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Em2va
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Is it wrong for a guy to be truthful with his new G.F.? because all the ones I ever had left on the account of my truthfullness
and sincerity
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KarmaMod (f)
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what were you "truthful" about?
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Tranngirls (f)
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As a lady i feel a guy has to lie because our expectations are
too much. So they have to make us feel safe and our hormones
also make us unstable.
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skipo87 (m)
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As a lady i feel a guy has to lie because our expectations are
too much. So they have to make us feel safe and our hormones
also make us unstable.
lies; thats the only thing that calms u people dwn |
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richo (m)
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sometimes you have to lie to a girl but make sure the lie is related to the truth so if she catches you or u later forget and contradict ur lie you can easily change mouth  you can only be 100% truthful when u guarantee she totally luvs u u know the stage when they are 'afraid' to loose you  |
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femzy (m)
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sometimes you have to lie to a girl but make sure the lie is related to the truth so if she catches you or u later forget and contradict ur lie you can easily change mouth you can only be 100% truthful when u guarantee she totally luvs u u know the stage when they are 'afraid' to loose you What more can one say; but really IRO ni onje wan |
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lady bam (f)
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@ post
emmmm, its ok to lie, but not the one that will distroy the relationship later
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Opslag (m)
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Most females dnt like d truth leavin u with no opthon bt to lie.
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darefestus (m)
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Lies are womens best friends if you tell them the truth they take you for granted,and as a brother you don't want to be taken for granted which gives you no option but to lie.
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foye57 (m)
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what if u don't know how to lie?
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Em2va
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Sis KarmaMod, I have always been truthful, more especially about my financial status, I am not the stinking rich type and I like to state it on the onset
to avoid any fisicufs later. I don't see why that should make ladies want to leave a guy!
My firm belief is, if one can be truthful with the little he has now, when there is much, what does he have to hide? Everythingll just flow out easily.
don't you think?
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ruffrider (f)
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EVERYONE LIE, NOT USE MEN I LIE TO MY BOYFRIEND ALL THE TIME. GIRLS GET A LIFE AND DO YOUR THANG, BECAUSE THESE MEN WILL STREW YOU EVERYTIME
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topup
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Well, I personally think that there is nothing wrong with honesty. Liars probably can't handle the upfront-ness of someone who is honest. I personally admire a man who is honest, it takes a lot to bare all, I can tell you that.
I also think that maybe your exs didn't believe your honesty at first, but when they realised that they dealing with the real deal, it might have made them feel out of their league.
I repeat, you don't get that many honest people (not just guys).
I am not sure that the girls simply left because of the fact that you were honest, they probably had different reasons, I'm still not quite sure what you were honest about, that may have scared them, but really it shouldn't matter to you because you ideally should want someone who accepts you the way you are, completely.
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