don't have the passionate part of love for you but i still love u"
doesnt sound right to me
means u were there for the sex all along, not love if u love someone no matter the condition, age of time the feeling never changes thats why its a dangerous word to use and why some people believe it doesnt exist

love the words u used there, holding, kissing, caressing but not sex
so do u now get my point
sex is a sport so love cannot be used or seen in the same way as sex
the feeling that mostly comes with sex is Lust not Love
4 me u grow to love and it never fades

that is a very crude summation.

Love does not deceive. If u trully love someone, then why screw another!!