Would U Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?

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carmelily (f)
Would U Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« on: July 12, 2006, 02:43 PM »

we hear the cliches LOVE IS ALL THAT MATTERS, ANYTHING 4 LOVE< and all that. But really would u date a blind, deaf, dumb or crippled person?
drrionelli (m)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #1 on: February 07, 2008, 10:39 PM »

I just found this.  I'm surprised it hasn't been deluged with replies.

Certainly, I, myself, would do so (and have done so). 
stillwater (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #2 on: February 08, 2008, 01:35 AM »

Yes. I have a disability myself.
iice (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #3 on: February 08, 2008, 08:08 AM »

Am not exactly a cliche person hence my love get goggles.
Just so long as we get along
obstead200 (m)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #4 on: February 08, 2008, 09:32 AM »

Walahi, I don't know. I would'nt say yes or no. All I can say is that I don't pray that such will be my portion.
steaming (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #5 on: February 08, 2008, 11:12 AM »

Why not? Even an able-bodied person can get disabled at anytime in life, shit happens u kno? 2-legged people have accidents and are crippled, if it were your man/husband, would you leave him on that account? Those are things we have to deal with in life. Its' not all rosy rossy.

Anyways, i have afriend with just one eye and i wouldn't mind dating him if i have to.We''ve been good friends.

NaJa HaJe (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #6 on: February 08, 2008, 01:46 PM »

honestly, it depends on what the physicall challenge is.  Undecided
uspry1 (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #7 on: February 08, 2008, 03:52 PM »

Yes i would date or marry a physically challenged person perferrable deaf, possible wheelchair person and crippled. One time, I experienced volunteering to interpret in sign language with a blind-deaf man at our deaf organization meeting.

Because his certified interpreter for the blind NO SHOW UP. So we, 3 out of total 12 deaf members has agreed to take turn volunteering interpreting every 30 minutes in 2 hours meeting. I was one of them because I never have experience with blind-deaf person before. He was the first person I meet for the first time. I want to try for myself. Actually I have seen lot of blind-deaf students at my deaf school residential to visit shortly many times, but blind-deaf student made decision to prefer other deaf school with multi-disability instead of fully deaf school only that does not have blind-friendly equipped for blind-deaf students.

Wow!, after finished 30-minutes interpreting, my  both arms and shoulder were tired and sore quickly. Because this blind-deaf man pushed his both hands on my hands heavily relying on understanding my interpreting. Feel like 25 pounds dumbell sit on my both hands heavy i had to lift my arms/shoulder up higher while signing to interpret. Now I get the idea to feel like if he is my boyfriend to rely on assistance---that is too much!!!

This blind-deaf man is very independent bachelor to have his own apartment and job himself, but still don't have real girlfriend for all his life. No one wants him! He has no complain at all---trust with the Lord, that is what he said.
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Look at the bible on scripture verse at below: Leviticus Chapter 19 verse 14 (English Contemporary version)

I am the LORD your God, and I command you not to make fun of the deaf or to cause a blind person to stumble.
jkpretty (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #8 on: February 08, 2008, 03:55 PM »

Quote from: obstead200 on February 08, 2008, 09:32 AM
Walahi, I don't know. I would'nt say yes or no. All I can say is that I don't pray that such will be my portion.

Word
@ i'm not sure i have the patience  Undecided
E-baby
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #9 on: February 09, 2008, 04:47 AM »

Hmmm I can't date one not to talk of marrying

But then again it depend what kind of disability, maybe I might reconsider dating one if he isn't on wheel chair, blind, deaf and dumb or can't perform on bed.

And some times you can't help who you fall in love with Undecided, all the time i don't pray to find myself in that type of situation.

You've got to have lot of patience to be able to date a disable person
almondjoy (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #10 on: February 09, 2008, 04:53 AM »

That is a tough one.   Let me say this.  If you are not handicapped, it is difficult to date one who is handicapped.  It takes the special grace of God to see past those kinds of things.  So I will have to be honest and say--No!

If I married him first and he became a handicap, now that is a different matter.  Otherwise that would be very difficult.  I respect people's choices though.  If they can, that is alright by me.  I can support them if that makes them happy. Kiss
Adeadeleke (m)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #11 on: February 09, 2008, 07:52 PM »

Why not as far as i found love in her and remember sometimes there is ability in disability
adeboo (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #12 on: February 09, 2008, 08:04 PM »

Its really really hard o.
But seeing the way that i act around someone that i really like, i never say never.
4Him (m)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #13 on: February 09, 2008, 08:13 PM »

honestly no. I like to be on the move, i don't think i have the patience for that.
fataiiyo (m)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #14 on: February 10, 2008, 12:41 PM »

what if it is bowleg?
fataiiyo (m)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #15 on: February 10, 2008, 12:47 PM »

what about if the person has bowleg?
morenike09 (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #16 on: February 10, 2008, 01:39 PM »

@post
am sorry no, am not going to be nice about my reply. . . the thing is i dnt have patience and i am sometimes hot tempered, so dating or even marrying a PCP is out of the question.
drrionelli (m)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #17 on: February 10, 2008, 10:03 PM »

Is it not so that we are all, in some way or another, somehow otherly abled?

@morenike09:
What is "PCP?"
uspry1 (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #18 on: February 10, 2008, 10:36 PM »

Quote from: drrionelli on February 10, 2008, 10:03 PM
Is it not so that we are all, in some way or another, somehow otherly abled?

@morenike09:
What is "PCP?"

@drrionelli
@morenike09 just lazy to type up fully PCP stands for Physically Challenged Person. Not for illegal drug! lol  Grin

What about deaf person that is fully abled-body? What about hearing blind person too?

I have my physical disabled that is hidden that no one notices. I am profoundly deaf fully abled-body with wearing a pair of hearing aids and fully equipped around my house such as doorbell/phone ring as a lamp flashing. Nothing to prevent me from doing so! I have my own place, my own business to run, my own car, raise children, can have sex, etc. NOTHING TO STOP me from not able to hear at all!
drrionelli (m)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #19 on: February 11, 2008, 07:22 PM »

@uspry1:
Thank you!  I appreciate the clarification.

Let me suggest something.  Let's define "physically challenged."  And, let's be very specific, here. 
FactorChic (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #20 on: February 11, 2008, 08:41 PM »

Honestly, NO Undecided Undecided Undecided
hotfunmi (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #21 on: February 11, 2008, 08:54 PM »

Marry a retard? Are most men not retards?
ifyalways (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #22 on: February 11, 2008, 09:51 PM »

@topic,as long as the disabled person is not a liabilty,yes i can.
as long as hes able to make a living for himself,does not wallow in self pity,is intelligent and loves me too,why not?.
drrionelli (m)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #23 on: February 11, 2008, 09:57 PM »

Uh, excuse me:
Quote
Marry a retard?

Where did that come from?
The Sly
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #24 on: February 11, 2008, 10:02 PM »

drrionelli

please try as much as u can to ignore that deluded & dejected poverty stricken lametard!  Wink she needs therapy
hotfunmi (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #25 on: February 11, 2008, 10:04 PM »

Quote
drrionelli

please try as much as u can to ignore that deluded & dejected poverty stricken lametard!   she needs therapy
schmuck!
Rebellious (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #26 on: February 11, 2008, 10:21 PM »

hey hotfunmi, the key point here is physically challenged. That means either blind, crippled, deaf, mute, amputated and stuff like that. Being a retard has nothing to do with this, that's mentally challenged.
stillwater (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #27 on: February 12, 2008, 12:11 AM »

@hotfunmi, the world is not only about men.

From the derivation of various responses so those that are physically challenged would have to marry/date their kind?

The Sly
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #28 on: February 12, 2008, 03:40 AM »

Hotfucktard!
Quote
schmuck!

i'll be back iight Cheesy  f.uckin' retarded cretin



Topic

not even if i was given. . . . $1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000.00  Cool
morenike09 (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #29 on: February 12, 2008, 03:44 AM »

Sly, omo, calm down o. . .  Undecided the girl will never listen, why bother?
D-reloaded (f)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #30 on: February 12, 2008, 03:50 AM »

Rofl  Grin

opokonwa (m)
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Physically Challenged Person?
« #31 on: February 12, 2008, 07:44 AM »

@poster

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